I m poor, I m embarrassed, my fault, my fault

First of all, you must be confident, if you look down on yourself, then others will look down on you even more.

Some things may never come back, but they will always ache in his heart. If I could, I would, time would always stand still in that moment.

Who doesn't have a rich friend?

That's what your dad looks like. It's nothing, why should you care about those false faces? If my dad is like yours, I'm going to be thankful.

My dad is pretending to be rich outside, and he looks very capable. When you see someone, you have to give a few yuan, and then go home and desperately ask for money, desperately pretending to be pitiful. If you don't give it, you cry and smash things at home.

A little money has been done for him to do face projects.

Your dad's appearance makes you think of something that makes you unhappy.

Is it that you are also poor, or that you are not filial to him, or that your father's behavior is inseparable from you, is it your face, or is it that you think of something else.

In this world, it is really easy to have unclear boundaries, just like children do not study well, naughty, parents feel that there is no face, children study well, perform well, parents are happy to have face, invisibly, we have built our own face on the people close to us, children's learning has become learning for parents, relatives have to consider the people around them in any decision, can not be free to be themselves, because the other party will ask us to be right or wrong or for our good, in fact, it is to satisfy their own so-called face, which is no longer love.

So what we want, love him, respect him, respect his choice, any of his actions must have his own reasons, can not be agreed, but can be respected, this has nothing to do with our face.

Empathy, if our family, loved ones, and lovers ask us what to do, otherwise he will lose face, are we willing to change, will there be grievances and anger?

I don't agree with what you said, your dad is pretending to be poor outside.

I think your dad is a good habit of thrift.

Your dad is just a little more economical. You say he's pretending to be poor. This is a great disrespect to your dad.

What you give to your parents is only material, and you may not have spiritual care.

To be filial to one's parents, one is to be filial and the other is to be born. You give them money is filial piety. You respect them, respect their inner feelings, don't force them to do things they don't like, don't make them angry, that's called shun. In short, do things according to their hearts and don't choke them.

They have a good habit of thrift and thrift, and they are reluctant to spend money indiscriminately, so you should follow their hearts, and you should not be angry and say that they are poor and sour. All right?

Your father is not poor, the people of their generation have suffered a lot of hardships and sufferings, and they are all thrifty, although you gave her a lot of money, how can he be willing to spend it.

It's a kind of wisdom, and you can't understand it until you put yourself in his shoes. You shouldn't be married yet, although you give money to your parents, but does he dare to spend it, I should save you some of it. And what does this society look like to be rich?

In the past, it can be said that there was money with a million in hand, but now a million may not necessarily buy a house. He probably doesn't have more than a million in his hand. Looking at a circle of relatives, you are a junior, relatives can lick their faces and ask you to borrow less money, but ask him to borrow a lot of money, if he shows that he has money everywhere, people want to ask him if he has no money, can he refuse?

If he refuses others, he will say that he has so much money, and he doesn't help anyone, and some people borrow and don't pay it back, is this what he is happy to see? Your own family is not rich, let alone giving it to others, it is a great wisdom not to show your wealth.

Does he need to open his wallet for everyone to see?!

Wealth can't be revealed, in short, he didn't wronged his family, if people outside don't make friends with him because they dislike your father's poor and sour appearance, then it's not interesting to associate with this kind of person.

Anyway, your mom can accept it.

Brother, after reading your question, maybe your father lives a frugal life, which has nothing to do with how much money he has, and has something to do with his living habits, after all, it is your father, raising you so big, it is very hard, and it is natural to live a life, so we must understand him, honor him well, I hope to help you, thank you, I hope to adopt. Brother, after reading your question, maybe your father lives a frugal life, which has nothing to do with how much money he has, and has something to do with his living habits, after all, it is your father, raising you so big, it is very hard, and it is natural to live a life, so we must understand him, honor him well, I hope to help you, thank you, I hope to adopt. Brother, after reading your question, maybe your father lives a frugal life, which has nothing to do with how much money he has, and has something to do with his living habits, after all, it is your father, raising you so big, it is very hard, and it is natural to live a life, so we must understand him, honor him well, I hope to help you, thank you, I hope to adopt.

Brother, after reading your question, maybe your father lives a frugal life, which has nothing to do with how much money he has, and has something to do with his living habits, after all, it is your father, raising you so big, it is very hard, and it is natural to live a life, so we must understand him, honor him well, I hope to help you, thank you, I hope to adopt.

Your dad is very low-key, although he will be like this, he knows that if he is rich, many people will look at him with a kind of sycophancy, he hates this feeling, so he will have a poor appearance, low-key is right, you don't hate it.

The older generation is used to the fact that they used to live in a more difficult environment, and even if you give them more money, they will not pursue the quality of life like we do. It's still hard to get them to change. It's like if they ask you to be hard and simple, to be frugal, you're also uncomfortable.

It's better to accept their behavior, as long as they are happy. To give them money is to honor them, let them do whatever they like.

If you're used to it, you can't change it, just let it be! If he said goodbye, he would be unhappy. That's all, keep it as it is!

Let's not say that your dad may have been careful all his life Not to mention the money you give Even the clothes you bring back are expensive and you may be reluctant to wear them because you know that it is not easy for you to make money If you can't put yourself in the shoes of your parents No one forces you But do you know how excessive you are like this Think about it, if one day you are considerate of your children, but your children dislike you, what do you think? Besides, life is for yourself, not for others to see, life is originally warm and cold, and you know that if you are so old, you can't understand this No matter how much money you make, you're a loser.

I think there is a problem with your mentality, it may be that you are young, you will dislike your parents, your parents have been poor all your life, and it is difficult to change your living habits and attitudes, but you must know how to be grateful for your hard work in raising children, you must know how to be grateful, I used to have some troubles, and now that I am older, I am watching my parents grow old, and I feel very sorry when I was willful, my parents are for our good, don't do things that make you regret, the biggest filial piety is not to think about changing your parents.

I understand your mood very well, after all, you are mixing well now, of course, I hope that your father can give you a long face, you can communicate with your father, now that your son has a chance, if you are still short of money, you can give me a little more every month, but don't pretend to be poor like this, my son is not bad for supporting his parents now.

Why did he pretend to be poor? You ask him, who will give you money if you pretend to be poor, or are you afraid that others will borrow money, you are pretending to be rich in this era, you pretend to be poor and people look down on you, your father was still born like that, you talk to your father with a pleasant face, let him get rid of his bad habits.

The old man used to live a hard life, and now he will not waste any more money you give him, don't feel unhappy, diligence and thrift are the virtues of our Chinese nation, and you should be proud of having such a father.

That's thrift! Not poor sour! Your father hasn't changed. It's your heart that has changed! There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

This may be his nature, he likes to pretend to be poor. Find him to talk to him well, tell him your true feelings, and tell him that pretending to be pitiful is useless, it will only hurt everyone's self-esteem.

It may be that you are older, you are not so particular about dressing, and you don't mean to embarrass you, you can communicate with the old man, or you can accompany him to buy a few clothes and change them when you go out.

I think it may be caused by a long-term concept of life and habits, which seems to you to be poor and sour, but he seems to be the norm, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it, and low-key people never make people worry about it.

It shows that your father is used to being poor, his life is relatively low-key, and he is naturally this kind of person who doesn't want to be extravagant. If you feel very uncomfortable, you can tell your mom to dress you appropriately and readjust it. In addition, I think it has something to do with the living environment since childhood, and since I was a child, I affirmed that their family was not wealthy, and for a long time, he couldn't put the goods in this way.

In 2013, teachers' salaries rose, and the situation in Zhanyi County, Qujing City, Yunnan Province was: the number of middle and high schools rose by 390 yuan, the first secondary 290 yuan, the second secondary 205 yuan, and the third secondary 270 yuan. Zhonggao Shifa got 4,350 yuan, in addition to performance.

Secondary 3 is around 2540, Secondary 2 is around 2600, and Secondary 1 is around 3000. This salary increase has a great impact on Secondary 2 teachers! Form 2, the numbers are surprisingly small!

The annual salary of the middle and high school performance is more than 60,000! This is a local policy of wage increase in Zhanyi County! It is estimated that the formulator is medium and high, plus a middle one!

I just hope it goes up, but there's no news yet. I am a teacher of vocational education, and I am even more sad, the basic salary is less than the average social wage, and when I gather with my lover's colleagues and family members during the Chinese New Year, my income is the least, and the bottom of the society. Bricklayers and carpenters are 300-500 a day, and we are the engineers of the human soul.

It's not that we're not noble, the point is that we're too little!

I feel that many industries have raised wages, which is estimated to be due to the depreciation of the renminbi and the increase in labor costs.

I am a college student and became a rural teacher after graduating, and one day I was buying vegetables and passing through the crowd, and someone actually said, "Hello, the teacher still eats meat!" I ignored ......I went back to the dormitory and cried .........But I still had three good classes in the afternoon......

According to the convention, it can rise by about 30 yuan per month, and it will be cashed out around June. It's been almost four years (since January 2009), and it's been rising every year, and I'm looking forward to 2020 as soon as possible. Can 2020 multiply???

up, how not up. So-and-so (elegant) said, 15 * years of service a month.

We have risen, I am a poor county in Shanxi Province, but it has risen according to professional titles, and the gap between the rich and the poor is very large.

I've heard that it's too good, but it's only when it goes up, isn't it?

It is said that we are going to go up 1000 this year

2012 Zhaotong City Targeted Recruitment Position Table.

It's already up about 200.

It's already up about 200.

How much do you teachers get paid a month?

I am a primary school teacher in Gansu Province, working for 14 years, with a salary of 2,700 yuan.

Let's talk about this situation with your girlfriend, it's really embarrassing, let your girlfriend know your difficulties and tell your brother about this situation, and try to get you out of it.

If it doesn't affect the relationship between the two of you, won't it be worth the loss?

Pretending not to know her.

You can also reflect it with your parents, and persuade her, as if she hasn't grown up yet.

It's really unlucky to put this sister on the stall, is her brain burned, and she has tap water.

I also met selfish and hypocritical parents I worked hard in a different place to save money and was like a machine every day, and my parents never cared about me, they only cared about how much money I paid every month, and the money was saved by my mother's 50,000 yuan, because I saw a business opportunity and started a business with a difference of 30,000 yuan, I said that the remaining 20,000 yuan would be used by you, and I didn't expect my mother to turn her face and scold me so badly I didn't know that I worked hard and used up my money, and began to dislike me for starting a business, which may be unstable and not stable to give them money, and it is very realistic In the future, I will give them 1000 a month at most, and I will save the rest of the money myself.

If you put the money with your mother, and your mother refuses to return it to you, you will not come back, and there is no way to do it. You're going to get more and more unreasonable. You are not wrong, and you don't need to be angry, just honor the elderly.

It's about the same as me, I also want to get back the money stored in my mother's place, every time I mention money to her, she reacts very much, she takes my money and lends it to her sister, she doesn't dare to tell me the amount, every time she mentions money, she makes all kinds of excuses that I don't have money around me, or refuses to give it to me, and all kinds of nagging, I am really speechless to her.

First, no matter what the husband's attitude is. The money your mother gave you is a gift to you, and you have complete control. Second, it is important to treat the disease, no matter what your husband's opinion is, your mother is yours.