How did you survive the most difficult times alone?

No one comforted me, I carried it myself. People are different, I haven't encountered anything very sad and helpless. Besides, I'm sad that I don't like to tell people, lest they listen to it as a joke.

I have been wronged, but I will not "hide my face and cry", of course, when I am wronged, I hope that my bosom friend is by my side, or easily pat me on the shoulder or give me a hug.

At that time, I broke up with my girlfriend who had been talking for six years. Originally, they were ready to share the money and help me go to pick up my relatives, but she left me. I've been treating her like a wife for six years, and I even wanted to die at that time.

I suddenly cried that day, and everyone was trying to persuade me to open up. My brother broke everyone apart, and we were in my room. He suddenly gave me a slap in the face and asked me if I smoked.

I don't like anyone else when I cry, I like to be seen by anyone, I like to close the door and not see anyone when I am alone, and after a while it will be fine. That's who I am.

When I was the saddest, I got on a battery bike, put on a helmet, and cried while driving. When you cry until you don't want to cry, go home, no matter how difficult it is, life still has to continue.

When you are wronged and hide your face and cry bitterly, it should be the last time you want people to see it. Men don't flick when they have tears, and women don't show their injuries. Stick to it yourself.

I came out to work alone with illness, no technology, no goal, no direction, no stable work and shelter, I didn't even eat oil in the most difficult time, I didn't eat meat once when I looked at the year and month, and I made steamed buns for two yuan a day.

How did you survive the hardest days?

Yue Wang Goujian endured humiliation and burden, and there was his idea behind the courage of lying on his salary, he could choose to give up, or he could choose to fight against fate.

Liu Bei suffered repeated defeats in his life, defected to others many times, and even abandoned his wife and children after defeat, and finally had his own stable territory in the process of constantly falling down and standing up.

Zeng Guofan's defeat and suffering in the early days of the establishment of the Hunan army made him choose to commit suicide to face the defeat, and after that, he was also defeated again and again, and finally put down the Taiping Rebellion.

These people all have a trait: they do not give in to failure after experiencing failure, and use their own methods to get back on their feet and face new difficulties and pains.

These people are able to persevere and get back on their feet after defeat because of faith.

The source of faith is hope. Hope is a person's spiritual pillar, and once the spiritual pillar collapses, we become a walking corpse when we face failure.

Faith and hope dominate our ability to act, if there is only hope and no action, it is like a sweet dream, although we can comfort ourselves, after all, we are just lying in place and living in our own spiritual world.

Mr. Wang Yangming has put forward the theory of the unity of knowledge and action, if you only know that there is no specific behavior, you are not really knowing. In real life, many times it is difficult for us to do it, but we have not really strengthened our beliefs.

Faith and hope are not so strong all at once, just as gold needs to be constantly refined to increase its purity.

For us, we need to have an optimistic attitude, enjoy the growth brought by the failure of the ordeal, and on the other hand, continue to accumulate and summarize the lessons, so that we can develop in the direction of hope.

Willpower plays a huge role in the specific process, and forging ahead is the norm in this process.

A person can continue to get up after one, two, or three failures, and when he falls down again, when he chooses whether to continue or not, it is the greatest test of willpower.

Such a choice is a natural choice of human nature, just like the impurities in gold. This is also destined that some people will choose to continue, and some people will give up.

Standing up does not necessarily mean that you will succeed, this is like walking on a muddy road, standing up still has the chance of falling, but it is an indispensable step in the process of moving forward, if you don't stand up, you can only continue to suffer in the mud in the same place, that is your own choice.

Everyone is hungry for success and knows that success is not all smooth sailing. Getting back on your feet doesn't necessarily mean success, but it increases your chances of success.

In a very passionate sentence: life is endless, and the struggle is endless. Whether this sentence stays in words or actions depends on whether there is enough faith and strong will.

Bear it silently. I won't tell my family if I'm unhappy outside, helpless and sad, since junior high school, because I know that what you say is useless, it will only add to the family's troubles and cause them to worry about you. I wouldn't tell my friends either, because I knew I would get through it.

When I let go of myself and got through it, I would make small talk with my friends about the situation and the unhappiness at that time. I won't cry either, because I know that crying won't solve the problem, and crying means that you are weak. I'm more alone in a daze, or writing words....Anyway, it's how to be happy and make yourself feel better.

I remember in my junior year of high school, everyone was in a state of nervous preparation for the exam. However, I failed math and English, and no matter how hard I tried, I still stood still. All kinds of anxiety and helplessness, and the heart is full of panic.

I think of the hard work of my parents, of those who have high expectations for me, and of my years of hard work. The pressure was overwhelming, and the results were very unsatisfactory during that time. Go for a run on the course every night and start to reflect on yourself.

So I started my own tactics of asking questions, getting up early to memorize words, etc., and finally got a satisfactory result in the college entrance examination. I always believed that all loneliness and helplessness would pass.

When I was the most difficult, in addition to going to work and sleeping, I was learning knowledge, only progress can make me feel at ease, sometimes I can't persevere, and I encourage myself in my heart: I will be at the top of the mountain, and I can see all the mountains at a glance.

Now at this stage, I resigned in June this year for exactly one year, borrowed more than 100,000 yuan, the original façade of a school, last year said that it would be handed over, and there is no accurate letter until now, and the school has been circling in the middle, and it has been delayed, and there is no way to find a stable job. I drove my family's car, rented a house, and worked for a short time. The expenses are not enough, and the most difficult time is to run a taxi outside in the early morning.

Why do you persevere, I think I don't want to admit defeat, and I don't want to compromise like fate easily. In the middle of the night, I couldn't stop crying and locked up in the house for a few days. But what's the use?

Life has to go on.

At that time, I probably didn't have any special feelings, I just knew to hold on a little longer, hold on a little longer. It's like long-distance running, you don't know when you can't hold on, just encourage yourself, it's okay, hold on a little longer. In the end, when all this has passed, I will find that I have come so far, and I have survived all the hardships. ‍‍

Love is gone, marriage is gone, savings are gone, crying for a long, long time, thinking about suicide many times, what can I do? Every time I see a child's face, I have the courage to live. Now I want to live from scratch, for the sake of the child, I can't fall, I don't mourn, I have to work harder, but I am not willing to live like this.

There is no special way, just get through it. Those who once thought they couldn't get over have actually passed. There's nothing to dwell on, it's a sure thing to be uncomfortable, but it's more important to take every step of the way.

For a period of time, because of the departure of my family and the change of the circle of life I relied on, I was very depressed at that time, and there was only one thing that could arouse my fighting spirit, that is, the ridicule and contempt of the people around me, and I was really grateful to these people for their contempt for my depraved state, so that I could recognize myself and go back to slap them in the face.

1 6. Make yourself happy by doing things that are happy.

It's not a big deal, after the wind and rain, it's a rainbow again, people's lives are so short, I want to open a point, look at a point, and it's good after this extraordinary period.

2 6 Tell your friends what is in your heart.

When you are very uncomfortable, the best way is to confide in your friends, so that you will feel much more comfortable, and if you hide it in your heart for a long time, you will get sick.

3 6 Listen more**.

Sometimes** is also a good way to relieve stress, listen ** slowly fall asleep, let yourself relax, don't tense your nerves all day long.

4 6 Give yourself constant time to work.

Don't let your brain think about useless things, do as many other things as possible to keep your brain from thinking about other things, and keep working to waste time.

5 6 Highlights Inspirational TV.

If you can't live anymore, remember to watch how the people on TV who are worse than you live and what attitude they have to go on.

6 6 Change the environment.

Sometimes it's better to change the environment, so that you don't see a familiar environment and touch the scene, try to live in other unfamiliar places.

Come out, force yourself to come out with dead energy, and you will thank yourself in the future.

Take a walk-and-go trip.

The so-called difficulties are relative, there is no difficulty in the eyes of optimistic people, there are difficulties everywhere in the eyes of pessimistic people, difficulties are springs, you are weak and it is strong, as long as you tell yourself that there is no difficulty in this world that can stop you, then you will break through all obstacles and walk out of your own broad road.

How can you survive, stiff up, and no one can help you, and no one can listen, so you can only resist by yourself。In fact, everyone has the most difficult times, and everyone has their own way of dealing with it, but I think a large part of people have survived it on their own. To be honest, there is nothing that cannot be solved in lifeNo matter how difficult it is, there will always be a day in the past, as long as you carry it to death, then you will always see the light of day.

Individuals also have the most difficult times, of course, what kind of difficulties are specific, there is no need to describe this, so how did you survive? I can only say that relying on strong beliefs, that is, constantly telling myself that the future will be very beautiful, these are only temporary, life will always go through ups and downs, what can not be lived. There is no other way but to comfort yourself like thisIf you can't even encourage yourself, you may not be able to survive.

I have always felt that we should not think about life so hard, of course, life cannot be smooth sailing, we always have to go through something to grow, to transform, to become a better version of ourselves. When you transform, you will be grateful to the brave self you once had. I will never be grateful for the crit that life gives, I will only thank the self who is not crushed by lifeBecause I came out on my own.

Therefore, if there are people who are also going through difficulties, I hope you can encourage yourself, comfort yourself, if you have family and friends around you it is naturally better, if not, please don't give up. Life is a long road, we have only walked a little half, and there may be a few big pits waiting for us behind, but so whatWe just have to move forward, because only by moving forward can there be hope in life.

No one can replace him, so he can only grit his teeth and carry it himself. Hold on. Everything will be fine,

The child supported me and was able to overcome all difficulties.

Grit your teeth, others can't help you, you can only rely on yourself.

It was my mother who was always there for me, giving me support and encouragement and helping me out of my predicament.

No matter what stage of life, people must have a sense of responsibility, and responsibility can enable people to survive many difficulties.

Talk to your friends, you thought it was your most difficult time, and after you survived, you found out that this is the case, and there will be more areas that you don't know in the future, so take it one step at a time, come on.