Why are flash marriages popular among young people nowadays?

In order to fulfill his wish in the last days of his youth. Most of the flash marriage family are young people of some ages, and we have an old saying called "30 and stand", that is to say, when people reach the age of 30, they will finish their youth and start to be independent. Therefore, for some people who have not yet solved their lifelong problems, it is reasonable to desperately want to find a life partner.

In order to play, the game of life. There are also a very small number of people who are cynical and regard marriage as a small* playhouse, and casually agree to get married, without considering practical problems. For them, marriage is just play, and it doesn't matter if it's fast or slow.

The pace of life has become faster, the work pressure is high, there is no extra time to fall in love, and the marriage pressure given by the family in disguise has increased, in short, I feel that it is good to get married early, whether it is a flash marriage or a snail marriage, getting married is the first step in life.

Modern people are more anxious, probably because the pace of work and life does not allow them to slow down, so flash marriage is not necessarily a bad choice. For parents, they hope to see their children get married and start a business, and someone will accompany and support them for a lifetime, and if they don't get married, maybe this life will pass in such a mess, and in the end they haven't even tried to fall in love. In fact, there is no saying that you have to know each other for a long time to get married, and some couples have broken up for more than ten years because they haven't got married, and for those young people who get married in a flash, the reason why they want to get married quickly is because they are eager to get married to each other, and they are ready for this, so welcome it happily!

Flash marriages for benefit or other purposes. There are some people who choose flash marriage, not really because they like the other person, but probably because he has money. Or he has the right.

Therefore, after one party proposes to get married, she will readily agree to get married. This is a kind of exchange, that one's own marriage to achieve the desired end.

I think that whether it is a flash marriage or a marriage, it is better to keep a clear head and think about it thoroughly. Coupled with the reality of life now, you have to have a good plan to plan your life. The cause must be struggled and managed; Love also has to be able to manage.

The contentment of love is far more important than the contentment of money.

The so-called flash marriage, as the name suggests, is that two people got married in a flash soon after they met. Maybe we think that flash marriage is very far away from us, but we have to admit that there is no shortage of such examples around us. There are many friends who got married when you didn't know anything, and when you asked, you learned that it only took a few months for two people to get married from acquaintance.

Because you have to catch up with the pop and flash away.

Stimulated. Everything that is rich in a certain amount of stimulus. Kennian people want to try everything. The same is true for online games like today. The same can also be seen in the context of youth crime.

Vogue. This includes eating, wearing, using, playing, etc. All pursue fashion. So what is fashion? In short, it's new, strange, and strange. ‍‍

Don't give yourself a chance to regret it.

<> possible problems of flash marriage, I hope that friends who consider flash marriage can choose carefully, and consider that marriage is a lifelong thing, and cannot cause tragedy because of impulsiveness and blindness.

1.The two have known each other for a short time, and it is easy not to understand the real waiter nature of the other party, so they don't know how to deal with it when the two have run-in and deviations. When two strangers first meet each other, they must want to leave the best impression on each other, so in the limited contact time, it is easy to disguise themselves as the best character to show each other, and it is easy to compromise themselves in order to cater to others.

There is a saying that people see people's hearts for a long time, so most relationships are generally very beautiful and sweet before three months, everything seems to be the happiest person in the world, but the fact is that each other comes from different family environments, from different experience factors, different personality ideas and thinking, etc., it is destined that there are no two people who are born together, and any relationship that can go to the long term needs to go through the process of running-in and adjustment. What's more noteworthy is that when you are not more aware of the other party's shortcomings or what you may not be able to bear, once it is exposed in the marriage, the cost of running in again will be very large, and it is easy to feel the happiness and security that marriage should bring.

In particular, I need to remind that some people who are accustomed to domestic violence are easy to expose the nature of domestic violence after flash marriage, and when they fall in love with you, of course, they try their best to please you, let you enjoy and immerse you, but once you encounter something that does not go your way in marriage, since there has been a first time in domestic violence, there will be countless times, which is the most important thing to be careful about.

2.Flash marriage may bring that the two have no emotional foundation and do not have much accumulation and precipitation of trust, so when there are problems and conflicts between the two, it will be easy to have no patience to face and deal with them, so that the frequency of conflicts will be higher, and the possibility of divorce will be higher.

Nowadays, when some young people fall in love, they find that the vast majority of young people will choose flash marriage, because considering that the age of marriage has arrived. If you don't get married, the time for two people to fall in love will only consume each other's time, and in order to cope with the requirements of their parents, it is already normal for young people to get married in flash. For young people who don't realize that marriage is a big thing in their lives, flash marriage still hurts themselves in the end.

When facing feelings, in fact, don't settle for a little later, you must find the most suitable person for you, and then consider getting married. <>

In life, you will see some young people who are considering getting married after less than two months of falling in love, which will be very happy for parents. Because parents want their children to find their own happiness as soon as possible, but they have never asked their children whether they want to get married, most of the reasons for young people's flash marriages are because they are afraid of being urged to marry by their parents. had to find a makeshift person to get married, and for such a makeshift life, it was difficult for two people to have a topic in the process of getting along.

Some people think about getting married, and they have to think that it takes up to two to three years to fall in love. For today's adults, they will feel that falling in love is a waste of time, and go straight to the point to talk about marriage. It should be imagined that two people have not known each other for a long time, and they chose to get married early, because the time of understanding is relatively short, consider that after marriage, the two people are slowly running in.

There are also those who consider falling in love after getting married, and there are also those who are very happy in their married life. <>

Now boys and girls have sex with two people in a short time after they have known each other, resulting in girls having to choose to consider flash marriage because of the child after they become pregnant. Even if they don't have any understanding, they continue to live together for the sake of their children, and most people consider that marriage also needs to be run-in. Falling in love is falling in love after all, and married life is different, entering married life early, falling in love after entering married life, you can take your children to witness the love of your parents.

It is because young people nowadays are very willful, they can do whatever they want, and they also feel that flash marriage is a very worthwhile thing, so they choose flash marriage.

I think it's mainly because young people nowadays are more impulsive, and sometimes they choose flash marriage when they are excited, but the consequences of this are not very good.

That's because young people nowadays are very impulsive in doing things, and they never think about the consequences, so they get married in a flash.

There are a lot of young people who don't know enough about each other. Often after knowing each other for less than a year or even less than half a year, they make a hasty decision to get married. This is what we often call flash marriages.

However, it is very likely that this kind of flash marriage will have some problems later in life. It may even lead to the eventual breakdown of the relationship between two people. First of all, whether a marriage and a relationship can last.

It depends on whether the two couples can be highly compatible in terms of three views, and for couples who have not been together for a long time, two people. It is difficult to have a real understanding of each other's three views. If it's just by superficial understanding of the other party and a momentary impulse.

Just choose two people to marry together. Then after two people get married, they find that there are too many differences and difficulties in adapting to each other. I will feel that this marriage does not bring me real happiness.

It's an ordeal. It is very likely that there will be a rift in the relationship between two people. It is even very likely to lead to the eventual breakdown of the marriage of two people.

So I personally think it's for two couples. From the moment I first realized that I decided to get married, two people should be together for at least two to three years. As the saying goes, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

Only two people who have been getting to know each other for a long enough time can finally determine whether they can reach general agreement and agreement with each other in terms of the three views. can slowly hone in the relationship between two people during this time. See if two people can really make each other feel comfortable with each other.

Especially after such a long time. Only by contacting and understanding each other can we find out whether the shortcomings of each other can be accepted by ourselves. This is an important factor in determining the longevity of two people's marriage.

After all, no one is perfect. Everyone will have their own shortcomings and shortcomings. And only when each other can truly tolerate each other and accept each other, is one of the important conditions for two people to live for a long time after marriage.

On the spur of the moment, the mind is hot, and the marriage is flashed. Under-considered.

1. The concept of marriage has changed.

In the traditional concept, marriage is a matter of two families, and after two people start dating, the two families also begin to intervene, regardless of whether they have gone through engagement, marriage and other ceremonies, in terms of concept, this is a matter of two families.

But now it's completely different, young people are freer and less constrained about marriage. The girls pursue independence financially and spiritually, and marriage really becomes a matter for two people.

2. Marry your son.

This reason is also a more common reason for flash marriages. Because the concept is relatively open, there are many couples who will live together soon after falling in love, or even become pregnant. Generally, when it comes to pregnancy, in order to take care of face, the family will urge the two to get married quickly.

3. Emotional development is relatively fast.

For some people, it is love at first sight and there is a way to communicate, so it is not surprising that there is a flash marriage. Nowadays, transportation and communication are relatively developed, and there is more communication between each other, and the mutual understanding is also fast, and the development of feelings is relatively rapid. This greatly shortens the cycle from love to marriage, and creates certain external conditions for flash marriage.

In the past, when people fell in love or went on a blind date, transportation and communication were inconvenient, communication was less, and feelings warmed up slowly. But it's completely different now, so it's not surprising that flash marriages are common.

4. Anxiety of old age and family urging.

The reason for this flash marriage should be the most common. For some older and unmarried men and women, watching the people around them get married one by one, and they are still single, they are more anxious. Coupled with the urging of family members, they often have a more anxious attitude towards marriage.

At this time, once you meet the right person, you will go straight to get married, and in the group of flash marriages, older young people do account for a relatively large part. Some girls are old and often talked about by their families, and they can't bear the pressure, so they just get married on a blind date as soon as possible.

Now flash marriage has become the most popular marriage mode for young people, flash marriage to a certain extent to meet some people's eager desire to marry, but the biggest disadvantage of flash marriage is that the two parties get along for a short time, and they have little understanding of each other, and these potential problems will be concentrated after marriage, which directly affects the feelings between husband and wife. Emotions must be tempered by time, and they can only go through the precipitation of time to establish whether the other party is a person who can go through the lower body hand in hand.

At the end of the day, married life must present itself to each other without sparing any effort and endure the flaws that are prevalent in the other spouse. If two people choose a flash marriage, they will be able to grasp exactly what kind of person the other party is after marriage, and the enthusiasm at that time will gradually disappear. Therefore, the first disadvantage of flash marriage therefore depends on the poor durability of married life, which must be maintained by a great deal of diligence from each other.

1. Not knowing each other well enough.

Because it is a flash marriage, the time spent together must be very short. It takes at least a year or two for most people to fall in love and get married. The longer the time, the stronger the emotional foundation and the more understanding the other person will be.

When you get to know each other well enough and then walk into the marriage hall together, then your married life will always have a tacit understanding. However, if you choose a flash marriage directly, it means that your relationship will not be very deep, and you don't know each other well enough. At this time, your married life often leads to a lot of conflicts because you don't know each other well enough.

Second, the novelty quickly faded.

In the process of falling in love, there are periods of hot love and cold love. When you are in love, you want to see each other every day and insist on communicating with each other every day, but what about in the cold period? Countless times I have thought about asking Hui Lu to break up with each other, especially for young people, so that the novelty will disappear quickly, and the last thing to maintain the marriage is mutual understanding and tolerance.

However, if you choose a flash marriage, the novelty of married life will disappear quickly, which will make your life very boring, and you may regret choosing a flash marriage.

3. You may not get the approval of your family.

Of course, your family wants you to be happy. If you choose a flash marriage, your partner may not be approved by the family for a while. Because they want you to spend more time together so that you can get to know each other well enough to see if you are fit to get married and can spend the rest of your life together.

However, if you choose to get married in the first place, your partner may not be approved by your family. Half a year and a year, it seems to be a relationship, but basically it is still in the state of the moon halo with a sense of love, and it is difficult to accurately understand the truest side of the other party.

Who doesn't fall in love at first sight? However, love wrapped in candy wrappers is both beautiful and poisonous.

Mutual attraction and then feeling romantic and warm are all out of need. After the demand, there is what we often call expectation.

We will unconsciously add our understanding and expectations for our lovers and expand our imagination for the future.

We can't change a person, and at the same time, we don't have to let go of unrealistic expectations.

The love of the moon halo phenomenon is flashy, and the most necessary basis to recognize its truth is time, not just intelligence.