On the blind date issue, I don t know whether I should fight for it or not.

I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. The more indifferent you are to a boy like this, the more interested he is in you. Men have a desire to conquer, he took the initiative to contact you the week before, but he hasn't offered to ask you out yet, but you have taken the initiative to ask him, which makes him have two ideas:

1 is that you chased it so easily, and he lost interest in an instant; 2. He has questions, do you often take the initiative to ask boys?

Busy is an excuse, an absolute excuse. His lack of initiative also shows that he really doesn't like you that much. If you really like him, then don't chase him too hard. Don't fall into the cycle of getting it out of it the more you can't get it.

Because if you take the initiative first, he won't take the initiative.

Let's stay cold for a few days.

If it doesn't work, if you really like it, you can try it.

But if it's me, I'll forget it, and it's not the kind that loves deeply, he doesn't bird me, I'm not lucky for him, why bother hurting his self-esteem.

The reason is simple, guys don't like you, there's no doubt about it.

I am deeply touched, and I will tell you about my experience now, which may be helpful to you.

I went on a blind date this year, and after the blind date, I didn't have any feelings for that girl. But that night I took the initiative to text her and take the initiative to chat. Here's why:

My mom kept forcing me to text her, and I couldn't help it. After that, she took the initiative to talk to me, but I always talked to her in a positive manner, and the conversation was very energetic. Here's why:

Parents put pressure on them, and don't dare to disobey." And I have a good impression of the girl, although she doesn't call.

In my experience, if I like a girl, I will miss her very much and will text and call. If you don't type** and don't text, it must be that I don't like her.

The above is just my personal opinion, after all, people are different, I just provide a reference, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Men are like this, after all, they met on a blind date, with a purpose, and free love is different, he may be really busy, and some men are busy and don't estimate this.

Well. Maybe it's because I really have difficulties and can't contact you in time. You should try to be considerate of him, but if that's not the case, then you don't need to put your feelings on him, because it's not worth it.

Whether you should fight for it or not, you should look at the person's personality, and if you feel that he is worth paying, it is necessary to fight. Otherwise, a good man should be won over by other women. This is just my own opinion, the final decision is up to you, I hope you can get the happiness that belongs to you.

I'm a man. I've experienced the same scene as you. The woman has a crush on me.

But I'm not interested. But after the first meeting, I fought with her for 2 hours**. After that, I ignored her.

My feeling is... Playing ** is a man's demeanor. I met in the same situation.

Even if you don't have the chance to be friends. But I'm sure... He must not have a good impression of you.

There's no need for women chasing men. I have my identity...

Tell my mother that I am still young now, and I don't want to find a partner yet, and when my career is successful and stable, I will go on a blind date, and then ask my mother to tell the other party that I am too busy with work hours to go.

You can say that you are very busy with work and then have no time to go, so you are very witty and polite, and you can better refuse your mother's arrangement.

When you encounter such a situation, you can tell your mother that you already have a favorite object, so you won't go on a blind date.

You must tell your mother the truth, and you can refuse directly.

I have a full understanding of each other's personalities, and I already have a clear understanding of his economic conditions, family situation and career development.

1. If two people know each other on a blind date, then they can consider getting married in about half a year to a year, of course, some people may have a shorter time, and they will get married after knowing each other for about three months, but most people will choose to take about half a year to a year. 2. After getting to know each other on a blind date, if two people don't feel about each other, they may break up in three months or half a year. 3. Because people are very busy with their careers and the pace of life is very fast, many people are not looking for a partner, and there are many single men and women, so they have to rely on their families or friends to introduce them to each other.

Some were even forced to marry by their families. In fact, the blind date finally has the purpose of changing the pants sedan chair, to find a suitable person to marry, that is, if the other party's conditions are okay in all aspects, then regardless of love, they will generally get married. Two people get along, will show the best side to each other, at the same time both sides also have their own shortcomings, and shortcomings, Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been seen for a long time, if you want to fully understand a person, will not understand clearly in a short period of time.

Get to know each other in depth and detail. If you want to fully understand a person, in addition to understanding the other person's temperament, behavior, living habits, etc. It is also necessary to understand the other person's past and social background, which will involve the future life and whether they will be happy.

Therefore, it is impossible to get into it in depth in a short period of time.

On a blind date, if the other party puts forward their own requirements or expectations that you are not willing to meet, then you need to consider the following:

1.Rational thinking: First of all, you need to think rationally and evaluate whether the other party's request is reasonable, and ask yourself if you can accept it.

2.Open communication: If you don't feel like you can meet the other person's request, then you need to be honest with them about your thoughts and feelings. At the same time, listen to each other's opinions and feedback, and respect each other's choices and decisions.

3.Find common ground: Even if you have some differences or differences, you can find some common ground to connect and communicate. For example, you can talk about hobbies, career development, and other topics to improve the understanding between them.

4.Be polite and respectful: Be polite and respectful in all situations and avoid using aggressive language or celery behavior. This is how you can build a positive relationship and a good impression.

In conclusion, it is necessary to maintain an open and positive attitude when dealing with the situation, while focusing on communication and understanding to find the best solution. If you really can't meet the other person's request, then be honest about your thoughts and look for other possible solutions.

Hello, in a blind date, sometimes there is a situation where one or the other can be chosen, which may make one party feel very embarrassed and embarrassed at this time. Let's talk about what you should do when you find yourself choosing one of two on a blind date. First, calm down.

Regardless of whether you are selected or eliminated, maintain a good emotional state. If you are chosen, of course you will be happy; If you are eliminated, you may feel lost, but you don't need to be too depressed. After all, blind date is an attempt, success and failure can happen, and there is no need to take it too seriously.

Second, reflect on your own problems. If you are eliminated, you can think back to the process of the blind date to see if you said the wrong topic, or when you lost your temper. Whether you choose a blind date or choose your hobbies and interests to make friends, you must learn to self-reflect.

By identifying your own problems, you can better improve your friendship skills. Third, accept the unexpected. Sometimes, you may feel that both parties are in love, but the other person does not.

At this point, there may be some upset, but it's best to accept the situation. If you are arranging a process and the other party is not willing to participate, you should give the other party more understanding at this time. On the way to finding love, we should learn to accept the unexpected results, rather than over-fantasizing and expecting.

Fourth, a positive mindset is key. Whether you are selected or eliminated, you must maintain a positive attitude. The blind date process is both an experience and an opportunity, and we can learn a lot from it.

Learn to absorb these experiences and constantly improve your ability to make friends, even interpersonal skills. Finally, don't forget that there are some things that are unpredictable. In the process of courtship, we cannot always succeed.

However, we can control ourselves and work on the way we deal with this "frustration". If we can face all this positively, then we will have a good life. Therefore, you must stabilize your mentality, keep your eyes open, and find the most suitable person.

To be honest, I actually don't think it's a big deal to be chosen one or the other on a blind date, because many times we are making choices and being chosen in life. It's normal to have a two-choice situation, because not only do you have to do the screening, but others also have to do the screening, and you think it's appropriate, but others don't necessarily think it's appropriate, so it's the result of two people choosing each other. I wish you a successful blind date.