What kind of emotion is the most perfect emotion?

Perhaps, every girl has longed for a "fateful" lover, fantasized about meeting him unexpectedly, falling in love at first sight, and then falling in love. You understand each other, you have common hobbies and dreams, you appreciate all his strengths, he understands all your thoughts, it is simply the perfect love of God. But in fact, life is not easy, and it can only be a good wish.

Many times, if we don't express it, the other person simply won't know what we want. They long for a man to understand everything about them, every love word can speak to the heart, every gift is just right, feel that that is the perfect love, in fact, it is just your wishful thinking, all the most perfect emotions for you, will be wiped out by the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Since emotions are emotional things, they should be understood with perceptual awareness; Moreover, everything in the world is relative, and how to call it perfect is inevitably a bit absolute. Even the goddess Venus is only a mutilated beauty, and she has not reached perfection. Therefore, we can pursue beauty for emotions, but try not to deliberately demand perfection.

First, it is necessary to nourish with heart. Emotions are like beautiful flowers and plants, which need to be nourished with care. Otherwise, emotions will be discounted, and it will be difficult for the flower of emotions to bloom beautifully.

The reason is clear, and it is really simple. However, when many people face emotional problems, they are "shaved and picked", always hoping that others will be good to him (her), but they themselves "understate" their emotions, this kind of only want others to be good to themselves, but do not want to treat others with their hearts, such emotions and feelings, sooner or later there will be problems.

Second, we must pursue perfection. Here, I only say "emotion should strive for perfection", but I will not say "emotion should achieve perfection". In my opinion, although emotions are more emotional and more spiritual, they must also be based on objective reality, and we cannot leave the objective and blindly talk about "subjective" or "sensory", otherwise perfection will never be achieved.

In fact, there is no such thing as true emotional perfection, and we can only attain relative perfection. And this relative perfection must respect objective reality, and must allow the existence of defects, so that we can have the so-called "emotional perfection".

Third, it is necessary to carefully guard. Beautiful emotions are the best nourishment in life, it can make people feel happy, delicate faces, and warm spring breeze, but whether beautiful emotions can last is the key to careful maintenance. Therefore, if a person wants to make emotions beautiful or even perfect, he must act as the "guardian saint" of emotions, always and everywhere with love, patience and careful maintenance, only in this way can the flower of emotion always bloom undefeated.

I think that everyone wants to have a beautiful emotion, infect others with their own beauty, and also hope to be infected by beauty, and then, we are happy in this beautiful atmosphere, although there are some thorny roses, or nasty thorns, but in the years of "rounding", we call this emotion the perfect emotion, and even feel "satisfied" for their choice and pay, which is the perfect and perfect emotion of emotion.

The most perfect emotion is:

When you are lonely, you have someone to help, when you are helpless, and when you cry, you have someone to know, which is a kind of warmth in your soul and a kind of moving in life.

The spirit has sustenance, and grievances can be told; The soul has a home, life is no longer adrift, emotions are comforted, and life is no longer lonely; Even though it is only simple language, it is considerate and warm-hearted.

Send a showluxe to each other, offer their hottest love, and melt each other with their warmest feelings.

A truly perfect love must have these two characteristics. (1) Communication. No matter what kind of environment we are in, communication is the key to maintaining a relationship.

Communication can open the windows of the heart, listen to each other's inner voices, and know what the other person really wants. When encountering complex problems, two people should learn to deal with them calmly, so that they will not easily fall into confusion and confusion. Many people think that love without communication will not last long, because you can't even do the minimum communication, how can you continue?

In fact, true perfect love is a lack of communication. For example, if you don't say anything, the other person understands what you mean, which reduces arguments and increases trust. Some people will say that couples should talk about everything so that they can attract each other.

However, love also has a shelf life, and if you blindly pursue intimacy and talk about everything, it will easily cause mutual dislike. Only in an ever-changing environment can it be easier to gain insight into the other person's heart. What defeats love is not helplessness, but the loss of feeling.

At the same time, in love, the values of both parties are particularly important, and if the three views are different, there will be dislike and estrangement, which will become the fuse of the relationship breakdown. Whether it's love or marriage, once you decide to start, don't end it easily, because youth is priceless and no one can afford to spend it. (2) Equal energy psychology believes that only people with the same energy can attract, appreciate, recognize and cherish each other.

This is especially important for both business partners and lovers. No matter how long they have been together, once they have a sense of disgust for each other, what they see in their eyes will be each other's shortcomings, how can there be perfect love? Love has long died on the beach.

Therefore, appreciation is the beginning of love, and people who appreciate each other can always remember each other's strengths, so as to avoid friction. In life, we can always find some introverted boys, in fact, they don't like this, just because they haven't met someone who can really make friends. No matter how sullen your personality is, as long as you are in front of the person you like, you are willing to express yourself.

In life, we don't have to dwell on a relationship, if the other party has been busy as an excuse, it means that he really doesn't love you anymore. The person who really cares about you will not make you envy others, you are the only one for him.

See each other in youth and treat each other in maturity. Beautiful love blooms like a flower, and of course it happens in the best years of youth. The throbbing and sweetness of the first sight of life is the most unforgettable memory of my life.

A big reason why many lovers who have experienced each other's youth fail to make it to the end is that they are too young to treat their feelings maturely, which is very regrettable, and it is also the main reason why so many people can't forget the past. If you love each other sincerely, you are happy and happy together, you have a common language, you have a common goal to pursue, and you have a more compatible three views, so this kind of love should be considered more perfect. But in real life, many times the ideal is very plump and the reality is very skinny.

Even if two people love each other very much, but together will inevitably bump into each other, at this time you need to understand each other more, respect, tolerance, fully stand in each other's position to look at things or problems, respect each other as guests, mutual respect and love, for a long time, the other party seems to be a part of their own body, love, care for each other is like cherishing their own body, such love is the most real, but also more perfect.

The ideal emotion is the most perfect emotion. Only by accepting the imperfections of life can we feel the beauty of life. Appreciating and loving each other, taking into account each other's feelings and dislikes, respecting each other's way of life, and being tolerant are the emotions that are perfect.

No matter what the relationship was, then the person who finally walks together and helps each other to grow old should be the person he loves the most.

Everyone wants to be able to live with the person they love the most, and they all hope that the person they love the most can be married to the person they love the most, although some people have certain regrets in their feelings, but for me, my current lover is the person I love the most, and I have no regrets in my feelings.

The reason why I say this is not because my lover and I have been in love with each other for a long time, the most important thing is that at the beginning, the attitude of the two of us towards the relationship is particularly rational and realistic, my lover and I are eager to find a real fit for themselves, really able to make their hearts move the other half, very lucky we know each other, and in the process of getting along gradually understand and recognize each other, and in the process of deepening the feelings between each other, In the end, a kind of interdependence was formed between each other.

My lover and I have known each other for 14 years, in these 14 years, although we have occasionally had some quarrels and contradictions between each other, but both of us can resolve well, in the process of getting along daily, both of us can really respect each other, can do regular communication and exchanges with each other, can take into account each other's feelings as much as possible, in the process of getting along for more than ten years, we have always been able to be loyal to each other, each other, and pay wholeheartedly for each other. It is precisely because we have done this that we can truly recognize each other and get more happiness and joy in this relationship.

Family, friendship and love are the most important feelings in each of our lives. We spend our lives pursuing the most sincere feelings, and we spend our lives maintaining the feelings we have acquired. But there are times when we lose a relationship for a variety of reasons.

When you regain this relationship through hard work, whether this lost relationship will make you happier needs to be analyzed and judged through the actual situation. Specifically, this includes the actual state of the relationship after it was lost, how it affected you during the loss of the relationship, and whether the two parties can tolerate each other.

1. What kind of state this relationship can achieve after being lost and regained determines whether you can be happier.

Whether a relationship can make you feel happy or not, the actual state of the relationship plays a decisive role. Therefore, an important factor for us to judge whether a lost relationship can make us feel happy is what kind of state it can achieve when it regains this relationship, and what kind of feelings it brings to itself. Only when this lost relationship can reach a perfect state will I feel happy.

2. What kind of impact does the loss of this relationship have on yourself, and it will affect your feelings about happiness.

A lost and regained feeling will inevitably experience a lost time. And that experience of losing an emotion will have a very big impact on yourself, making you feel completely different about that relationship. If you feel hurt by the loss at the beginning, even if you regain it, you will no longer be happy with that feeling.

Therefore, the impact of the experience of losing that relationship on oneself can affect one's feelings of happiness. Base Bright.

3. Whether the two sides can tolerate each other is the key to whether the lost and regained relationship can be happier.

As the saying goes, it is difficult to complete a broken mirror. The process of regaining a lost relationship after it is lost will definitely have an impact on one's feelings. At this time, whether both parties can tolerate each other has a very important impact on whether they can feel happy in this relationship.

Only when both parties can tolerate each other can they feel happier about this lost relationship.

Self-love is calm and then lovers.

In a nutshell.

Be yourself first, don't be impatient, and then be able to love each other.

Specifically. Self-love: know how to take care of yourself, have a healthy body, neat appearance, stable income, independent character, and have your own principles.

Calm: not impatient, not impulsive; Know what you want and don't rush it; Temperate, warm and moderate, not hooligan.

And then the lover: can take care of yourself and take care of each other, good enough self-management will give people a sense of security and happiness In my understanding, a perfect relationship is not something that can be maintained with blood, enthusiasm will eventually wear out, of course, there is no absolute. Everyone says that you want to meet the right person at the right time, and that's probably the truth.

If both parties are not mature enough, both sides will only keep making mistakes, and then cause more psychological pressure on the other side. And when two people are mature enough and calm enough, the relationship will not be as reckless at this time as when they were young, and both people will leave enough space, enough understanding, and enough love for each other. Therefore, when both parties are mature and calm, the relationship between two people will definitely go for a long time, and I think most people will hope that a relationship can last as long as possible.

Of course, it doesn't matter if you're not interested in the longevity of the relationship.

A perfect relationship means that both parties respect, understand, and trust each other, can be honest with each other, can accept each other's shortcomings, can support each other, can face difficulties together, can share happiness together, can grow together, and can go through a long life journey together.