It s better to find a marriage partner by yourself, or to go on a blind date

Which city are you in, friend? Now there are a large number of single groups in the country, old, middle-aged and young people of all ages and professions, so everyone has no shortage of corresponding love choices. It can be said that ---

The way of entrusting a matchmaker (or matchmaking agency) to introduce marriage events is one of the important options for singles all over the world, especially in Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, Southeast Asia and other regions. In the past 20 years, China has also been very prosperous. I believe that choosing a formal matchmaking agency for blind date is a shortcut to the marriage of single friends.

All large-scale brand matchmaking agencies that have been established for a long time and have moderate fees are generally more credible and reliable, and the success rate is not low. According to the statistics of the blind date members of the Anhui Love Bridge Marriage and Love Center in recent years, the success rate is about 72%.

However, it needs to be reminded that the main thing for friends who go on a blind date is to keep a normal heart and not to have too high requirements for the other half, otherwise it will increase the difficulty of matching. Asking for marriage and blind date is like going to college to see a serious illness, it is a lot of work, everyone's situation is different, and the final result is different. But meeting is the last word.

Although there are always lucky people in the world who keep the plant and win the rabbit, the satisfaction of the vast majority of people or a relatively satisfactory marriage can only be achieved in various ways and in the continuous appointment and docking. I wish you a dream come true soon!

It's all fate, and there is no absolute good than bad.

It is also a way to have the opportunity to meet the right one; If there are few people of the opposite sex around you, and you are busy with work, then a blind date is the best way, at least in the blind date process, you can experience different personalities and different people, so that you will have more thinking and maturity, and when fate arrives, your sweetheart will come.

Looking for yourself is nothing more than an occasional encounter, and colleagues and friends introduce a few.

Blind dates are generally marriage and love agencies, which are generally unreliable.

The blind date is relatively stable is the matchmaker of acquaintances, relatives, and reliable people, which is a reliable clue. When relatives and friends tell me about the matchmaker again, they have actually referred to the conditions and situations of you and the other party in their hearts, and they have provided you with clues based on their experience that they think are appropriate.

In a word, fate matters.

If you can meet the right one, or find it yourself, if you really can't meet, then go on a blind date, the years are not forgiving, don't wait until the age to find it, it's too late, contact more friends, go out more, you will meet your favorite person.

Now there are marriage agencies everywhere in the country, which has become a full-scale industry, belonging to the intermediary service industry, and there are all countries in the world. In view of the fact that in contemporary Chinese society, there are large single groups of the old, middle-aged and young people, and there are many unmarried, divorced and unmarried friends, so there is a vast market demand, and there is no lack of multiple choices.

As long as it has been established for a long time, the fee is moderate, and the cost performance is high, the large-scale brand marriage agency is generally credible and reliable, with considerable stability, and its success rate is not low. In a large-scale brand matchmaking agency, you can generally cast a net, carefully screen, target positioning, and constantly debug to improve the satisfaction of the match. In short, I wish you a blessing and all your wishes come true!

It's all good, it's just fate, go with the flow, and if you have an introduction, you can see it.

In fact, it depends on how you think about it.

Blind date, a little demonized, thinking that the person who is looking for a blind date has no feelings. This is just a compromise of some people, and the unhappiness after marriage will make a voice of indignation. Or some people go on a blind date, that is, through continuous comparison of conditions, it is more important to find money bags than to find a lifelong partner.

As a result, the blind date gradually changed its taste. But what I want to say is that blind dates are just a way to introduce each other, don't have the burden of marriage, like is like, if you don't like it, you don't like it.

Find your own object, how to find it, and constantly find a favorite ta

If you are a young person and want to fall in love in your daily life and work, you can find someone you like as long as you take the initiative. In the age group of 25 and 26, finding a partner on your own and finding a partner on a blind date usually go hand in hand. They will be urged to get married, and some of them will be married with friends around them, and there will be no one to talk about the loneliness in the middle of the night.

This group has more ways to pursue love in the pursuit of love, and will use online social networking, such as a companion marriage and love, only marriage and love applications to find a partner, which greatly ensures the safety of users, and can meet a lot of peers on it, with more common topics for adult unmarried people, and it is relatively easy to find a partner.

In general, this question does not need to be thought about, the way is not important, the important thing is to like each other.

I don't think it's a contradiction between finding a blind date and a blind date, and it's good to have the opportunity to find the right person by yourself, such as a colleague or friend you know. If you live in a small circle and know fewer people, you can choose through blind dates.

It has something to do with personal personality.,Can't be generalized.,Personally, I think that the probability of success of finding a partner is relatively high.,Blind date to find a partner is optimistic about the conditions of both parties before talking.,Too embarrassing and unnatural.。

Of course, it's the object you're looking for, after all, it's a love affair, and the blind date is not up to you to choose, but someone else recommends you, you can only choose a condition suitable for you from these recommendation lists, just suitable.

If you can find a partner, it must be better to find it yourself. The other party is not necessarily reliable when looking for a blind date, and both of them have no emotional foundation. Some people go on blind dates just to cope with their families.

Each has its own benefits. The object you are looking for by yourself is your own liking. The blind date is introduced by relatives and friends, so I know more about it. If you want to marry far away, you want to think carefully.

One of the biggest differences between blind date and self-seeking is that both parties have reported the same purpose, while self-seeking first has to determine the relationship between friends, then good friends, then close friends, then lovers, and finally decide whether to get married. The process is tough and nerve-wracking. On a blind date, sit down and know that the other party understands each other better on the basis of the applicant, which saves a lot of trouble.

But it will take a long time to get into the groove or gradually find the feeling through deep understanding and friction. So it's better to try once than not at all, so you have to be a little more serious and take it seriously. I would like to add that I am also part of the blind date team and am now learning to run in.

Get along well. You don't have to listen to anyone, it's better to find it yourself. There are pros and cons to traditional blind date and self-finding, which should be viewed dialectically.

After all, blind date is to find out the side information first, and then study the positive information yourself. It's safer that way. The insurance factor is higher.

Finding your own is based on your own experience and way of doing things, and it is inevitable that there will be mistakes or mistakes. And, if the parents don't agree, it's troublesome. However, one benefit is that they can gain the satisfaction and fulfillment of self-fulfillment value.

After all, there is a process from strangeness to intimacy that will be unforgettable, and blind dates will not have that obscure color. Very realistic. But then again, after a blind date, you can go from strange romance to intimacy.

It's not without a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. The most important thing is to be able to find someone who is worthy of the love of your life. If you can do this, it is better to find it yourself or go on a blind date.

Of course, it's a good thing to be able to find it yourself, and it's not bad to find it by yourself through a blind date.

Talk about it yourself, of course, the pursuit of the person you like is happy, and the payment is even happier, and the feelings of the two will definitely be very strong, but it is a pity that the object of your own conversation can always be picked out by the family in the end.

I think a blind date is a good way to find a partner, but there are pros and cons.

Benefits of blind dates:

· Know the roots, the door is right.

Generally, blind dates are arranged after both parties have basic information about each other. This will save some of the basic conditions from the process of understanding. Under normal circumstances, it is introduced by the people around you, and it is generally relatives, friends or people with a good relationship who will introduce you, and they will consider everyone's character and family background when introducing them, which will save some unnecessary trouble.

In order to avoid that the parents of both parties cannot reach a consensus due to various reasons.

· Solve the problem of difficulty in finding a partner due to the lack of contact with the opposite sex due to work reasons

Nowadays, the gender ratio of various industries in this society is particularly uneven, young people are under great pressure to work, and they do not have the time and energy to socialize, or some people are not good at socializing. Blind dates can provide more opportunities for contact with the opposite sex, and even if you don't find the right person, you can increase some experience and improve your social skills.

· Clear purpose

Blind dates are all for the purpose of marriage, the probability of being deceived is small, don't worry about whether the other party is sincere, if it is not for marriage, who wants to go on a blind date.

Disadvantages of blind dates

· Weak emotional foundation

Blind dates are first understood and then communicated, so that in the process of communication, you can not feel the process from strangers to lovers, and you can not better cultivate Huaihong's emotional foundation. It may lead to finding out that you don't love each other enough after getting married.

· After getting along for a long time, I found that my personality was incompatible

In the process of blind date, both parties will show their best side to each other, which will lead to the misjudgment of the other party, and it may be the same at the beginning of getting along, but after getting along for a period of time, they will no longer have the patience to "dress up" their character"Well done. Over time, you will find that the personalities of the two are so incompatible. This wastes time, not to mention, but also hits my confidence in blind dates.

· It is also a waste of time to be forcibly arranged by the family to go on a blind date

Nowadays, many people who have no intention of getting married and have love in their hearts are urged by their families to marry and forcibly arrange blind dates when they reach a certain age.

1. You have all packaged your own blind date, and when the matchmaker introduces you, you probably know the other party's mate selection criteria, and if you really want to lie to you, it is easy for you to think that I am looking for this person and waiting for this person.

2. The suitability of a blind date is different from the suitability of frank and free love and cohabitation, and your blind date will be more accurate than ordinary people to abide by the rules of men and women, which is basically a polite state, but this state is not the norm of getting along.

3. It may be suitable for his family background, and my friend also has a reason for getting married, and the boy's family background is not bad. But the boy was blind at the time and did not have a stable job. So even if the boy makes the hall family four or five thousand a month, it is more reliable than having a good family background and no job.

4. What you think is appropriate, it may be that he thinks you are suitable for marriage, some men are very good at grabbing the hearts of relatives around girls, but for girls, they are all kinds of PUD.

5. Blind dates should not be suitable as the ultimate goal, they should be excellent as the goal, and very good people can get married.

No matter if you have a blind date, or if you know each other, you must have an understanding, and if you have an understanding, you will know that the other party is unreliable by relying on relatives. Blind dates are not about getting married tomorrow after you meet today. Repentance.

Blind dates are meant for two strangers to get to know each other better and see if they are suitable to develop a further relationship together. In the early stage of blind date, I don't think it is necessary to immediately recognize the relationship, but to understand each other first, explore each other's personalities, hobbies, concepts and other characteristics, so as to clarify whether the two parties are matched, and whether they have the foundation and motivation for further development.

The original intention of blind dates is to reduce the estrangement and discomfort between strangers, and try to build friends and romantic relationships. In this process, both parties should respect each other's psychology and feelings. If one party has no feelings for the other, or the other party already has a romantic partner, then at this time, the young man must immediately confirm the relationship, and he does not have to force himself to accept the other party.

Both parties can choose to remain friends or agree to meet again in the future and try to explore each other's feelings.

In blind dates, knowing each other is the most important thing, and confirming the relationship requires more decision-making factors, such as whether the relationship between the two parties is not compromised, before that, I think it is recommended to communicate and understand each other more, date more, communicate and understand each other, and develop a better relationship foundation. Eventually, the real development of a relationship can be done slowly, one step at a time, without too much rush, and with honesty and respect.