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I agree with the meaning of this sentence. Man is a complex emotional creature. They convey their hearts through a variety of expressions and words. Human beings themselves are natural masters of camouflage, and it is difficult to see the true qualities of a person after a short period of contact.
People always like to spend time with great people or like to make friends with great people. Maybe it's because I can learn something from them, or because being with him can increase my knowledge, increase my opportunities, broaden my horizons, increase my circle, etc. When it comes to spending time with people who are better than you, people tend to be relatively polite and humble for the above reasons.
In order to be able to talk with people who are better than themselves, I will also behave, or disguise, and be as good as them. Normal people may think like this, such as being proactive in front of their leaders at work; Listen carefully in front of your elders; The teacher's questions were respectful.
But when a person is weaker than him or not as good as him, when his ability is not as good as his, when his life is not as good as his. In this case, he did not have the above considerations. There are no worries to show the truth.
There is no need to pretend to please Bajie, everyone is an ordinary person. Even when the other party is worse than you, some people may have a sense of superiority in their hearts.
At this time, the state of mind will definitely be different from the state described above.
The attitude towards them is the best reflection of your true quality. If you are of high quality, you will behave very well with whoever you come into contact with, and no flaws will be exposed. If your quality is not high, you can pretend to be good when you are in contact with people who are better than you, but when you are in front of your weakling, you don't have to disguise it anymore.
Your shortcomings may be exposed, and people will be able to see better what the real qualities of this person are.
That's how I understand it.
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It is enough to look at a person's true character and see his attitude towards the weak. People who are cultivated, have high moral character, and respect others have the same attitude towards everyone, and there is no disguise of tending to be inflammatory. A person who can respect the weak, is willing to help the weak, and regards the weak as a confidant has a noble character and sincere behavior, and what he shows must be his truest self.
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I think yes, if you have a good attitude towards the weak, it proves that he is really approachable and has a very good character, if you have a bad attitude towards the weak and is very good to the strong, it can only mean that he is a person who tends to be inflammatory.
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Some people say that "a person's attitude towards the weak is his true character", and I personally agree with this sentence, after all, the strong wield a knife to the stronger, and the weak wield a knife to the weaker, and the weak can not show their superiority, but highlights their poor character.
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I think this statement is correct, because a person's attitude towards the weak determines his attitude towards being a human being, and it is also an attitude from the heart.
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I think this sentence is very right, you can respect a very weak person, and do not discriminate against him, which is enough to show that your quality and cultivation are very good, and your character must also be good.
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I agree with this sentence, because if a person treats the weak equally, instead of wearing colored glasses, then he must be a fair, caring and respectful person.
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No, to see how a person's character is, you can't just look at it from a certain aspect, you must observe and understand it in an all-round and multi-angle way, not one-sided, but also look at how it is dealt with in the usual way of dealing with people, and it can't be seen in the short term.
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This view is quite correct. All products in the world are for the weak, and all people are not weak in the first place.
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I think this sentence is very good, because if this person can treat everyone, no matter what his status is, he is willing to put down his body and treat everyone equally, which means that he is really good.
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Yes. If a person only bullies the weak, he is afraid of the powerful. Then he must not be a real character.
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Some people are born with disabilities and are weak, and it is a social responsibility to care for and help these people, and if they care for the weak, they have a deep love for them, which shows that their personality is noble.
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I couldn't agree more. Because it is only when facing the weak that one's true nature can be exposed.
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The weak is a mirror of human nature, when a person faces the weak, what attitude he shows, the opposite mirror can reflect whether his character is good or ugly.
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Summary. Generally speaking, a person's character mainly depends on how he has his own status, how he has the influence of his career, and what kind of life he has various attractions.
And how his personal reputation is formed, so it doesn't really matter what he is like to the weak, because people like them are busy.
For example, these influential people are entrepreneurs, and the way they give others is that you can apply, as long as you have this education, as long as you have this talent, so he will always give the weak a successful career.
Look at a person's character, and the market will see whether he has empathy and respect for the weak.
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Generally speaking, a person's character mainly depends on how he has his own status, how he has the influence of his own business, and what kind of life he has to live a variety of attractions to tremble friends and how his personal reputation is formed, so what he is like to the weak, in fact, it doesn't matter, because they are busy, so the help that can be formed for the weak is to create the direction of Rome, for example, these influential people are entrepreneurs, and the way they give others is that you can come and apply, As long as you have this education, as long as you have this talent, so Liang Kai who he gives to the weak will always be successful in his career.
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People with bad character, ** will care if you are kind or not, bully those who should be bullied, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard is the true nature, no matter what, staying away from these people is the right way.
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Strictly speaking, you can see some of your character in your attitude towards the weak.
Attitude is something that can be pretended, let alone to the weak.
Some people seem to be very kind and casual to the weak, but in their hearts they may be contemptuous, contemptuous and even ridiculed, but in order to pretend to be affinity, there is no sense of distance from the weak on the surface.
Some people keep their distance from the weak and look cold, maybe he just feels that it is not a circle and does not mix together, so that everyone is more comfortable. There is a gap between the strong and the weak, not only between the strong and the weak, but also between the weak and the strong. For example, no matter how hard the scumbag works, the grades can't get up, if the scumbag plays with the scumbag, maybe the scumbag will inadvertently discuss the topic and talk about the score, and if you are not careful, you will hurt the scumbag.
For Xueba, he doesn't care about good or bad grades, he thinks that grades are only one aspect of people, but for the scumbags who can't get up after working hard, this is his failure.
If the attitude of the strong towards the weak is merciful and not pretended, it can only be said that his heart is not bad, and it cannot represent his character, because he regards himself as the strong and the other party as the weak, and he himself uses his own superiority to put the other party in an unequal position.
Being born a human being, what is strong and what is weak, the criterion itself is a subjective thing.
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That's true, but not quite. Character is very accurate from the perspective of interests. But everyone has shortcomings, it just depends on whether they can tolerate it.
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That's right, the attitude towards the weak can show whether he has compassion or not, and you can see whether he is kind or not by nature! Therefore, to see how a person is, not how he treats you, but how he treats the people and things around him.
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Yes, this is definitely one of the things to look at character.
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A country's attitude towards the weak actually reflects the degree of civilization of the country, and in the same way, a person's attitude towards the weak is actually your upbringing and pattern.
Living in the world, due to the influence of innate environment, class and other factors, it is impossible for everyone to be equal in society, but everyone is equal in personality, and everyone should be respected.
This kind of respect is not just a social etiquette, but comes from the deep understanding, love, consideration and respect for another life in the human heart.
A truly cultured person will not elevate himself by "bullying" the weak.
Confucius once said: "If you look at the danger of the wall, you will not be able to support it, but you will not be able to push it to be good." ”
Seeing that someone's wall is about to fall, if you can't support it, then not pushing it is also a kind of kindness; Seeing people crying sadly, if you don't want to comfort them, then unhappiness is also a kind of kindness.
Respecting the weak is an important manifestation of your character.
In the face of people who are weaker than themselves, people with a small pattern are bullied everywhere, looking for trouble, and often because of excessive self-esteem and pride, they make bullying behaviors;
The person with a cultivated figure is different, he knows how to respect others, will not use his status to oppress others, and at the same time clearly knows the limitations of being a weak person, and is more tolerant and generous.
You will find that people with a small pattern are mercenary, thinking that they don't need to be reasonable in the face of the weak, they should not get any benefits, and they only start from their own interests.
However, people with a big pattern always treat anyone with an equal and respectful attitude, even if they are inconspicuous and weak, they are also based on integrity, respect their rights and interests, and will not break their promises in front of the weak.
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