What should I do if I am in junior high school and high school, and there is a big gap in my heart?

Little sister, your performance is a bit exaggerated, you must pay attention to adjust your mentality, otherwise it will affect your learning and interpersonal relationships. . .

The heroes don't mention the courage of the year! Isn't it right, women don't let their eyebrows go;

Have you ever admired the excellence of others from the bottom of your heart? If not, it's a problem. Haha, it's normal to learn to appreciate others and learn to appreciate yourself;

In fact, no matter who is the class committee, the goal is to serve the class, and at the same time reflect their own value; And not the class committee these can also be reflected, when I was in college, I didn't be a class committee, but every time I clean, snow removal (I went to school in Urumqi, snow clearing in the north is not as easy as I imagined, saying that snow removal is actually to the road to smash ice, every time I will have several blood blisters on my hands) I will work very hard, in fact, everyone feels good about me, I also feel that I reflect my own value, so that's it;

You try to relax your mind, so that the world in your eyes will become bigger and better, and you will find that each classmate has his loveliness, and you will become happier.

I've been in a similar situation to you.

But I'm worse than you, hehe.

You should now practice your endurance.

Ignore where you go, you will want to open up.

In this world, no one has the responsibility and obligation to spoil you except your own parents.

The little girls are all high school students, so they should be more mature.

Be bold, too, if you're not good at expressing yourself.

Just do your own thing first What's wrong with the group leader?

Think of it as a kind of honing exercise to train yourself.

Isn't it enough to manage a group first, and then a class at the end?

Think about everything, don't be too pushy, go with the flow.

Now you do your own thing, be honest in the class, be honest with others, and be sincere to others.

Respect the teacher, believe in yourself, gold will always shine.

Teachers and classmates will find out where you shine.

Everyone is an expert and their own expert, yesterday I watched "Zeng Shiqiang Human Relations" (I watched it for about 10 minutes), but I benefited a lot (a bit of a feeling of revisiting the old and knowing the new), but I don't watch it if you don't watch it, I don't have much time, I can't watch it completely, it's a pity.

After passing this level, there will be more difficult things waiting for you ahead, you just overcome them one by one, then you will succeed, anyway, you will be defeated.

Let's discuss something, mine is good! So that's it.

Never mind! It's gold that always shines, and after a long time of observation, the teacher will always find you.

Don't worry! Be brave in the face of anything!

Like you, I went to the regular class of the best high school. But there are 400 people who are better than me. This was not possible in junior high school. Therefore, you must firmly believe in studying hard and make the gap smaller.

I don't know what your local policy looks like.

I remember that at that time, we couldn't get into the key high school in our county because of my poor grades, and even if I paid money, I couldn't get in, unless the relationship was very hard.

However, the township high school in the county, because it is not a key high school, the review is relatively loose, and you can enter it by paying money.

To be honest, the grades are too poor, going to high school is also equal to nothing, not discrimination, to be honest, many children are mixed with a high Chinese certificate, but the high Chinese certificate is not much use, can only go to the army.

And the child is not learning that material at all, if you force him to go to it, he is not willing to learn, which is not only a waste of money, but also a waste of time. It is better to let the child go to a vocational high school (technical school), learn some technology, mixed crafts, and in the future than those who have a college diploma, in the end, they will not know anything, and the company is not willing to ask for it.

Honestly, it's purely a personal point of view, and there must be many people who disagree, but how many children are not like this, it's really not as good as learning a craft.

Poor results in the high school entrance examination, can not be admitted to high school can read technical school to learn technology, now China's automobile industry is booming, including the shortage of automotive intelligent maintenance talents, the development prospects of learning automotive intelligent maintenance is still very good.

Hello, if the high school entrance examination results are too poor, it depends on how bad you are, if you have a private high school in your local area, you can also study in a private high school, but learning is a little expensive. If you still have time, it is recommended that you work hard to improve your grades, or find a professional tutoring agency in your local area to tutor you, and there is still hope of going to high school.

High schools all have admission scores.

If the high school entrance examination score is too poor, you will generally not be admitted to high school.

You can only go to vocational high school or technical secondary school.

Don't be too anxious, if you don't pass the cultural class, we can also consider developing in other aspects, and the same is okay! In today's society, there is an increasing emphasis on technical talents. With technology in hand, don't worry about career development!

As long as both boys and girls master a skill, they don't have to worry about finding a job and not being able to support a family in the future. For example, the automotive industry is a good choice, and the development prospects are also good. With the progress of the times and the innovation of technology, the automotive major is not limited to the two areas of auto repair and beauty, but also the 5S major suitable for male and female students, automobile business, operation, automobile sales, automobile culture and other automobile-related industries can be studied!

If you don't know much about the automotive industry, it is recommended that parents and children can walk into the campus together to feel and take a field trip! You can refer to it!

Poor performance in junior high school and high school entrance exams, or only accept the reality. Whether you accept it or not, the reality is there, and you can't change it. At this time, the best option is to accept the reality.

This time, you lost, but not absolutely everything, although this failure is a bit miserable, but you still have the opportunity to change the status quo, accept the reality, and continue to plan for the rest of your life.

Serious reflection. If you do poorly in the high school entrance examination, you must seriously reflect on it. Why is this the result, obviously paid, why is there no expected gain.

Or did they not take it seriously at all, and did they not take it seriously? Whatever the reason? It is important to carefully analyze the causes.

Ask family. If you do poorly in the high school entrance examination, you can ask your family. Because you are still underage, when you have no idea on your own, you may wish to ask for the advice of your family, their opinions may give you a certain reference, it is not your choice, but listening to more opinions will still help you a lot in your own choice.

Choose carefully. Reflected, but also consulted the opinions of others, then you still have to make a choice, because the road has to go, after careful consideration, choose to move forward bravely, there is no big deal, I believe that the road to the bridge is naturally straight.

If you do poorly, how should you choose the next path?

Select Repeat. If you do poorly in the exam, you can choose to repeat it. If you fail this year, you will work hard for another year, believing that as long as you are willing to pay, you may be rewarded.

If you are determined to repeat your studies, you must work hard to do it, work hard to do it well, and do not hesitate. Of course, you need to have strong support from your family.

Choose to go on to higher education. If you do poorly in the exam, you can choose to go on to higher education. Although you didn't get into the school of your choice, you can still go on to higher education smoothly, which is a good thing, if you don't want to go back, then work hard to climb up, be brave, move forward boldly, and strive to win back in high school.

Choose a vocational high school. If you do poorly in the exam, you can choose a vocational high school. In recent years, the country has been vigorously advocating vocational education, that is, it is expected to cultivate a lot of professional skilled talents, if you feel that you don't want to take the old road of further education, want to learn some technology, then work hard to do it, the road you choose, no matter what, you must insist on walking.

Hello, I think it will be very sad to lose the high school entrance examination. Parents should not be anxious for their children in the first place, and some children are relatively late in maturity and have not yet truly realized the relationship between good grades and their own development. If parents are more anxious than their children at this time, it weakens the child's own autonomy, and the child may feel that the grades are more relevant to the parents than to themselves, and even feel that the parents care more about their own grades than themselves.

If the child is introverted and prone to guilt, parents should encourage the child to express his feelings and actively guide the child to look at the exam from a relatively objective perspective. Parents should help their children analyze the reasons for this exam. If it is a problem with knowledge points, help the child make up that part of the knowledge; If it is a malfunction, listen to your child's feelings at the moment of the test, and even use yourself as an example to tell your child about how to control his emotions.

Through this precious parent-child interaction time, children can not only check for missing traps in time, but also let children know that no one is perfect, but as long as they find a way to correct them in time, it will not affect everyone's evaluation of you; At the same time, in this process, children feel that family is their spiritual harbor, and their parents are tolerant, helpful, and loving to themselves.

Therefore, if you fail the high school entrance examination, my advice is to choose to repeat or choose a vocational school. In addition, in the face of students who fail the high school entrance examination, parents should give timely comfort and help them choose their future learning path. At this time, parents must not pour cold water on their children and create pressure.

If you don't do well in the exam, you can only go to secondary vocational or technical school without high school, and there is nothing that is difficult to do. Now that the education reform secondary school and technical school have the same status as high school, as long as you study hard, you can take the college entrance examination like high school students.

If you can't get into high school in the high school entrance examination, it is ineffective to continue to receive traditional education, and you are too young to drop out of school and work, so choosing to learn a skill is the best choice. After graduating from junior high school and high school, you can learn a good technology in order to live the life you want, and it is recommended that students who are facing the same problem choose to learn Internet technology. Nowadays, social education is as important as skills, so the state vigorously encourages the development of vocational education, and it is also a good choice to choose a good technical school if you can't get into high school, but you must carefully examine it from many aspects such as employment, reputation, teachers, and environment.

Computer.

1) The starting point of the work is high, the development space is large, and now the IT talent gap is very large, and there are many employment opportunities (2) The salary level is high, due to the rapid development of the Internet and the huge talent gap, the general salary of the IT industry is relatively high, such as engineers with 1-2 years of work experience, the monthly salary is between 6-10k; (3) The job is the most stable, no need to jump frequently, IT practitioners, belong to a relatively strong technical occupation, as long as you have excellent technology, the salary will be higher and higher, and with the popularization of the factory model of the IT industry, more and more grassroots software developers are not limited to academic qualifications, so it is a great advantage for junior high school students who like IT.

Baking. It is possible to learn baking after graduating from junior high school, and there are not a few students who have graduated from junior high school to learn pastry baking. After graduating from junior high school, everyone is generally 15 to 16 years old, and this age stage is the stage of our strong learning ability, whether it is learning theoretical knowledge or hands-on practice, we can quickly get started.

At the same time, young people are curious and easy to accept new things, while the baking industry has a wide variety and variety, which can better satisfy young people's curiosity and desire for knowledge, and arouse the desire to take the initiative to learn.

Auto repair. 1. The auto repair industry is in high demand, the job is easy to find, and the working environment is also good.

2. The work and social contact of the auto repair industry are relatively close and keep up with the trend, so the knowledge and thinking will be relatively open, which is also conducive to their own development in the future.

3. Learning auto repair is relatively fast, and it is not very difficult to learn. 4. Now some schools have some skills plus academic policies, but it mainly depends on your own choice, although going to college sounds good, but many college students are unemployed after graduation, it is better to learn the door technology as soon as possible, you can work after graduation, choose the right industry, and the future development will be very large.

If you are only admitted to an ordinary high school, as long as you continue to work hard, you still have a chance to be admitted to the ideal university. If you don't get into high school and can only go to a vocational and technical school, you still have the opportunity to realize your life ideals through your own efforts.

Learn a technology, go to the first can rely on your own skills to live a better life, life is more than just a way to study.

1.Girls can choose to study pastry and western food, kindergarten teacher and tourism management, 2Male students can choose to study cooking, hospitality management, and tourism management.

A good technical school looks at five main aspects. 1. Brand strength is very important, and good reputation is really good 2Teaching quality, teachers are the guides of students' learning3

The learning atmosphere, classmates, teachers and students, school activities, campus environment, and teaching equipment will all affect students' learning atmosphere and change students' learning habits. A good learning atmosphere and study habits can make students study harder4Specialized courses.

It is also important to choose the right school, choose the right major, choose the most popular professional skills for good employment and promising future5Employment is important. After all, for parents and children, learning skills is all about having a good outlet!