Weariness! What should I do if I m in a hurry to die, and I m tired of studying!

I think the best way to do that is to communicate! and your family, friends, teachers, classmates. Communication can not only enable you to understand your current situation, let people around you who are more experienced than you help you deeply analyze how to solve and face, these things will be easy to do, as the saying goes, communication is the bridge, with your communication with others, maybe you can find a more suitable way to solve this problem, whether it is to relax, to vent can not solve the fundamental problem for a long time, only to grasp the root of the problem, what causes your disgust with learning?

Of course, it can't be created in a vacuum. So communication will help you a lot. In addition, not only communication, but also from the communication to summarize, to implement, after all, others can't represent you, you can only learn from.

You need to think deeply about the pros and cons of all aspects, and have a wide vision. You will need to implement the rest yourself. I hope you find the best way to get back to your normal studies soon.

After reading your problem, I think you are actually a cheerful person, and you will find a way to solve it when you encounter it.

Now it's useless for you to be in a hurry, it's not a matter of urgency. If you solve this problem independently, it should be solvable--- find a quiet place to sleep for a few days, and when you are mentally replenished, you will naturally be calm.

But today's parents are too bad, they only know that they want their children to study well, and they don't care about anything else, as long as they can be admitted to college, he doesn't care if you go crazy.

Therefore, I suggest that you should stay away from your parents for a while, such as living in school, they will not bother you, you can calm down and talk about your studies later.

If you can't stay away, quarrel with them, or simply come and evaporate for a few days.

Exercise more and get more sleep. When you are in good spirits, you will know what to do yourself.

Don't play games, or drink with your fox friends. This is like adding fuel to the fire, the more you play the game, the more chaotic your heart becomes, and the worse your energy becomes; The more you drink, the more worried you become, and the more confused you become. For you now, exercising more and resting well is the most important thing.

It's really useless to be in a hurry now. Only by being calm can we do good deeds.

You can come out of this shadow because you have a cheerful personality.

Tired of school? There are many reasons for this. You've just started your first year of high school, and it's likely that you haven't adapted to the intense study tasks all of a sudden.

In addition, to be honest, most teachers nowadays only know about money and grades, and often do not care enough about the psychological psychology of students. I suggest that you first clarify your thinking, think about whether you want to continue learning, if so, then show perseverance, overcome pressure, do your best, don't put pressure on yourself, it doesn't matter if your grades are good or bad; If you don't want to learn anymore, make it clear to your family that learning a craft is also a good choice.

I don't need you to give points, I think of my cousin when I see you like this, not only is he tired of school, but he even learns to mix with others, he was originally in a key middle school, and then his family ruthlessly transferred him back to the original bad school, and now he is most worried about others asking him how to transfer back. Fortunately, I am much better now, there will be such times when I was a student, you are in a hurry, don't be depressed, you have nothing to do to sing, play ball, or climb mountains, or go to work with migrant workers for a few days, you can try the hardship of no knowledge and no culture. I have graduated from university now, but I really want to go back to the past, so I hope that I will work hard to get into a better school, get as many certificates as I can in school, learn as much as I can, and not regret it when I come out to look for a job.

Don't worry, if you really don't want to learn, you can, stop for a while, you can see what you can do at your age besides studying, and think about it clearly.

I'm a year younger than you, I'm in the third year of junior high school, and I don't want to study, I don't want to do my homework, but I think about it, studying is for myself and has nothing to do with others Eh, it's useless for others to say anything, it's up to you to come on!!

First, you have to think about what you're studying for, and then you have to think about what makes you the way you are.

Do you do a lot of homework? I do that sometimes, but slowly I get used to it, man, that's it!

School boredom is one of the most prevalent psychological disorders among adolescents. Adolescents with school boredom disorder show emotional alienation and behavioral negativity from learning, which is confusing for countless parents. Every parent of a teenager with a school boredom disorder at home wants to help their child come out of the shadows, but the results often backfire.

The reason is often rush, or the wrong method. Here are a few simple and effective ways to help school-weary teenagers get out of the way.

1. Help teenagers build confidence and realize the value of their own existence.

Teenagers who are bored with school are people who have been mentally devastated by their parents and teachers. Parents and teachers will pour cold water on teenagers who are tired of school, which will not only be ineffective, but will cause them to become more uncooperative. And in the long-term confrontation with China, teenagers seem to have acquiesced to their own worthlessness, and the so-called lie told 10,000 times becomes the truth.

In fact, teenagers who are tired of learning are not incorrigible, in the process of guiding teenagers who are tired of learning, we must first open the hearts of teenagers and establish effective communication with teenagers, at this time, we should first discover the advantages of teenagers, and then continue to affirm them positively, so that they realize the value of their existence, so as to build self-confidence.

2. Be less reasonable and improve your mentality.

The effect of mentoring with adolescents with school boredom symptoms is very weak and even counterproductive. Therefore, in this case, the first thing parents should do is not to be bitter, but to improve their mentality, not to look bitter and hateful when they see their children, to give their children a little space, and to create a safe and comfortable environment for their children is also very important.

3. Establish interest in learning step by step.

Establish small goals for teenagers, don't ask teenagers to complete a lot of things at once, and don't expect teenagers to become a good kid all at once, but establish a series of small goals for teenagers, affirm them in time when they are completed, and encourage teenagers with skills, so that they can experience a sense of achievement in learning, so as to establish interest in learning. After establishing an interest in learning, teenagers' motivation to learn will be transformed from external to internal, so as to continuously improve their academic performance.

4. Seek professional and institutional guidance.

Teenagers who are bored with school often have a bad relationship with their parents and teachers, so it is difficult for parents and teachers to open their hearts or have confidence in them from the bottom of their hearts. And the child's gaze is very sensitive, and casual perfunctory will not be seen through quickly. Therefore, it is difficult to guarantee the effect.

Then, if you really want to get effective and long-term improvement, it is best to choose a professional organization to guide and **.

What every teenager with school boredom is missing is not the desire to be a good person, but an opportunity and a proven approach. So don't give up on your kids.

Hope it helps.

Find the root cause of boredom with learning, and then slowly experience its opposite, gradually overcome psychological barriers, and make yourself like learning, in fact, learning is a very interesting thing.

Find something you like at school.

I think you have a lot of psychological pressure.

You said that you are always easy to be irritable, in fact, for a child, the family has suffered such a big change, your reactions are very understandable, home should be a place that makes people feel very peaceful and secure, and now that your parents are divorced, you lack a sense of security, you must be very tired on weekends and weekdays, fatigue is your heart.

Saying all of this may make you feel like a freshman is so old-fashioned, but I know that the reality of the situation makes you disheartened about anything, including what you're studying.

You don't want to study anymore, you don't want to live the life you have now:

Parents are separated, in order to see your mother, you are busy on weekends as usual, but your parents refuse to be together for you, and you are more sad.

All I can say is that you are still just a child, and there are some things that you cannot change but can only accept. We know that the process of acceptance can be painful, so you can find an outlet for catharsis. Playing badminton can be used as a way to vent, but is it worth giving up your studies?

How talented are you to live off this? Can you win the Olympic title?

If your ideal is just to support yourself, then you can do anything.

Let's talk about your father again, is it because he is separated from his mother, and you have a grudge in your heart? If you have a grievance, you will feel better, I believe that your father also knows what you think, but if you don't tell him, it means that you don't love him and don't believe him.

It's too much to say, and I will give you a final sentence: no matter what, they are your parents.

Hello, you can go to the information to consult a psychologist, I believe that the psychologist will help you, will help you get out of the predicament, believe in yourself, you can do it, you will be able to learn well, you will definitely be able to try to give yourself some psychological hints every day, such as, often think that I can do it, it will be good, believe in yourself, thank you.

Your mother enrolls you in a badminton class and you want to learn badminton What if your mother enrolls in a table tennis class Now you are still young and you don't have to think about anything Calm down Calm down and calm down Your current age The task is to study Maybe you will still play the earth in the future.

You can contact Zhenbang Education, they have psychological counseling teachers and family education teachers, who can do some communication and counseling for the three of you, and hope that your father and your mother can treat you well.

Remove the baggage from your heart.

You belong to the rebellious period of youth, put your mind right, although going to school is not the only way out, but going to school is the best way out. It's really scary to be uneducated.

There are benefits to having a high degree of education, although you don't think it now, but you will gradually find out after you drop out of school. By then, Liu was late. Don't drop out of school, have a good foundation, and study hard. Truth or say.

Don't give up badminton, it's something you like, just do your best when you go to school, and you really don't have a clear conscience if you don't take the exam!

Me too, it's okay, relax, find confidence, regroup, be yourself again, don't be confused.

Children are prone to paranoia during adolescence and need guidance from parents, teachers or professional psychological counselors.

There are two reasons why children are bored with school: 1The child is not interested in learning and feels that there is no future in school;

2.School Teachers Parents put too much pressure on their children, causing them to be tired of school;

3.The child has poor academic performance for a long time, has no confidence in his own learning, and is ready to give up his studies;

4.Children are bored at school because they don't like a classmate or teacher;

Try to find out the reason why children are bored with school, just like being sick, we must find the root of the disease in order to ** and prescribe the right medicine. If your child has one of the above items, you should solve it according to the corresponding method!

Children's boredom often appears at the same time as rebellion, and the solution to the problem after rebellion occurs:

Try to communicate with your child attentively, let go of the parental posture, and communicate in the way of friends.

Communicate more with your children, and really care about your children, rather than blindly caring about your children's achievements and achievements!

If parents can't do the above methods, they can choose a professional training institution to change their child's situation.

Hope the above methods can help you!