What does it take to really let go of someone?

I don't know if you have heard the song "I can't put it down", in short, it reflects the normality of most lovelorn people now. It's a painful feeling to not be able to let go of someone, but what is the performance of really letting go of a person? Maybe you're trying to let go of a person right now, so take a look at these performances do you have?

Don't delete friends and don't block them, but they won't bother him (her) <> anymore

To let go of a person, you first have to learn to overcome yourself and remove him from your heart. Many people who are out of love will solve the problem by deleting friends or blocking, but that is useless, because if you don't let go of that person, then even if you delete it, you can't help but find out about him, and over time, you will fall deeper and deeper. So if you want to completely forget a person, then keep him, only when you open the chat software every day and see him and don't feel it, that is to forget.

Passing by that person, I was also very calm and <> inside

Most couples have two people in common friends, so even if they are not together, they will meet at the party, of course, there will be many people who choose to inquire about each other's going first, if they go or maybe that person will not go, then in fact, this is the performance of not letting go, the person who really let go will not only go, but even if they meet, they will not be very embarrassed, because after all, it doesn't matter. Even passing by the heart will not make waves.

He or she will not ask anyone about him/her.

I believe everyone has finished watching the recent hot "Predecessor Three", and the effect it brings is also a household name, some have been put down, and some have been reconciled. So if you belong to the former and feel that the two parties are really inappropriate or like the hero and heroine in the play, you can never go back to the past, then learn from them, don't ask about each other's news, and start over with a different mood!

Most things have an expiration date, and the so-called infinite can only go up to a certain extent. Missing a person can only be missed to a certain extent, and when the long-term miss is frustrated, you will despair sooner or later. No matter how much you love someone, you can only love to a certain extent.

When you stand in front of this person again, your heart is not shocked, there is no sorrow, no joy, no unwillingness.

It's free, I see it, and I put it down. Letting go doesn't mean forgetting, you will still miss her and miss him. It's just that life is not missing, and he can't do it. Hope it helps. I've experienced it.

When I mention him, my mood will not fluctuate much, it's just like mentioning an ordinary friend, and when I face him, it's as natural as facing a friend, and if I can do this, I basically let it go!

It feels like the person has no pressure or influence on themselves.

There was no surprise when I saw him again, no loss, no jokes between friends, and I didn't turn my head to look at him.

I really gave up on the person I loved very much, because the other party already had a sweetheart, and no matter how hard I tried, it would not end well, so I would not continue to correct it if I knew the difficulty. Sometimes even if you love someone very specially, in the end you may not be able to live together, and the person who can live with you is not necessarily the person you love. Because of this, life cannot be particularly fulfilling, there will always be one or another flaw, maybe this is what some people call the beauty of flaws!

I also once had someone I loved very much, and we loved each other at that time, and I really hope that we can live together in the future. But things don't depend on human will, because we are in a long-distance relationship, my parents don't like me to marry so far away, and his parents don't want him to come to live in our place. Because our life is not only the romance and sweetness of love, but also the face of two families, facing many real problems such as firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Because both of them are only children, the elderly in both families have to face the problem of providing for the elderly. So no one would give in, and although both of us were very reluctant to give up this feeling, in the end we had to give up, and reason finally prevailed over feelings. In fact, I do regret it now when I think back on this relationship, because it is really not easy for a person to meet someone who loves you very much, someone who can satisfy you in all aspects, but it is because of some external factors that Yu Liangliang interfered with, so that you did not come together in the end.

It's useless to regret it now that I think about it, that's life. Maybe it's also a kind of providence, which allows us to know each other, but we can't live together. So I can only give up, if I continue to entangle, it will not be good for myself or others!

When we completely let go of a person, we don't have any emotions for him, and we can communicate with him calmly. You can really be friends after a breakup.

When a relationship loves each other very much, you don't want to miss every message sent by the other party, and you will be very happy when the other party sends a message. Every day, I wait for the other party to send a message, and I miss it very much when I can't see it. Later, when we find out that others are just playing or not worthy of our love, we have to learn to let go, forgetting that a person is not forgotten for a while, it takes time, and we may just think of the other person like that, we will argue with the other person, moral kidnapping, these are useless.

To do this is to interpret your pain with a positive attitude and forgive each other from the heart. We also need to meet new people, develop our own hobbies, and do what we like.

With the passage of time, it's not that I don't want him, but I think of him quietly, and there is no wave in my heart. When the other party sends a message to hit **, you are not in a hurry to reply, you are not waiting for the other party to send you a message, and there is no emotion when you really leave.

In the past life, whether it is happy or sad, we must strive to let go, and we must turn the page when it is time to turn the page.

Those who want to forget should also leave it behind, stop thinking about it, and look forward.

You know, there is a better tomorrow ahead of us, and we must always be ready for a new life.

It is meaningless and hurtful to dwell on the past all the time, but it is better to let go calmly and live the present.

If you can't let go all the time, it will make your current life depressed, and we will forget the sad and sad things, and those who have no fate will have to let go.

The present and tomorrow are the focus of our future lives, because the past is the past, and we cannot go back.

No matter what you have done in the past that you regret, let it go, take those experiences as a lesson, and pay attention next time.

Therefore, we must grasp the moment and prepare for the new life.

In order not to regret it in the future, it is necessary to live the present and the future, looking forward rather than backward.

Over time, you will be able to forget the person or thing that you have never forgotten.

The real letting go is not to think about it, nor to deliberately forget, but to hide it in the depths of the heart.

When someone asks you this question, if you say that you have let go without thinking, it often means that you have not let go, because before anyone else says who this person is, his name already appears in your mind. But after thinking about it for a long time, you just asked lightly, who are you talking about, then it means that you have really let go.

When you really let go of a person, he has become no different from passers-by, you don't remember it at all, and you don't deliberately tell others that you have forgotten. In life, we often talk about letting go of a person, so what is really letting go?

Don't delete or block, but I'm no longer curious about his dynamics.

Those who choose to delete and block are often not ruthless, but because they can't let go of their hearts, and they are afraid that they can't help but always watch his dynamics, and then see that everything about him has nothing to do with them, and they will be sad.

And when you really let go of a person, you don't need to delete and block him at all, because there is no place for him in your heart, and you will no longer care about what he has experienced. Even if you see his dynamics by chance, you just sweep it away, just like watching the news of those passers-by, there is no slightest wave in your heart.

I won't feel it anymore, I won't mention it to anyone, and I won't think about it anymore.

I really regret missing him, if only you weren't so willful at the time, if you always feel like this in your heart, and even tell others, then you often still miss him, and that period of time you had.

On the other hand, if you stop regretting what if, don't think about if, and don't tell your story to anyone, then in fact you are relieved. When you accept the past calmly and bury the past naturally, then as time goes by, you think of him less and less often, until you don't touch the scene at any time, then you have really let go.

Really letting go of a person is not deleting, not blocking, but letting go from your own heart, so what is the performance of letting go from your heart?

Even if you didn't block him, delete him, see the circle of friends he posted, and see his messages, your heart doesn't have any waves, you don't care about everything about him, whether it's so boring or bad has nothing to do with you. If he has bad news, you don't feel heartache, and if he has good news, you won't be happy, which proves that you let go, and he may not even feel like an ordinary friend in your heart, just a stranger.

If you meet on a certain occasion, you can nod to each other without panic, simply say hello, chat about the two ants touching their socks, and then walk away without looking back or changing their emotions.

When you see him leading his new partner to you, you are not jealous, you are not angry, you don't even have the heart to compare yourself with his new person. If you don't have a grudge, you can still say hello generously.

You may still think of him from time to time when you just broke up, and when you let go, you won't think about him again every day.

It is not easy to say that it is not easy to let go, it takes time, you need to strengthen your heart, you need to be busy, you need something to enrich yourself, and you also need to face a new relationship calmly.

I am a woman, and I think that when the relationship has reached the point where there is no desire, ignorance and tastelessness for the other person, I can give up, because I no longer have illusions, expectations and hopes for the other party.

A woman loves a man, and she wants him to be good to her, and at the same time wants him to be better. So she hopes that he will be attentive to herself, romantic and romantic, and really understand her; I hope he learns, is motivated, and succeeds. In the process of getting along, she will expect, tell, be sad, quarrel, cry...If she is unsatisfactory again and again, she sees clearly and despairs, she will be disheartened and have no desire, and then she wants to give up this relationship.

When people are emotional, their IQ is basically zero, and they can hardly tell what they are insisting on. We often lose our way in the persistence again and again, lose ourselves, keep paying for the one-man show, or look forward to the next performance again and again, and find ourselves so stupid and pathetic helpless, the reason why we don't let go is just because the number of injuries has not accumulated enough, and when one day we find that we don't even have the desire to quarrel and explain with each other, and just want to enjoy life quietly, letting go is just a matter of missing a word.