What are the etiquettes of a family banquet? What are the etiquette for attending banquets?

Different places have different rules.

The meaning of the family feast is: the family gathers together to feast and drink; Private banquets are for state banquets and public banquets.

Source: 1, Yuan Ma Zhen "West Lake Spring Grand Tour is the Thing" poem No. 7: Trouser sedan chair and "tassels hang on the bow of the boat; The embroidered forehead bead curtain is not hooked. "Golden Wisp" slows down the singer's banquet and travels to the lake before noon. ”

2, Ming Shi Nai'an's "Water Margin".

The twelfth episode of "Urgent Pioneer Dongguo Fights for Merit, Blue-faced Beast Beijing Fights for Martial Arts": I don't feel that time passes quickly, and early spring and summer come, when it is the Dragon Boat Festival, the Ruibin Festival is coming, Liang Zhongshu and Mrs. Cai have a family banquet in the back hall to celebrate Duanyang.

3, "Warning to the World: Qiao Yanjie's Concubine Breaks Home": "Suddenly the Mid-Autumn Festival in August is coming, Gao's.

Ask Xiao Er to buy some fish, flesh and fruits, and arrange a family banquet. ”

4, "Three Heroes and Five Righteousness".

The second time: "One day is Zhou's birthday, no outsiders are invited, and their own family banquet is held." ”

5, Qing Zhaolian "Xiaoting Miscellaneous Records: Li Gongqin Gong": "The new general of Chengdu is in the position, and if the public thinks about it, it will be great if it is not for wine, and if it is placed, it will be broken. Then when he arrived at his home, he fed a dolphin and burned a sail to sell sheep, so that Wu Benwan said

I want to succumb to the department, and I want to hear about my family, so I would like to use this to support my family. ’”

A family meal is a form of banquet that is held in the name of a private person at home. Generally, the number of people is small, there is no strict etiquette, there is no limit to the number of dishes, and the guests and chairmen talk casually, relaxed and lively, free.

It is usually on holidays or other festive days to gather with family and friends, to share happiness and celebrate joy between cups, and to exchange feelings, enhance friendship and strengthen unity. Hospitality is a traditional form of etiquette and an important means of socializing.

About the etiquette of family dinners

a) Time selection.

The time of the treat should be chosen on the day when everyone rests, in the three meals a day, our country generally takes lunch as the main meal, Western countries.

Treats are often in the evening. With the changes in China's economic life, the number of guests serving dinner is also increasing.

The choice of time should be agreed with the main guest in person or **, and other guests can meet in person, **, written appointment or invitation. Invitations are available for grand family dinners.

Invitation, as a sign of solemnity.

b) Preparation of dishes.

The family banquet does not have to be too rich, but the variety should be taken care of as much as possible, cold dishes, hot dishes, large dishes, soups should be prepared, wine should be used before meals, cold dishes should be more, and people who can drink less or do not use alcohol, cold dishes can be less. The grade of the dish should be appropriate, and do not blindly pursue high-end and excessive extravagance. Cooking is a lot of work.

If the host is only busy cooking, he will neglect the guests and affect the conversation with the guests.

Alcohol and beverages are indispensable. The process of drinking alcohol is a good time to talk, catch up, and enhance feelings. A well-timed toast and a proper wine order will create a joyful atmosphere for the family feast.

Therefore, there is a saying that "no wine is not a feast". Liquor and fruit wine should be prepared according to the situation of the guests.

Beer and drinks to keep guests entertained.

c) Other preparations.

Before guests come, the room should be tidied up, and the courtyard and stairs should also be cleaned. Tell your family; In particular, it is necessary to educate children well, to welcome guests warmly, to receive them warmly, and to pay attention to civility and politeness. If there are elderly people, please ask the elderly to accompany the guests to talk, the older children can help in the kitchen, and the younger ones can be arranged to read books and watch TV in another room, so as not to disturb them often.

At wedding receptions or other banquets, there may be a variety of strange phenomena, some of which are listed below:

First of all, some guests will eat at the banquet with a very ugly appearance, making loud noises, or grabbing food with their hands. This behavior not only affects the dining experience of other guests, but also makes the host feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.

Secondly, some guests will occupy more than one seat at the banquet, making it impossible for other guests to be seated. This behavior may be because they want to reserve a place for their friends or family, but it can be upset and uncomfortable for other guests.

In addition, some guests will take away large amounts of leftover food at the banquet, or even pack the entire dish away. This behavior not only prevents other guests from tasting the dishes, but also wastes food and ruins the atmosphere of the banquet.

Some guests may disturb the couple at the banquet, such as asking for a photo session or a show. This behavior will not only affect the course and atmosphere of the banquet, but also make the couple feel uncomfortable and distressed.

Finally, there are some guests who may get drunk or lose their temper at the banquet, such as spitting bubbles and fighting. This behavior will not only affect the dining experience of other guests, but will also cause trouble and distress for the host.

In conclusion, there may be all kinds of strange phenomena at the banquet, which will not only affect the dining experience of other guests, but also make the host feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. Therefore, when attending a banquet, we should pay attention to our own behavior, respect the feelings of the host and other guests, and jointly maintain a good banquet atmosphere and etiquette norms.

1. Swallow things that are free to put out and waste food at will.

In some cases, food items such as potato chips, juices, and biscuits are often provided free of charge, and some people will enjoy them as if they were their own private goods, and they will be moved, taken away or constantly requested, affecting the use of the venue and others, and also wasting public resources and food.

2. Improper makeup and clothing.

In large-scale gatherings and banquets, many people will deliberately dress up, but in terms of manners, speech, makeup and clothing, they often cross the line and are inappropriate, which is easy to make people feel disgusted, embarrassed and tense, and are criticized and disdained by others.

3. Pack up and leave, occupy a seat and persecute people.

Some people in such occasions always try to use every possible space, location or table seat resource for their own benefit. If you are rejected, you will also play tricks and lose your temper, so that others have to compromise. This lack of politeness and professional skill can not only cause embarrassment, but also leave a bad review and bad impression.

4. Bringing pets: Sometimes, people bring their pets to banquets, whether it's dogs, cats, or other animals. While some people see pets as part of the family, bringing pets on formal occasions can cause discomfort and trouble for others.

5. Excessive drinking and gaffes: Some people drink excessively at banquets, resulting in drunken gaffes. They may be loud and loud, arguing or even fighting, causing uneasiness and distress to other guests.

6. Excessive attention to mobile phones: People nowadays are increasingly reliant on mobile phones, even at banquets. Some people will keep staring at their phone screens, completely ignoring the people and activities around them, and lacking due courtesy and social interaction.

In my opinion, everyone should maintain basic courtesy and respect when attending banquets or other formal occasions, respect the rules and arrangements of the organizers, and observe certain social etiquette. Banquets are occasions for people to gather together to share food and joy, and we should treat each other with respect and friendliness to create an atmosphere of joy and harmony. At the same time, it is also the responsibility of the organizer to establish clear rules and management measures to ensure the order and quality of the banquet.