Why is my heart racing when the person I like is with another girl, but I don t feel anything?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.You're used to keeping your distance from him and feel that there's no difference between now and before, not if you've confessed or know his girlfriend or something.

    2.You usually pay more attention to adjusting your mentality, so you are better at dealing with this kind of thing, and you will not show sadness when you don't change your expression.

    3.You have a hectic schedule and little time to think about it.

    4.You just longed for him, but you didn't know him well.

    We're in that situation.

    The boy I like and the one we call the brother.。。。

    Finally I know that he likes my good friend (damn it!). What a bloody plot this is! )

    It was my friend who came to me to complain and said that the defendant was in vain and didn't know what to do, so I just knew!

    My heart was racing when I first heard the news (I think it was because of the excitement of suddenly receiving an unexpected message.

    Right? will silently compare the two of us in my heart, and feel unconvinced.

    But I don't show it when I get along with my friends.

    Just like when you usually call that boy brothers, you won't obviously show your liking.

    It's just that occasionally when I'm alone, I feel sad.

    Because I'm used to disguise, I've even deceived myself... This seems to be a line in which **? )

    And I have a tight schedule.

    All kinds of club activities, chasing **, chasing new fans.

    He was so busy that he didn't have time to think about it very much.

    Maybe you're about the same as me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sometimes you don't know whether your feelings for a person are infatuated or love, many people will confuse the two, thinking that their infatuation is love, but with the passage of time, this feeling fades, maybe you used to be infatuated with him, so when he is with someone else, he doesn't feel much anymore.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You see someone you like with other girls, your heart beats, but you don't feel any sadness. That's because to you, he's just someone you like, not half of your life. When you have more contact with him, the relationship is very good, if you see him with other girls again, you will be the most angry, because you think that he already has you, and he is so good to himself, how can he talk to other girls.

    That's when you feel sad and sad.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Kindness. I've had a similar situation..It's when I see a guy deliberately approaching me or when I approach a boy, my heart beats faster.

    But I don't like that person. You just admire him or you like his behavior, and if you don't like what you say, your heart will beat faster if you like him. Then you'll think that feeling is like.

    Actually, you don't love him. No one else is allowed to copy it! Otherwise, I despise you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Remembering that your heart is beating faster, it means that you care about him very much, which can also be said to mean that you like it, and what you are afraid of is that he doesn't like you. The girl wants to open a point, unrequited love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you suddenly see someone you like, of course your heart will beat faster and you won't be sad because you don't love him yet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe it's because you have someone you like more, or maybe you're not really that like.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Racing the heart is life in itself.

    The performance of qi! Not sad just.

    You have mental hints to yourself! As.

    If you really can't be together.

    Do more meaningful things to forget.

    Drop him!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have a crush on him, right?

    On the one hand, you are not together, and your feelings for him are just a small sprout, faint but not without losing the taste. You don't have very strong feelings. So when he's with somebody else, you don't have a sudden sense of loss, it's just a faint heartbeat.

    Then again, it's a feeling like your heart is racing

    Finally, I wish you to find your own happiness

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You don't have to be sad if you like it! It shows that you like her very much!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's when you start to lose feelings for him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the face of a girl who has a good feeling, but there is no feeling of heartbeat when you see it, do you not like each other?

    The answer is yes, you are just limited to having a good impression of him, as if you make friends, you think this person can, um, have a good feeling, this person is good, you can be friends and so on, when you are limited to having a good impression of a person, you will know that you don't actually like him anymore, there are many reasons for this, such as.

    One, you once faced a girl you have a good impression of your heartbeat, you fell in love with someone, and you pursued him, but after she rejected you with righteous words, she also spoke badly to you, said some particularly ugly words, and even did a lot of hurtful words to you, causing you to have a psychological shadow, so when facing a girl you have a good impression of, you no longer dare to have a heartbeat situation, even if you know that you really like her, there is no way.

    Second, as you grow older, you have rich experience, know a lot of people or things, and let you know that most people in society are very realistic, and different from the previous youth, at that time you can pursue if you like, you can be together without scruples, even if there is really someone who opposes it, don't support or disagree, you can ignore it, after all, you really like it, but now it's different, the world when you grow up is not like before, you also have to think a lot, not only to have love, but more bread.

    The third is that you have liked someone before, but after being separated for many reasons, you can no longer be with someone else.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since I feel that I have a good impression of her, I like it, and I don't need to wait until my heart beats faster, and it won't be like this when people grow up and face some things more calmly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I just like it, and I don't make myself very tempted, but I can't say what I feel, so I don't have a moment's heartbeat.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    can only say that it is not so profound, and it can be said that you have no feelings for her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When a boy meets a girl he likes, his heart beats faster, why does a boy react this way?

    1. I was very excited in my heart, because she finally appeared.

    Love is sometimes difficult to fathom, maybe you are still alone at one moment, and the next moment, your destined person appears. When a boy inadvertently meets the girl he likes, he is extremely excited in his heart, and he keeps shouting in his heart, he must seize the opportunity, he must cherish her and have her, but the more excited he is, the more he has no way to control his emotions, and his heart will always be pounding.

    Second, I am very shy and don't know how to pursue her, and I will have such a reaction.

    Although some boys are more bold, when they meet their beloved girls, they will rush forward and firmly grasp each other's hands, but there are also some boys who are extremely shy, such boys don't know how to pursue girls, always thinking, whether to buy a bouquet of flowers to give to her, or invite her to dinner? Isn't buying flowers too high-profile? I'm afraid that the other party won't be able to accept it and lose her, and invite her to dinner, but I don't know what flavor she likes to eat, and I don't know how to ask her, because of this, I hesitate, therefore, my heart beats very fast, don't be afraid of the other party slipping away.

    Third, this is also a result of opposites attracting.

    When a boy sees the opposite sex he likes, he will be deeply attracted to the other party, and his heart is beating faster, this is a natural reaction, this is a hormone at work, if the boy meets the girl, it is the type he admires, long hair, fair **, gentle smile Dan Min Toma, gestures, all show her down-and-out and generous posture, such a girl fascinates boys, boys want to have her, want to be able to be with her for a long time. If a boy sees a girl he likes, he should also pursue it boldly, love needs to be grasped by himself, and only by working hard can it be possible to get this love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think the way is – a good fight.

    Seeing this question, I couldn't help but answer the question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years+, and the relationship has been very stable, if there is no accident, I should be able to enter the marriage hall smoothly. I think there is also some experience to share this question.

    The most important thing between lovers is communication, communication, and communication.

    There are many ways to communicate, and the common one is the usual chat, whether it is face-to-face or online, it is an effective way to communicate. But for me, I think the best way to communicate is to have a healthy quarrel every time there is a return, a return and a collision.

    What is a healthy fight?

    There are several characteristics of a good quarrel:

    One. A healthy quarrel can release one's bad emotions.

    I believe that many people have experienced cold violence, and some people even think that cold violence is more terrible than hot violence, and hot violence can at least have two people collide and touch; And cold violence makes you doubt yourself and escalates the contradictions.

    Problems are always ignored and there is no time to solve them. A good quarrel can allow us to release our emotions and make the other party feel their grievances and dissatisfaction. Only with communication can there be a solution, and cold violence will only cover up one's emotions and make the conflict more fermented and worse.

    Two. A benign quarrel allows us to see each other's character and three views better.

    Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, and it is at this time that a person's behavior and morality can be better seen. In the early stages of a relationship, we will maintain a good image of each other in front of the couple, polite, beautiful and kind.

    When our emotions are out of control, we can't help but expose our truest side, and irritable people can't restrain their tyrannical habits; Indifferent people are cold and violent towards you, refusing to communicate and ignoring you; The prodigal person turned around and complained to a confidant of Lan Yan or a confidant after a quarrel, and did not think of looking for you to solve the problem; People who don't care about you easily tell you ...... break up

    Quarrels are a necessary test for couples, and a healthy quarrel is like a test paper to test the emotional problems between us. The unfit couple lost the test; And the right couple will only get to know each other better through testing, know that ** can be improved, and become more and more incompatible with each other.

    Three. Benign quarrels can be retracted freely.

    This is the most important point of a healthy quarrel. Clearly know that the essence of quarrels is to solve problems and get along better.

    So no matter how fierce the quarrel is, how confrontational and disagreeable each other's points of view are, but because they know that they will not be separated, because they know that it is to solve the problem, they will all reconcile in the end. It's not a question of who bows his head first, it's that both of them know that the quarrel is to better run in with each other, so if they quarrel, they will take it back.

    Chat communication on weekdays can certainly help us understand each other, but just like the answer can solve the problem, our reactions and practices when there is a quarrel can really let us understand each other more deeply.

    May every couple be able to grasp every benign quarrel, and since they have chosen to hold hands, don't let go easily.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Only when you see the girl you like will be like this, if you like someone, you should be brave to pursue, even if you don't succeed, you won't feel regrets, maybe your bold and courageous confession, just impress this girl? That's not a very happy thing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you like it, you have the courage to pursue it, don't feel inferior, after all, happiness is in your own hands.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Seeing the girl I like, I am excited, but I am too cowardly to fight for it, and the relationship needs to be more and more courageous to succeed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Seeing a girl feel that her heart is beating fast, it means that you like this girl and fall in love with her, this is a manifestation of her heartbeat, since the young man is in love, be brave, confess to her, you have the right to love her, she accepts it or not is her right, don't have low self-esteem, bravely show her your love, even if you are rejected, you will not feel regrets, what if she accepts you? Give yourself a chance and give yourself a little confidence.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you see a girl, you will feel that your heart is beating fast, which means that you are already emotionally attracted to others, but you seem to have low self-esteem, you haven't tried it, why do you feel that you are not worthy of others? Since you love this girl, you can boldly pursue it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you see a girl you like, your heartbeat is normal, but if she doesn't look at you, there is also the second thing that you deserve or not

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I love it. When love is sublimated, it is jealousy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You don't have to have a heartbeat to like someone She talks to other people and what you have in your heart proves that you are jealous Jealousy is the best proof that you like him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It should really like her a little, but it shouldn't be love.

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