Family issues, ask for your help and guidance, and be grateful

If it's really the same as you say, I suggest you can't run away. However, money must not depend on them. Although the kindness of nurturing is very heavy, it is not something that can be exchanged for money.

Don't compare yourself with their sons, they will be rewarded, both good and bad, you can tell them what you think, and explain to them patiently.

1. If they insist on talking inappropriately, then you will follow the local customs, and you will do whatever you want when others get married, or a little higher. It is better than average for outsiders to look at it.

2. If it's okay, then you go on a trip to get married. (It's similar to running away, but there is a way back), come back for a treat, give you a dowry at home, and come according to local customs.

3. Move your relatives and friends to talk about them. It's best not to be stiff, after all, it's parents! Although it is not good for you, you still grow up healthy.

If all your efforts can't be reversed, then you don't care too much about their feelings. Because their motives have no conscience anymore. Strive to pursue their own happiness, and slowly they know who is really good to them!

They just treat you as a commodity, raise you, and then sell it, they just think about money, and since they do this, you can give him money, you don't owe each other, they raise you, you pay them money, and they even do it, and then you can buy a house and buy it later, why not a second set. I wish you happiness!!

You are so stupid, you can see from your words that your parents may have adopted you for impure purposes, and there are many adoptive parents in this world who are very good, and even no different from their biological parents. It's really unnecessary for you to worry about them like this, you don't have to pay attention to them at all, if you still feel that you owe them, then give him some money to buy peace of mind, anyway, you are also in the field, and you have to have less contact with them in the future, you can't let them feel that you are a bully, otherwise they will have a lot of things to worry about you.

Regardless of whether they are biological or not, children have the obligation to support their parents, and this is not only a legal stipulation, but also a minimum standard of family affection and morality.

Problems and disputes with parents can be discussed and resolved.

If you feel that your parents have hurt you, you can also ignore the kindness of your parents (after all, you did not force your biological parents to give birth to you, and your adoptive parents raised you).

However, as a child, it is necessary to assume the obligation to support the parents.

Your parents are worried that you will not fulfill your maintenance obligations after you get married, so they will talk about your marriage and obstruct it. It's the way they do things that is wrong.

The issue of parental support and the issue of your marriage should not be discussed together, but since the parents are involved, it is also the child's obligation and filial piety for you and their biological son to give your parents a specific arrangement for support and solve their pension problem.

The troubles are all found by themselves, and the more you think about it, the more troublesome your heart becomes.

It's not to comfort you, you should just think so.

Brothers are born to their parents, and parents will not favor one over the other.

If you study hard, you can go to university, and then you can have a good job and a good income, you should make more commitments. The parents are old and can't help their two sons too much. They just want to achieve the "bowl of water" in their hearts.

But it's really too difficult for elderly parents. How comforting were the eldest sons who were well-educated and able to support themselves? How proud and proud?

How confident he is when he talks about his eldest son in front of others. And the second son, who has no education, no job, no good opportunities, is married, and his parents are afraid that he will encounter difficulties in his life in the future, so he can only give him a house and land and help him more materially. The parents' approach is also well thought out.

I think they will do their best to make the two children receive the same care.

You are the eldest brother, as the pillar of the family. You have to relax, think more about your parents, and help your younger brother more, after all, you have more education than them. Material gains and losses can be ignored, as long as family harmony is important.

After a few years, you can say out loud that I took care of my home, and how proud you are.

Don't be upset and angry about these things. On the contrary, you should feel that this is a kind of affirmation of your personal ability by your parents. When his parents gave his younger brother a house, he worked hard to buy his own house and then buy a set for his parents. so that they can live better.

Be open-minded, your parents don't love you, they just think you have the ability, the Chinese tradition is like this, if the parents have the ability to help more, the family is like this, and there is a younger brother by your parents' side, you can rest assured that you are working hard outside, isn't it? If you have a hard time, it is your relatives who will help you the most. Always be grateful, and imagine how you would have gone to college if your parents hadn't raised you and nurtured you?

How can there be today, going to college has your efforts and the care of your parents since childhood, hehe, the eldest brother is the pillar of the family, if you can't do anything at home now, and you can't even afford your brother's marriage, will you also help him start a family for his parents? I believe that it will, filial piety is the first thing to achieve, bless you!!

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

However, if you move your hukou out of your parents' hukou book, you can apply for another homestead.

Actually, I feel that your mind should be enlarged, and you should also consider your parents from a different perspective. Your annual income is more than 100,000 yuan, and you will definitely not worry about anything in the future, but what about your younger brother? So your parents want to favor your younger brother, in fact, you don't care about interests at all, you just want to get back the kind of love of your parents.

Seeing that parents are so good to their brother and themselves... I suggest that you talk to your parents more often to understand their thoughts. Naturally, you will understand their painstaking efforts.

As the saying goes, a good home and everything is prosperous, I feel that brothers and sisters don't care so much. What we want is happiness and liveliness, and it's not very happy for a family to be happy together.

Although the old saying says that the father's debt is repaid by the son, there is also a legal provision that says that you must bear the father's debt.

It is a relationship of power and duty, and if you accept your father's property, you will have to bear his debts, which means that if you do not accept your father's property, you will not have to help him pay off his debts.

However, in reality, many people still pursue the concept of repaying debts from fathers and sons, which has been cultivated by China's feudal ideology for thousands of years. When your father was alive, you were different individuals, which means you don't have to pay your debts (your choice). If you accept his inheritance after his death, you can not help him pay off his debts if you don't.

Some people say that severing the relationship between father and son is not protected by law. But when your father is old, you still have to support the elderly, which is also a relationship of power and duty. Your father has raised you, and he has the right to support you. It is also a social and moral issue.

Legally, you are not obligated to help him pay off your father's debts, and generally speaking, you can ignore the debts that others ask.

The debts of the parents have nothing to do with the children, and the creditors should not ask you to repay the money, but as a child, you will always worry about your parents, and you can decide for yourself whether to help him pay off the debt.

1. Morally, the father pays the debt to the son, and you should work hard to help your father repay the debt.

2. Legally, your father's debts have nothing to do with you.

3. But if your father has passed away and the debt has not been paid off, then your father's debt has something to do with you. However, there is a limit, because the inheritance law stipulates that the inheritance is limited. That is to say, after your father dies, you can help your father pay off his debts only to the inheritance left by your father, and when your father's inheritance is all paid off, but the debts have not been paid off, that part of the money will not be repaid by you.

Creditors can only consider themselves unlucky. Or you give up your right to inherit your father's estate directly, and your father's estate is divided directly among the creditors.

It's really hard to say if you sign the above situation! If your parents have been in a bad relationship for more than 20 years, you can't completely blame your father, how to say, you can perceive your father's responsibility from all aspects of your family life, and his responsibility is to the bottom of the base**? The main thing is that he is for your sons and sisters, as well as your mother, whether he really takes practical actions against your sisters and your mother, if the truth is not as you want, you can't completely blame your father, because any father, no matter how bad, will always put his children in the most important position, in fact, it is not easy for him to go all the way!

Please understand that I am not speaking for your father on his side, and I hope that you will not be too sad, and that you will learn to take care of your mother, including her feelings; You also have to learn to be with your father, so that he can look back on the past and cherish the future!

If your father has stumbled to this point, as long as your parents still have the old feelings, you sisters should persuade them to reconcile! I'm sure you have your own way!

Your father and mother should no longer have any feelings for their grandchildren now, and the reason why your mother insists on not leaving is probably to take care of you, and she doesn't want you to have a stepmother. You are similar to my family, after so many years, you have survived, my mother loves us very much, so even if she does what my father treats her, she will not divorce, and she doesn't want us to have a stepmother. But her life was ruined.

If you want your mother to live a good life, persuade your mother to leave your father, if you want to let yourself have no stepmother, don't let your mother leave, it's so old, I think you should also understand.

We are all born in the 90s, I don't think your mother is too much, because of the travel sentence for your mother to go out to work, Pei Zhen came back and continued to raise you and your sister. Not letting that girl live in is for the sake of your future marriage, and your father is very powerful, and he will find someone twenty-one years younger than him in more than 20 days. I won't say much more.

We're all too young, think about it for yourself. To borrow words from the first floor. It's so big, I think you should understand it too.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

This kind of non-business type ah, just ask you can still live this day, can you take a peaceful day to talk about, can't always live like this, how tired, if it is hopeless, or should go through the formalities, don't delay, the more you delay, the more it hurts. Of course, it depends on your attitude.

You said that she often called her mother's family and cared about her mother's family, so did you rarely give her parents ** and rarely cared about them? People are all the same, compare hearts to hearts, she marries you not only to face you, and you marry her not only to be good to her. You and her should communicate more, open your heart, and believe that you will understand each other better and cherish it more.

It's normal to compare hearts to hearts and buy some baby products.