Can a local boy in the countryside stay in the countryside for the rest of his life if he marries a

For your question, it is necessary to treat it differently on a case-by-case basis.

First of all, your family is rural, so is the other party's family rural or urban?

If the other side is also rural, then the situation may be a little better. Because children who grow up in rural areas are more able to adapt to rural life, because they have been in such an environment since childhood, they are not particularly disgusted by the difficult conditions in rural areas. However, there is a special situation where the other party grew up in a rural area, but has been working or going to school in a big city for a long time.

For these people, it may be difficult for them to adjust to life in the countryside.

If the other party is born into an urban person, he has not experienced rural life, or he has not experienced the harsh environment of rural areas at all. Well, the chances of this kind of person and you staying in the countryside for the rest of your life are very small. At first, they may be novel, but the inconvenience of life and transportation will make them tired of rural life.

Second, you have to look at the actual situation in your rural areas. At present, some affluent rural areas in the southern provinces, especially those in the urban-rural areas of large cities, are relatively sound in terms of education, medical care, transportation, and other recreational facilities. In fact, such rural areas are not much different from urban areas.

If your home is in such an environment in the countryside, the other party, whether it is a rural person or an urban person, should be able to stay there with you for a lifetime.

Again, it depends on your emotional foundation and your family's wealth. If the relationship foundation is good, the likelihood of long-term with you is higher. If your family is wealthy enough, go out with a car, live in a small building, and the travel and living environment are guaranteed, why not stay in the countryside for a lifetime.

Since you are worried that your future partner will not be able to stay with you in the countryside for the rest of your life, then you have to work hard, and when you have the conditions, you will move to the city. To love someone is to give her a happy and comfortable life, can you bear to watch her and you suffer in the countryside for the rest of your life?

Existence is reasonable, and anything is possible.

One of the sons of my husband's uncle, who had a woolen sweater machine at home, hired a girl from another place to weave woolen sweaters, and later this girl became his daughter-in-law. To this day, his uncle's grandson is also twenty-two or three years old.

Therefore, as long as these two people truly love each other and really want to be together, whether it is rural or urban, the two of them will definitely be together for the rest of their lives. What is a husband and wife, who can grow old together and withstand any wind and waves. Maybe the two of them will have different living habits because of regional differences, but as long as the two of them can be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, they can overcome all irrational factors together.

If you have this concern, it is a distrust of the other person. You don't really put your feelings into it, when your body and mind are all invested in each other, when the other party can feel your sincerity and give your all, then the two of you will not be separated, let alone affect your feelings because of the family environment.

Because the rural areas are poor and the economic conditions are not good, local women in the countryside go out, and women from other places are reluctant to come to the countryside, and this is the situation now

Nowadays, it is common for young men in rural areas to find a partner, mainly for the following reasons:

Clause. First, there are more and more people who are unwilling to get married.

According to last year's data report, there are more than 200 million unmarried people in China's marriageable population, and more and more people are unwilling to get married, not only in cities, but also among rural youth. This is also the reason why the number of marriages has been declining year after year.

At the same time, the popularity of the Internet, the spread of the short ** platform has been infinitely enhanced, and people's social needs have changed from reality to the Internet, and various Internet jokes have made the marriage and love values and parenting concepts of singles more marketable, which has led to young people not having such a demand for marriage.

Clause. 2. Economic factors.

Of course, most of the men in the rural society want to get married, mainly because of the strong concept of rural families and the need of the older generation to start a family and inherit the family lineage.

But I have to say that it is not a matter of marriage that can be married if you want to get married, and now rural marriage has entered the involution from the beginning of the blind date, and the car, house, and bride price are all prerequisites, and it is naturally difficult for young men with a weak family background to get married. At the same time, work, education, personality, and appearance are also the requirements of many women, so that a group of men have been brushed down, so that many men with poor economy, average appearance, low education, and poor work basically have no possibility of marriage.

Of course, the most fundamental reason for this situation is the excessive and serious patriarchal mentality in the past. This has led to an imbalance in the ratio of men to women.

I think it's really difficult to find a partner in the countryside now, my friend lives in the countryside, and the difficulty he encountered when he found a partner was that he wanted a lot of bride price, and his own family was not very wealthy, so it was difficult to celebrate the auspicious year from the beginning.

First, the traditional thinking is serious, resulting in a large number of boys.

In the countryside, there has always been the idea that boys are better than girls, why? In the eyes of the older generation, giving birth to a boy means that they have an heir, and at the same time, when they are old, they also have people to worship, this tradition has been handed down, we don't have to question too much, because it was determined by the environment at the time, and there was no very interference with boys and girls, as long as they were born, they would be raised, but there must be a boy, so the ratio of men and women is basically half, but now it is different, many people identify gender through illegal means, resulting in many people not giving birth to a boy after giving birth, The number of boys in this way has been dramatically **, which has led to the current scene of difficulty in marrying a daughter-in-law.

Second, the girl's vision of mate selection has become higher.

Due to the small number of girls now, everyone wants to marry a daughter-in-law, so the competition is very fierce, there are many boys, girls do not have to worry about not being able to marry, so the conditions for choosing a mate are getting higher and higher, there are college students will not choose junior high school, and those who have houses in the city will not choose the countryside, so many rural girls also marry in the city, and it is even more difficult for rural families to marry a daughter-in-law.

Third, the cost of marriage in rural areas has become higher.

Now getting married in rural areas, many require a house in the city, a house is not a small amount, many rural families rely on farming to get a little income, ** money to buy a house in the city, many people have a suitable object is because this is not a good back, but also a dowry money, basically 100,000 yuan, so many boys in the countryside have no way to be single, the old farmer said helplessly.