?Should I tell my boyfriend? Someone is pursuing whether to tell your boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at your boyfriend's personality, if you're more stubborn and conservative, don't say it or say no, otherwise it's okay to be honest, I think you don't want to hide his feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No. Well, women, sometimes you need to treasure something.

    Of course, the man who asks you this kind of question is not a reliable person!

    Careful! So, I'm advising you to break up, saying that you've had it.

    If you love him, say no.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's really hard to do this kind of thing, and some things to hide can really protect your relationship! But paper can't contain the fire, and the truth will come out one day! Sincere encounters should be the first priority! It is advisable to find a suitable time to confide in.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the future, when you feel that the two of you are like one person, tell him again. I think a lot of boyfriends and girlfriends seem to have asked this kind of question, and it's not a big deal.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He has been most suspicious since you, and he has said half of it, and he has said it

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay to say this kind of thing, and it's okay not to say it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What's so strange about that! Men need it, and so do women!

    Physiological needs. What does it mean?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Still asking about this? So what is his purpose in asking this?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tell your boyfriend that if he is small-minded and possessive, he will be uncomfortable and will even ask for something from you. Or he will think that you are showing off and his heart will be sour.

    If the other person has a good personality, tell him that it's okay.

    Personally, I think it's better not to say it, just handle this matter yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

    When you are in love, there will inevitably be people who love you to pursue you. But I am not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their partner honestly about the fact that someone is pursuing them.

    1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

    In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

    However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

    This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb for this relationship of oneself, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure and feel that it has been concealed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If someone is pursuing you, you really should tell your boyfriend, and both of you should be on guard. Don't let this person's behavior mess with your feelings, so tell my boyfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Someone pursues you, you should tell that person that you have a boyfriend, you should clearly reject him, don't let others have wrong thoughts, this kind of thing is best not to tell your boyfriend, if that person is dead-faced, you really can't refuse, you just tell your boyfriend, let your boyfriend negotiate with the other party, otherwise your boyfriend will be jealous and will be more hearty, maybe you yourself are very good, so someone will pursue, but some things can be rejected if you can, after all, you already have someone you like, and it is not suitable to fall in love again, It also reassures the boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have decided to get along with your current partner and marry him, don't tell him that another boy has confessed to you. For it would only add to his troubles.

    If your boyfriend is not open-minded and suspicious, he will strengthen his supervision of you and cause unnecessary trouble to your words and deeds.

    When you decide to be together, and after you are together, you should already trust each other completely, which is fundamental.

    Tell the other person that most of them are blocking, and you don't want to have something to do with the person chasing you, it's impossible, why add another block.

    Just deal with it if you decisively refuse to deal with it.

    There's no need to tell, others chase you and refuse it, it's my own business, I can solve it myself, tell my boyfriend to increase his troubles, even if it's not troubles, it will make his calm mood ripple, and it may break the originally peaceful life, since there is such a risk, why bother to say, it is necessary to leave some privacy in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal for someone to pursue it, after all, living in a group. But you have to tell that suitor that you already have a boyfriend. Instead of putting someone else after you tell your boyfriend. So if you do things the other way around, it's likely to backfire.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If someone pursues it, I think it's better to tell your boyfriend about it, so that he can feel nervous and be kind to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you meet someone you don't like and are stalking, you need to tell your boyfriend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it's not too much pursuit, then it's not necessary, because it will cause unnecessary trouble, just solve it yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better not to.

    Otherwise, there will be some unnecessary troubles that can be handled by yourself and rejected in time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you do something like this, you should tell your boyfriend in time so that he can give you better care!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    To this question, mine is: yes. Because love is a very beautiful and sacred thing, if you love someone, don't hide your love history from the other party, you should be honest with the other party about everything you have been in love with in the past, which is also fair and just for the other party, if you hide your love history, I think this is a kind of deception relative to the other party.

    Feelings obtained by deception will not be happy, and they will not last long.

    Only when love is based on mutual respect and loyalty can we gain the trust, understanding and support of each other. Although love is selfish, and if you tell your love history, the other party may be taboo, but if you hide it, once he knows about your history in the future, then she will definitely not forgive you. At that time, it is the passive self.

    Some people may say that the history of love is already in the past, and there is no need to turn it out again, just keep her in your heart. But I think that since the other party sincerely loves you, and you sincerely love each other, you must have a mutually tolerant mentality, he really likes you, and he will not care that you have ever been in love, because many people are not successful in love at one time, and they all have the process of falling in love. The main thing is that now the two of you are in love, and this is a kind of fate.

    There is a person who said very well, the root of love happiness is honesty. When you meet the right person, you should tell yourself the history of love truthfully, which will make the other party trust you more and understand yourself, and at the same time, it will enhance the relationship between the two people. It will also let the relationship between the two undergo a real test, and the love that has withstood the test is the real love and the happy love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. Things are man-made.

    2. Also observe the person's attitude.

    3. If you get along happily for a long time, achieve trust, understanding, and tolerance, it is not a legend to have feelings and spark love.

    4. There is no man who doesn't care about a woman's past.

    5. You need to create a perfect image with your own unique charm, and let him forget the past and look forward to future happiness.

    6, can't let go of this knot, verbally agreed, scheming boys, suitable for being together.

    Having said so much, you know what to do, the code word is very hard, the content is not apocryphal, it is the result of careful analysis, please choose as a satisfactory answer is the affirmation of labor.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Thrown to you. There is always a feeling that everyone dislikes.

    You care about how he feels, right? Actually, I think it depends on what you said about his relationship with your friend, if he knows and has seen your friend, that is, his girlfriend (you are talking about online dating), and the relationship is good, you better not stir up this troubled water.

    So how do they relate?

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