What does it mean to really like an idol?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

I think idols have to have three qualities to be called idols: hard-working, inspirational, positive energy, liking an idol means that he has something you can learn from, such as you learn from him, he does not flinch in adversity, for example, when you are confused, his inadvertent words wake you up, it's okay! It's a blessing to like someone and call them your idol, but blindness is another.

Idols can have a good influence and a bad influence, I think it mainly depends on how you define yourself, what do you like about idols, for example, some people like the glamorous life of stars, some like appearance, and they should be treated rationally, my two friends like different stars, and then one friend denies another friend's idol, and then this friend gets angry, the two of them are angry, which affects the relationship, I don't think it's just an outsider, why bother.

Yang Yang! I feel like I've changed a lot in the almost year I've known him!

I feel that I have a lot in common with him, whether it is in life or work, I never want to compete with anyone, and I don't like to worry about it; In fact, I am a very simple person, I want to live a simple life, and sometimes I even want to return to the mountains and forests and live a paradise life without fighting with the world, although I know that it is impossible!

In fact, life is a state of mind, the mentality is flat, you will not feel very tired, and I also have an extraordinary ten years, ten years of experience, ten years of ups and downs, lost a lot, but I have never felt pity, on the contrary, I will work harder to do my best! Knowing Yang Yang really made me change more of my outlook on life on the original basis!

Therefore, he is an important influence in my future life! I will always support him!

Hello, I would like to make some personal comments. Teenagers need idols – idols in a positive, positive sense. It can also be understood that if you can set an example with a positive impact, then everyone can draw beneficial support and inner strength for their growth.

From the perspective of young people, there are many futures ahead of them, and there are many areas that are being involved and developed and explored, and an idol and role model (even if it is a virtual character) can see from them a beautiful hope for the future, and feel their excellent qualities and enterprising spirit to inspire themselves. However, due to lack of experience, the love and worship of idols and role models should remind oneself to maintain a certain limit of reason, and not to follow and obsess without limits. That is to say, while liking it, remind yourself from time to time that if you see more of the positive aspects of the idol:

Behind the success is the hard work, the meticulousness in the work, the courtesy and courtesy, etc., rather than focusing on the superficial aspects (e.g., beautiful appearance, clothing). Because the former is the foundation for success, so that they can be continuously appreciated and welcomed, and it is also their inner personality charm. Like idols, if you can internalize these valuable qualities and advantages in them into your own personality and behavioral habits, it is a very good growth force for teenagers.

From the perspective of teachers and parents, it is best to deal with the problem of teenage idols in a guided rather than depressing way, and objectively see that teenagers like and worship idols have a positive side. Good teachers and parents must be able to explore the aspects of idols that are worthy of children's learning and imitation in the process of growing up, such as the spirit of hard work, modesty and studiousness, etc., and guide children to pay attention to these positive aspects. In addition, good parents should also identify with their children before guiding them.

If you don't recognize the child's feelings, then all the guiding behaviors are actually interference, which is not effective.

In general, the role of idols can play a very big role model and can help every child grow up healthily.

In the process of growing up, a person will have his own idol, and idols play a very big role in the development and progress of a person and even the final achievements. ......Specifically, the role of idols on a person is reflected in the following three aspects: establishing one's own life goals, influencing one's own state of life, and influencing one's words and deeds. 1.

The biggest role of idols for a person is to have an impact on what kind of life reputation return goal they establish. For a person to come to Danma, the most important thing is to establish a goal in life, and idols have the greatest impact on people in this aspect. ......To a certain extent, the state of the idol and the height it can achieve is the specific content of the life goals set by oneself, the higher the level of the idol, the higher the one's life goals, and whether oneself can achieve superior achievements is closely related to the state of one's idol.

2.Idols have a very big impact on a person's way of life. The influence of idols on a person is also reflected in the state of his life.

Specifically, the temperament and quality of the idol itself and its state of being a person will have a very great impact on yourself, and you will use the state of the idol as a template to learn, and over time, as well as the attitude of looking at people and things, and the state of being a person and doing things, you will become closer and closer to your idol. Therefore, idols play a very big role for themselves in this regard. 3.

The most direct effect of idols on a person is to affect their words and deeds. In addition to the above aspects, one's words and deeds will also be affected by idols. ......Specifically, the idol's speech and behavior, dress, and even the action of sitting and lying down will leave a deep impression on him, and he will consciously or unconsciously imitate the speech and behavior of the idol, all of which will have an impact on his words and deeds, making himself more and more like his idol ......in this regardIt is precisely because of the above reasons that idols play a very big role in a person.

Idols can play a big role in a person's growth, especially for young people. An idol can be anyone who is worshipped and admired, such as a star, athlete, writer, scientist, and so on. Their successes and experiences can inspire people to learn and pursue, help people shape their own personalities and beliefs, and give guidance and encouragement to Tongxian on the road of life.

First of all, idols can set a goal for people and stimulate their inner motivation and desire to pursue growth. When people see that their idols have achieved something, or have overcome difficulties and challenges, they will think that they can achieve similar achievements and will continue to work hard and improve in the process.

Secondly, idols can help people form their own values and beliefs in life. The words, deeds, and actions of idols can influence people's thinking and behavior, and shape their outlook on life, values, and worldview.

Finally, idols can also help people discover their strengths and talents, giving them the confidence and courage to realize their dreams. By understanding the experiences and achievements of idols, people can discover their potential and strengths, and continue to explore and practice in their own fields.

Of course, there are also positive and negative influences that idols have on people's growth. Therefore, we need to treat idols sensibly and wisely, maintain our own independent thinking and judgment, and not blindly follow and worship.