I m good for nothing, what should I do? What should I do if I feel like I m worthless?

Because I'm a woman, a lot of good opportunities will be delivered to my door! Because I'm a woman, I can wear makeup, I can wear a skirt without being looked at differently! Because I'm a woman, I can be spoiled (even if it's to my 4-year-old son)!

Because I'm a woman, everyone smiles at me when I go out on the street! Since I'm a woman I can go there, as long as I dress up and dress appropriately! Because I'm a woman, so many people care about me when I'm not feeling well!

I'm not good, I'm terrible at mahjong, and I'm also in cerebral palsy in arithmetic. Hehe! The situation is not much better than yours!

Be confident in yourself! The past is gone, and today is the most important thing! Have a good day!

Live every second! You've misplaced your focus! Look more at what you have!

Amplify what you already have! Amplify your joy! You'll get better and better!

Women should have a lot of things, how can they be useless.

I think you should adjust your mentality, you must face life with an optimistic attitude, and then set goals for yourself, so that you can have the motivation to move forward and the direction of your efforts.

I feel that I have nothing and is worthless, and I should affirm my own value, and everyone's existence is meaningful.

Set goals and learn skills based on your interests so that you can develop better. Do more public welfare activities to get self-affirmation.

When you feel like you're worthless, it's still useful.

I was born to be useful. When you suddenly feel that you are worthless, it means that you may not be satisfied with your current situation, want to make changes, but do not know how to change. Become confused, maybe want to be more important than Tarzan instead of doing nothing.

When you feel that you are worthless, it means that you are still useful, and you still have the possibility of rising. Life is a game, and you who dare to fight with your bare hands will have the possibility of success.

Whether you are good or not, try to change.

Excellent people are won by themselves. Most people are not born good, and many are acquired through nurturing and hard work. There will be many difficulties on the road of life growth, but slowly you will find that many things may be different if you work hard at that time.

As the saying goes, "If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow." ”

I also sometimes feel like I'm worthless, because I have a lot of time at work every day, and I don't know what to do. When you have your spare time, you think about life, why are you the way you are? If you hadn't made the choice you make now, wouldn't it be different now?

If you had worked harder, wouldn't it be the useless person you are now?

Work hard to improve yourself and you will make a difference.

Why can Yugong move mountains, Jingwei can reclaim the sea, and it has been passed down from generation to generation by the world. If you think about it carefully, it's not that they are great, in fact, they are very ordinary, but they have worked tirelessly and persevered in their own fields, and have reached heights that they did not expect. Many times, some people underestimate themselves, believing that they are worthless and can only do nothing in their lives.

A drop of water can still penetrate the stone, and people need to work harder. When you work hard, you will find that many things are not as difficult as you imagined. Find the key point, you can also start by reading a chapter every day, no matter how you act, your new world will open, and may you make a difference in the future.

1. Find the direction of life

Contemporary poet Zang Kejia.

In memory of Lu Xun.

On the thirteenth anniversary of his death, he wrote a poem, "Some people are alive, but they are dead." "There are many differences between humans and animals, the most obvious of which is that people live for a purpose, while animals only live for the instinct of survival.

Stephen chow. As I said, if people don't have dreams, what is the difference between them and salted fish? Before going to college, life is arranged, but after graduating from college, you have to survive on your own. If you can't find your own direction in life in college, then it will probably become a tragedy.

But when you don't know that you want to go to **, you will naturally just stand still. That's why I've always thought that the most important thing to do in college is to figure out where you want to go in life. Only when you have a direction will you know what you need to do in college.

2. Enhance your horizons

People who see the essence in a second and those who spend half their lives can't see the essence of a thing clearly, naturally have a different fate. - The Godfather Mario Puzo.

It is said that the peak of a person's knowledge is when he graduates from high school, and he can say that he knows astronomy and geography. And a freshman, his vision is in the most important stage of transformation in his life. To put it mildly, at this time it is the frog at the bottom of the well, and I always think that the sky is so big.

Many years ago, I read a story, probably the Buddha asked the Bodhisattva to cross an ordinary person, saying that he was destined for the Buddha, the Bodhisattva counted 500 years forward, and 500 years later, but did not find that this person had anything to do with the Buddha, and the Buddha told the Bodhisattva that this person had spit on the Buddha statue in the temple 503 years ago.

In a person's life, when faced with choices, all decisions are limited by our cognitive level, and for the Bodhisattva, his limit is 500 years before and after, so he can't see the fate that the Buddha said.

3. Start by sticking to some simple things

In fact, college is the best time to develop various habits, have a considerable degree of freedom, and do not have to worry about your daily expenses. It's completely possible to set some small goals for yourself and brush up on your achievements in college.

For example, you can get a full grade in every subject in the final exam, or get a scholarship from the school, or pass the English test level 4 or 6, or insist on running for 100 days, or insist on going to bed early and waking up early for 100 days, etc. By accomplishing one small goal after another, you can set up a correct feedback for yourself and develop good study and life habits.

In short, college is one of the best times in a person's life, instead of wasting in emptiness and loneliness, it is better to find your own direction in life, strive to improve yourself, and the youth of struggle will make you not regret.

As an elder, I feel that the family generation is not as good as the generation, and I really don't know if it is useful to go to college?

Playing games all day long, asking what you think, don't say anything, he gets mad when he talks too much, and becomes unwilling to communicate, and one of them is still a double-first-class student, which annoys our parents!

I really don't know if it's the education of today, or if the game is ruining the next generation?

Sorrow, pain, heart dripping blood...

Sometimes we suddenly feel like we are worthless, and this inferiority complex can make our lives very bad. But here I want to clarify the fact that everyone has low self-esteem.

In a sense, inferiority complex is the driving force for our growth, making us better and better, but we must also grow up, and we must not let the inferiority complex become an inferiority complex, which will restrict our potential and make us lack the spirit of self-breakthrough.

Article **2 First, low self-esteem is not a bad thing, inferiority complex is.

When a person has an inferiority complex, it is not a bad thing, because everyone has low self-esteem. Psychologist Adler once said that inferiority is divided into primary inferiority and secondary inferiority.

Inferiority often comes from our own family, such as being born in a poor and single-parent family, which makes us aware of the flaws and imperfections of our own family.

There is also secondary inferiority, which comes from comparing ourselves to our environment. For example, when we were children, we felt that we were very good, and when we grew up and went to a better environment, you would find that the people around you were very good, and you would have a kind of loss in your heart.

Both primary and secondary inferiority complex will make us doubt our own worth, become unconfident in ourselves, especially secondary inferiority, which will make us often deny ourselves.

A certain degree of low self-esteem will stimulate our inner potential, while excessive low self-esteem will suppress our potential, especially for people with inferiority complex, we must avoid.