How the ancients honored their parents Do you know how the ancients honored their parents?

Tell an allusion to "Ziyou Asks Filial Piety". Once, Confucius's student Ziyou asked the teacher what "filial piety" was. Confucius said:

The only filial piety that ordinary people can achieve is to be able to support their parents. However, pets such as cats and dogs are still kept and loved. If there is no submissive and respectful attitude towards parents, then what is used to distinguish filial piety from breeding?

Although the words of Confucius are somewhat contrary, we have to praise the teachings of the sages as being really golden and good. Parents and children live in different eras, and of course their ideological concepts and cultural levels will be different, and the perspective of looking at things will naturally be different. This is something that children should understand.

The happiness we pay attention to includes the common enjoyment of material and spiritual, now most of the children can meet the material consumption of their parents, so the requirements of "filial piety" will be increased accordingly, if you do not obey the wishes of your parents to do things to make them happy, how to meet their spiritual enjoyment? After feeding the kittens and puppies, they also know to give them some string balls and other things to make them happy, are the "mourning parents" who "give birth to me and work hard" not as good as them? In fact, do parents make any undesirable demands on their children?

It's just that the children are unwilling to do it because of all sorts of things. With a little self-control, brothers can achieve "filial piety". Foolish words, abrupt words, if there is offense, hope to beg Haihan.

But sincerity is filial piety, the heart of the fist, and hope"Brothers"We can see clearly

Confucius said:Parents are not far away, and there must be a way to travel. Three years without changing the way of the father is for filial piety. It is better to live in mourning than to be extravagant.

You don't have to learn from the ancients. Filial piety to parents = more considerate and caring for parents. Take care of your body, work well, be a good person, and don't sin.

Huang Xiang, a native of the Eastern Han Dynasty, knew how to honor his father when he was nine years old, and warmed his father's bed for his hunger. This is something that everyone who is filial to their parents should practice and emulate.

When Kong Rong of the Han Dynasty was four years old, he knew that he would give his brother a big pear to eat, and this kind of respect and friendship for his brother is something that everyone should know from an early age.

Expand] Three Character Classic".

The Three Character Classic is a traditional Chinese enlightenment textbook. Among the ancient Chinese classics, the "Three Character Classic" is one of the most simple and easy to read books. The "Three Character Classic" takes high-quality allusions, including literature, history, philosophy, astronomy and geography, human ethics, loyalty, filial piety, and righteousness of traditional Chinese culture, and the core ideas include"Benevolence, righteousness, sincerity, respect, filial piety.

While reciting the "Three Character Classic", you will understand common sense, traditional Chinese culture and historical stories, as well as the principles of life and work in the connotation of the story.

In terms of format, the three characters and one sentence are catchy, because of its popular, smooth, easy to remember and other characteristics, so that it is called the three major readings of traditional Chinese Mongolian studies together with "Hundred Family Names" and "Thousand Character Text", which are collectively called"Three hundred thousand"。

Since ancient times, honoring one's parents has been a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and honoring one's parents is our duty and duty as children.

In real life, most people are very filial to their parents, and only a very small number of people who do not have benevolence, righteousness and morality and do not have a permeable conscience will not honor their parents.

There are many manifestations of filial piety to parents, some people are busy with work, just take money to hire someone to take care of their parents, they will give their parents a lot of money on weekdays, and they will also buy a lot of clothes and food for their parents during the New Year's holidays. The performance of the other kind of people is that their wages are small, and there are some workers who have no job, want to do business and have no money, they choose to honor their parents, often go home to accompany their parents, wash their parents, wash their feet, wash their hair, and so on.

I believe that honoring your parents is not about whether you are born on your own or not, but the key is your actual actions.

There are many brothers and sisters in our family, and the way we honor our parents is that we are not limited to what one person bought for our parents, and we are not limited to having to go home to accompany our parents one day, but our brothers and sisters are very conscious, whoever is free, will go back to accompany our mother.

Whether it's on weekdays, or during the New Year's holidays, if the economic conditions are good, buy more things for your parents, and buy less if the conditions are poor, as long as you do your best!

As for the low salary proposed by netizens, and they want to honor their parents, do they choose to buy more clothes for their parents? Do you choose to buy more food for your parents?

Here, first of all, I affirm that netizens are very filial people, but you haven't really understood what real filial piety is, in fact, the real filial piety to parents is not to see how much money you spend in front of your parents, sometimes parents don't want these, what parents really need is that their sons can often go home to see and often accompany themselves.

The hearts of parents in the world, everyone knows, in the world, there are few parents who don't want to see their sons well, they themselves are hard, it doesn't matter if they are tired, as long as their children are living well, living happily is their greatest wish.

As long as you are filial to your parents, and then you can do it with all kinds of actions, accompany your parents more, help your parents share some housework, make your parents happy, talk to your parents more, and do what you can.

As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and the traditional education of the Chinese nation constantly warns us to build people and the world on the basis of filial piety, and to respect our parents and elders as the key work after they start a family, but with the continuous development of social forms, the social pressure on the younger generation is increasing, and the work arrangement is also full. Many only children find that their parents are old within a few years of entering the workforce, and the pressure of the family is slowly pressing on their heads, and they also need to marry a wife and have children, or start a family.

At this time, children still have to face the financial pressure of working for a short time, and many people will face the question of whether they choose to return to their families at this time or stabilize their careers and jobs as their parents get older.

Many people think that only by starting a career can they have more and better abilities to honor their parents, and only with better living conditions can parents be regarded as being able to take care of themselves, if they are not able to grasp the development opportunities in this period of work struggle, then it is very likely that their parents have not been able to enjoy a better material life, and they have lost the opportunity to move towards a higher development platform.

Some people believe that parents want more than just material needs, no matter how much pleasure the material can give them, it is not as good as their children to be able to be by their side in their old age, for them only this warm companionship is the greatest happiness, as the saying goes, "the son wants to raise and the parent does not wait" is not the fulfillment of this sentence, as long as the parents are healthy together, that is happiness, isn't it.

The first salary in my life was as a preparation for my survival**, which I kept for several years, and then bought a set of winter clothes for my mother and a razor for my father during the Chinese New Year.

Nowadays, there are many young people who work outside the home, and they are usually busy with work, and rarely have time to go home to visit their parents. So how should children who work outside the home honor their parents?

1 For the vast majority of young people, work is the most important thing at the beginning of their careers, and they are always determined to do it well. It is also at this time that pressure, opportunity, and time all take possession of our world. For parental care, most choose to forget.

Therefore, when you change roles, you must adhere to a belief, that is, you should be more grateful to your parents. The unwavering thought in our hearts is the premise for us to honor our parents.

2 Quit your selfishness and leave a large portion of your time for entertainment. When you are off work or on vacation, spend some time at home with your parents, or go out to dinner. If you really can't go back, it's necessary to have a warm **.

In short, allocate your time wisely and make it a habit to visit your parents.

3. Learn to report good news and not bad news. Parents are physically or mentally stupid, and their ability to tolerate them gets worse and worse with age. Don't give them a blow, give them a message that you are good and happy.

They've been us all their lives, don't let them suffer anymore.

4 Take care of them, starting with little things. Don't be ashamed to express your love, but express your love heartily. Expressions of love can be more practical, such as washing their feet, taking them to sit for check-ups, giving them a warm family gathering, and so on.

5 Learn to discover and understand their minds. The elderly will become more and more silent. There are things they will bury in their hearts and bear on their own. Once you notice their changes, you should be brave and good at opening their hearts and solving problems together.

If you want to raise your son but don't wait for your parents, when you have time, accompany your parents more.