My boyfriend sent a message saying that it s not easy to love someone, and it s even harder to get s

Updated on psychology 2024-03-09
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nothing is for no reason, did you say something to your boyfriend earlier about feeling about life, and he sent you a message like this.

    Or maybe he sees some news and feels that it is not easy to be with you, and it is even more difficult to ...... two loves

    In general, it's not a bad thing, it can only be said that your boyfriend is more easily emotional, easy to be moved by some things, and you don't have to be too serious.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In his opinion, I wonder if you love him?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your boyfriend sends you a message saying that it is not easy to love someone, and it is even more difficult to get a person's love, it means that he still attaches more importance to this feeling, and his understanding is still a relatively deep emotional run-in process, and it is the most intense stage, in this process, sweet can be very sweet, bitter can be very bitter.

    I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if it's just been together for a few months, no matter how you look at love.

    How open is the view of marriage, I don't recommend you to live together.

    At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

    When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship and enjoy the current period of love.

    That's it. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

    If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

    Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

    My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

    From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

    However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

    Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

    If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

    Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

    If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.

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