Which is more important, lover or friend? Which is more important, friend or lover

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Very simple! A lover is someone who has accompanied you through your life, and a friend is someone who excludes loneliness together when your lover is away, which one do you say is more important???

    And there is an experiment: write the names of the 20 most important people in your life on the blackboard, and then assume that one of them dies, cross it out with chalk, one after another, and in the end there are basically only loved ones and lovers left! If you continue to row, everyone will cry, but you still have to make a choice, and the last one left is your lover!

    The reason is: a lover is a person who has lived his life with himself, and other people have their own lover, if their lover is gone, how can they live their life? ?

    Therefore, friends can't even compare with relatives, how can they be with lovers who are closer than relatives!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people say that friendship is important because friends are for life.

    It is also said that love is important because being with a loved one is a lifetime.

    This is the benevolent and the wise.

    It may be when a friend betrays you and the beloved one comforts you by his side.

    You will feel that love is more important than friendship.

    But when your friends are angry and comfort you after a fight or breakup with your lover.

    You will feel that friendship is more important.

    So when to promote the idea of what to do.

    But in general, everything is important.

    But as long as you're happy, that's the most important thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Both are very important, the lover is the wife who accompanies you in your old age, and it is also a good partner in your life, the lover is the warm breath that brings home, friends, if there are no friends, it is difficult to gain a foothold in this society, so both are indispensable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that friends are more important, but if you encounter something and can only choose one of the two, you may think of your lover first!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A lover is the way, and a friend is a pig. There is only one road in life, there will be a lot of pigs on the road, don't go the wrong way when you have money, and don't sell pigs when you are short of money. Don't get lost when you're happy, and feed the pigs when you're resting.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    are all important. If I had to choose, I think it would be a friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel your life.

    You can't do without any of them.

    Their role in your life is not the same.

    You have to know how their role should be treated.

    There is no one who is important and not important.

    You can't live without any of them.

    The key is to allocate your time well.

    Get along with them.

    Just don't let the two contradict each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How to choose friends and lovers. Do you have a choice? You can't win 'em all. Friends will fall in love with the person you like.

    Then the person you love may be very beautiful or very good. Or maybe you've given them too many opportunities to be alone. To retreat or not to retreat.

    How to choose. The answer is different in everyone's mind.

    Lovers and friends are strong attractions in our time. Let it be.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can, one is important, like the left hand and the right hand.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's up to you what you think.

    Love is also built on friendship.

    But what can be stable for a long time is friendship.

    It will also be love.

    See who you care more about.

    You will find out which is most important in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    All important. They are all people who have played an important role in your life

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone's answer is different, I think friends are friendship, friendship is often more memorable than love once it is really played.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When there is a conflict between a lover and a friend, it is not a time when you choose to give up and choose. What you have to do is how you should adjust it! Your friends will understand you, and your lover will be considerate of you

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hehe! It's a stupid question, really, I've seen it n times on the ask! Do you think love and friendship can be separated? Could there be one less?

    I walk in vain if I don't have one! If you really want to score, then the other side has to ask you to make a choice, and if it is very unreasonable, you will give up the other side.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Lovers and friends are not a good choice! So you have to take the right direction.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's like if you put your hands on a scale, the force on one side is heavier on the other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Will your friends accompany you on the road for the rest of your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In life, our family is inseparable from our lovers. We can't do our job without friends. If you have too much entertainment with your friends, you will offend your lover.

    If you revolve around your lover every day, you offend your friends again. So, how do you reconcile the two? Maybe doing so, it would be the best of both worlds.

    When you're at home, be sure to think about your loved ones in every way. From the parents to the children, the family's food, clothing, housing and transportation must be arranged. Buying food and vegetables, cooking and frying, three meals a day are not the patent of your lover, you also have to show your cooking skills, so that the family can satisfy their hunger.

    Mopping the floor and doing laundry, watering flowers and fertilizing, tidying up the room, picking up and dropping off the children to and from school, for the sake of a more harmonious family, you also have to do more. The nanny also has to pay the salary, and the lover is not your nanny, so you have no reason to yell at her and point fingers. Especially the children's homework, don't say that you are tired outside for a day when you get home, and your lover is not idle at home.

    When you come back to take some time, you should also tutor the child, don't say that you are very tired, you are very annoying, you are the head of the family, you are not tired, you are not annoying, isn't that to "usurp power"? Especially at the dinner table, if you say a word to me, if you are not careful, you will "start a war", you have to look at the limelight, check the gates, turn big things into small things, and turn small things into small things, and you must not be long-sighted.

    The happiness and joy of a family are closely related to you. Handle the relationship with your lover, you say, what worries do you have? A man can't live without a career, and if he wants to achieve a career, of course, he can't do without friends.

    At work, you must always think about your friends, treat them sincerely, be approachable, and get along with them. At the same time, listen to the opinions of others and don't be stubborn. In the work, we must not be afraid of hardship and tiredness, and we must take the lead and be active and willing to work.

    Establish good interpersonal relationships and rely on good character to have good popularity. Learn more about the difficulties of your friends, and give selfless dedication when everyone needs help.

    Your successes and failures are also closely linked to your friends. Handle the relationship with friends well, why is your career in full swing? A happy family is inseparable from a lover, and a successful man cannot live without friends.

    Bring your lover to meet your friends, and bring your friends to your house for dinner. Lovers and friends are your right-hand men, indispensable people in your life and work, and rare fates in your life. They are all equally important to you, and no matter which one is missing, it will make you miserable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    People who fall in love start from friends, and in general, they can become lovers in the end, generally speaking, they used to be very good friends, and once they broke up, they will at least be a little embarrassed, and they can't even be friends

    On this point, I have asked many people, some of whom have me: if everyone has this kind of thought, then will they still fall in love?

    yes, do you want to talk about it?

    I am a person who cherishes my friends very much (ps: those who know me don't dismantle my stage!) I really don't know, it's to be friends forever, always be happy with each other, and be crazy together without regrets; Or be a lover for a while, have a moment of eternity, and then walk the same way

    chose a friend and broke the heart of the person he liked;

    chose the person you like and broke the heart of your friend;

    So what to do?

    Then let's give you a quiz first, if your so-called friends and lovers all fall into the water, who will you save first.

    Friends are for life

    Loving someone is temporary, unless you can be sure that the person you love will be with you for the rest of your life!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's hard to compare friends and lovers, and you'll have the answer to which is more important. But for most people, a lover will be more important than a friend, because many people will spend a lot less time with friends after having a lover.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1. No matter how many friends there are no lovers, he Hengfan can't give you the feeling of being in love, when you are alone, you will not be able to envy when you see the happy appearance of the couple on the street, maybe at this time you will feel lonely and lonely, even if you have many, many friends. Friends can't give you the feeling that lovers give you.

    2. Friends and lovers are as important as Zheng Baoqing, you can't say who is more important than whom, friends are like the sun to give us encouragement, lovers are like roses, although they are thorny, they are not afraid to fall in love. They are all an indispensable part of our lives, and believe that we can share them.

    3. Lovers can give you everything because they love you very much, but this kind of love is temporary, and no one can guarantee a lifetime. Friends, but for life, no matter who you love, no matter what you do wrong, they will tolerate you, accept you, and never abandon you, as long as you are in need. If you want to have both together, you need wisdom.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. Friends should be heart-to-heart, and your lover is the one who accompanies you to old age. They are all an indispensable part of your life. But there is one point, friends can not contact each other for a long time and still meet each other, and still go to the soup for each other, but the lover is unconsciously worried about it all the time.

    Friends talk about righteousness, but lovers never leave each other.

    2. Love and friendship can coexist, in fact, what the lover gives is what the friend can not give, and the friend gives what the lover can not give, when you are better to your friend than your lover, please care about your friend's feelings, after all, it is your lover who is with you day and night, not your friend, when you care about your friend, please also care about your lover's feelings!

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