A marriage that doesn t make a noise is terrible, do you agree?

In fact, every couple has their own way of getting along, after all, all of us are inherently differentYou can't expect all lovers to get along in the same way。Nor can we judge what kind of relationship mode is necessarily happy and what kind of unhappiness is due to this. <>

If a marriage that is not noisy or noisy is terrible, then how did ancient people live? In ancient times, there was a word to describe the relationship between husband and wife, respecting each other as guests。In fact, this kind of getting along is not a good thing, at least the two will not have quarrels, and there will not be much resentment.

Although it won't be particularly affectionate, the days are very peaceful. This was already a good way of life in ancient times.

Although we are not very advocating this way nowAfter all, there will definitely be contradictions when two people have been together for a long timeIf there is a problem that is not solved, and it is neither noisy nor noisy all day long, this is not conducive to the development of the relationship between two people, but it will consume the feelings between each other. <>

Although it is not advisable for two people to quarrel together, the occasional appropriate quarrel will also promote the relationship between the two people. As the saying goes: beating is kissing and scolding is love, and it is precisely because you care about the other party that you will lose your temper with each other, otherwise they won't take care of you!

Besides, don't you think you only feel popular when you're noisy? Such a day is called life.

So I personally agree with this statement. Although I don't like to be noisy very much, after all, if you handle it well, it will promote people's feelings, but once you don't handle it well, it will hurt your feelings. So it's better not to make too much noise.

But if two people are together and don't have any noise at all, it's not very suitable. After all, not having a quarrel will make people feel that the other party doesn't care about them at all, so they will feel that this marriage is meaningless. <>

Besides, think about the very lonely scene after returning home every day, there is no laughter between the two people, everything is very dull, and it is really scary to think about such a day.

I disagree. Although it is said that no matter how good the temper is, there will always be times when two people quarrel, but it is clear that they can not quarrel, why do they have to quarrel, the best thing in marriage is that two people stay together for a lifetime and get along with each other.

I also think it's terrible to have a marriage that doesn't make a noise. Do you think that you have a girlfriend who doesn't make noise or noise with you every day and looks at each other and smiles, don't you feel cautious? It's scary to think about.

I don't think there's anything terrible about it, there's a kind of married life that I don't need to say, you already know what I want, and it's better to calm down and communicate in harmony.

Hello, in marriage, when there is a conflict, you should know how to tolerate each other, tolerate each other, endure it, and be angry for a while to avoid a hundred days of worries, if there is a conflict, it is easy to quarrel and conflict. The relationship between husband and wife, if one party can tolerate it, the relationship between the two people will be more harmonious. Because husband and wife are together, they must know how to empathize with each other, and they must understand that each other is sometimes angry, because if they endure it, it will not happen, and conflicts will get along better between husband and wife.

The meaning of the theme is also very suitable for the relationship between husband and wife, not that you have to tolerate all the time, but in the process of forbearance, you can take the initiative to communicate with each other, because husband and wife will often have some conflicts together, but you must know how to communicate, so that the other party can understand, and there will be no quarrels.

Only by constantly changing themselves, accepting each other, and tolerating each other's shortcomings, will two people be more tacit together. The relationship between husband and wife will be better. 1. "Marriage is long-suffering."

Marital happiness does not lie in not being noisy or noisy, without contradictions and conflicts in real life, but in how to deal with noise, contradictions, and conflicts. Home is not a place to be reasonable, and emotions are not logical, so how much you can endure can feel how deep happiness you can feel. The bumps and conflicts in marriage still need to be endured.

In a marriage relationship, patience is not impotence, on the contrary, patience is something that can only be achieved by the strong.

2. "Marriage is a firm identity".

A happy marriage, in addition to strong endurance, also needs to be firmly identified at this time. This is for the relatively weak person in the marriage relationship, this weakness is not necessarily the one who earns less money, but is likely to be the one who is good at being aware of his own shortcomings. That is to say, in a marriage relationship, there must be at least one thing that the other party recognizes and identifies, which can be career success, earning ability, being able to speak, being caring and considerate, and being able to impress each other anyway.

Fourth, understanding. If you can re-express what the other party said in the interaction, and get the other party's approval, try to do it, you will find that it is really different from the past.

5. Respect. Husband and wife should know how to respect each other, because everyone is an independent individual, have their own ideas, and can not always be a strong person, even if the other party is tolerant, there is a limit, only know how to communicate, understand, and rely on two people to maintain the marriage in the family, the family will be harmonious and happy.

I think whether the marriage is happy or not, not whether it is not fried or not, two people living together will inevitably have some differences and contradictions, quarrels are unavoidable, this is a problem that will occur in every family, so quarrels can not affect the feelings of two people, it really affects the feelings of two people, that is, mutual incomprehension, disrespect, and distrust.

1. We are friends with each other.

As a husband and wife, the most basic should be friends, and should be good friends or confidants, unless you are just a pure physiological heirloom couple, otherwise even friends can not reach the level of how to be a husband and wife, even if you are reluctant to be a husband and wife, it will not last.

2. Have common life values.

Friends should have a basic understanding of the outlook on life, the world and values, at least be able to acquiesce to each other's life values, otherwise how to be friends? Friends are still like this, husband and wife want to live together for a long time, of course, they must have common life values. How can the marriage proceed if the husband and wife pursue inconsistent life goals and have serious differences in their views on things?

3. We can fully understand and trust each other.

Understanding each other is the basic premise of interpersonal communication, and if you want to be a husband and wife, understanding is of course the most basic thing to do. If you don't know each other, you should fully understand each other's family background, education, personality, personality, living habits, etc., at least a basic understanding. Of course, understanding is far from enough, after understanding, if you can accept these things you know, you still have to fully trust each other, without trust there is no relationship, especially for couples.

Fourth, it is easy to communicate with each other in case of trouble.

Of course, there will inevitably be some problems and conflicts between people, and of course the same is true for husband and wife, and because they are together every day, the possibility of friction and conflict is even greater. It is not terrible to have contradictions, but what is terrible is that they cannot communicate with each other and let the contradictions develop to the point of being out of control, so an important and basic requirement for being a husband and wife is that they can easily communicate with each other in case of trouble.

Many couples often quarrel in the process of getting along, and some couples never quarrel, husband and wife get along, and a marriage that does not quarrel must be a happy marriage? Let's talk about this topic together!

1. Most marriages that do not quarrel are happy marriages.

Around us, there are couples who are very harmonious, and two people will always quarrel, and we call such couples model couples. Everyone is very envious of such a marriage without quarrels, and thinks that such a marriage is very happy. A marriage that does not quarrel must have many advantages, and husband and wife must be very rational and know how to tolerate each other.

But there are also some marriages that are never quarrelsome on the surface, but the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious. Some couples don't discuss with each other no matter what they encounter, and treat each other as air, just like transparent people, although such couples don't quarrel, they must not be happy.

Second, couples who always quarrel have many contradictions, which is not conducive to the harmony of husband and wife.

Couples who are always quarrelling, don't know how to get along with each other, always don't discuss when there are problems,-for-tat, such couples have many contradictions, and the feelings between husband and wife are very discordant. After arguing for a long time, the two people will become numb, and then ignore each other, and finally enter the point of divorce.

3. Husbands and wives should understand each other and must know how to tolerate each other.

Husband and wife must maintain a good relationship with each other, so that the relationship between the two people becomes more and more harmonious. First of all, when you encounter a problem, you must know how to communicate with each other, don't always blame each other, find reasons from yourself, see your own shortcomings, and find each other's advantages, so that the relationship is more conducive to the harmonious coexistence between husband and wife. Two people must tolerate each other and bring warmth to each other with love, which is the true meaning of marriage.

Not necessarily. There are many couples who usually don't quarrel and suddenly divorce, and not quarreling can only mean that you are not completely yourself in front of each other, and there are many things in your heart that you will not say. To love each other is to know that he or she has shortcomings, and to help him and her improve, rather than blindly tolerating.

Just like if you want to destroy a child, then you can indulge him endlessly, and marriage is similar. Two people who want to be better for each other can go a long time.

Happiness between husband and wife is not defined by not quarreling, happiness is that both husband and wife feel happy together, can tolerate each other and understand each other, occasional quarrels are inevitable, but after the quarrel will be dealt with, on the contrary, the feelings between husband and wife will go further, so there is no communication without quarrelling, and even playing with each other, which is not happiness but improvisation.

That's not necessarily, there are always differences in thoughts and lifestyles between husband and wife, and they will always be angry because of certain things, and they have to vent their anger, and quarrels are a way to vent, as long as they can reflect after venting.

This kind of non-noisy does not mean that two people do not have any problems, because it symbolizes an extreme state, which can basically be divided into two situations, the first is that two people really let go of some things related to this conflict between themselves and each other, and have made some changes for each other, and there is already a tacit understanding between husband and wifeSection

Not noisy or noisy in love is not a particularly good phenomenon, especially for some young couples, not noisy and unhappy, if two people have been very normal to get along, there is no contradiction at all, then there is a little careful thinking and extremely scary, if two people say that a week or a month quarrel, this is a normal situation,There are always some small conflicts between two people, and then they get along for so long, and they can get along to the point of getting married, then there must be a solution to the problem.

Personally, I think that in marriage, not making noise or making trouble is actually not letting go, but really being light-hearted, tired, and having no feelings for each other, just people living together.

In many cases, if there is no quarrel in the marriage, if something happens, the two people do not quarrel, except that the relationship between the two people is particularly good, it is really indifferent and let go.

Yes, it's not noisy, it's not noisy, you are air to her, and it doesn't affect her mood, she doesn't care, she won't cry hoarsely, and she will let go.

If there is no noise or quarrel in the marriage, it is not necessarily really let go, and it may be that there is no expectation for this marriage, and the reason why the divorce is not divorced is for the sake of the children.

It's just that after a long time of quarreling and arguing, I slowly knew the other party's style of doing things, and over time, I found that everything that should be changed has been changed, and it is difficult to change what can't be changed.

The reason why you don't make noise in a marriage is because you really don't care anymore, so everything the other party does has nothing to do with you.

This situation is generally really let go. Because if you don't quarrel or quarrel, it often means that you don't care anymore.

I think it's really letting go, because not arguing or arguing in a marriage shows that you are used to what the other person is doing.

I think so, because if you don't make a noise, you don't care that much.

Of course, I didn't really let go, but I was just disheartened, so I didn't want to toss.

In marriage, the relationship is as plain as water, and there is no quarrel and quarrel, and it is really let go. Marriage is a very existence, it pays attention to a lot of art, some people get happiness from marriage, and some people live extremely painful because of marriage.

1. Get along coldly

Second, I don't care about the other party

The word "jealousy", which we can often hear from couples' conversations, expresses from the side that a person cares about the other party, when there is no such feeling in marriage, it means that the love between you is gone, we may not know what he went through to come out of it, but we can at least be sure that they are no longer in love.

3. Despair of marriage

For the sake of some people's children, two people will live on the spot, live under one roof, do not quarrel, and do not even have normal communication, such a life is very tiring, which also shows that they are completely desperate for this marriage and have no nostalgia at all.

We all know that the more a person cares about the past, the more he recalls the past, and the more he has been grieving, the easier it is to forget the other person, and the easier it is to fall into that relationship and can't extricate himself. And if he really doesn't care anymore, he will let go of all the nostalgia and even resentment in his heart, and look down on all this plainly, and he won't take the past relationship to heart