Why do some fans lose their fans after idols announce their relationship?

I think it can only be said that this is a personal understanding of the difference, I especially hope that my song can announce the relationship, there is someone who can take care of him, can accompany him to watch the spring, summer, autumn and winter, hand in hand to the quiet years, in fact, he is very lonely, I always feel that no one can deeply understand his heart, so if there is Mrs. Hu, Pepper will definitely support it. My expectations for Mrs. Hu are just like I am waiting for my own, I hope she is very good, not only his wife but also his confidant, understanding him is more important than loving him, I hope that day will come a little sooner, I hope they will be happy for a lifetime, and I hope that each of us will have a love that will stay together until old age.

First of all, idols are different from ordinary singers and actors, unlike singers who become popular by singing strength and actors who become popular by acting skills, idols rely on personal strength and personality. In the previous entertainment industry, the private lives of singers and actors were far away from the masses, and at that time, the Internet was not as developed as it is now, and it was difficult for fans to contact their idols in private, and there was a sense of distance between them. And now, in addition to the strength of the idol's popularity, there is also a bonus of character design, although idols also sing and act, but strictly speaking, they can't be compared with professional singers and actors, so popular only the character bonus is in it, you can often see fans say that their idols are "stupid and cute", "upright", etc., and the character design adds a certain strength to make idols popular.

And many fans like them, not necessarily because of their strength, but more because of their looks, personality, and private life. And as an idol in order to maintain popularity, it is necessary to maintain this popular character, so idols are not enough to sing and act, he also needs to actively communicate with fans, and the distance between fans and idols is also shrinking. Similarly, fans are also divided into many types, including mother fans, girlfriend fans, career fans, etc., girlfriend fans treat idols as a distant virtual boyfriend, once idols fall in love, this virtual imagination does not exist, and the fan mentality can be maintained very well, and the largest proportion of most idol fans is girlfriend fans.

In addition, career fans will also feel that once idols fall in love, they will not spend so much effort on their careers, and this part of fans will also "lose their fans" to a large extent. As for the mother's fans, they are probably the most Buddhist of all the fans, so there won't be much reaction, but the proportion of these fans is basically very small.

Why can't I accept idols to announce their relationship because I feel that my idol is the best in the world, even if it is a fairy or someone better than my idol and he She will only have three words in love: you are not worthy. More and more people choose not to be in love and go public, or never make it public.

It's because this kind of thinking is a hurtful idea for my idol and my idol's lover. After Lu Han announced his relationship, most of the people chose to scold Guan Xiaotong and shouted to take Guan Luhan, and there was even a topic for whether Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong broke up today, but it was useless. I still choose to forgive him.

After all, that's your idol's own life, when you are caught between your own fans and girlfriends, you won't say anything even if you have any hardships, after all, in the era of the big Internet, a word can ruin a person. The best way to chase stars is that I know everything about you, but don't interfere in your life.

As public figures, celebrities attract everyone's attention with their every move, and their relationship has naturally become the focus of everyone. As a star, the number of fans is not a few, brain-dead fans and girlfriend fans account for the vast majority For many little fresh meat, many of them are fantasizing about one day meeting idols and intersecting with their lives, for them, their idols are too perfect, so perfect that no woman can be worthy of them. Think about the person you have been thinking about for a long time, talking and laughing with others, drinking and talking, will you feel good?

But after all, celebrities are also normal people, if they are not celebrities, then there will not be so many people who care about them, and they will not receive so much attention when they fall in love. They have the right to have their own lives and their own love, and it's not something that fans can stop. In fact, to be honest, for myself, if my love falls in love one day, it will be uncomfortable, but after thinking about it, I love his person, and I don't care if he is in love or not.

Like is possession, love is tolerance.

Because they have subconsciously regarded idols as their husbands or boyfriends, if idols fall in love, they will think that idols are getting farther and farther away from them. It's more that they don't like that girl and think that she is not worthy of their idol, just like I can't accept that Quan Zhilong has a rumored girlfriend by his side.

He's your idol, maybe because of one of his songs, he's so cool at dancing, he's on a show, he's kind, he's goofy and cute, or maybe just somewhere and just find this person laughing so good! So you start to make up for all the things that have happened to him in the past few years that you have missed him, and then you get out of control, and every moment he thinks, it's really good, and no one else can match him, it's just perfect. So when positioning his idol too high, no matter what kind of person he is with, fans feel that their idol is looking at the wrong person.

For example, a toy that you like very much suddenly becomes someone else's. People who have liked him for so long, people who have hidden in their hearts for so long, people who have been hurting for a long time, who have said that they want to marry him and want to be his bride, have had many, many fantasies, but suddenly one day, I found out that he was another girl, and I was heartbroken. For example, I, like Yi Yang Qianxi for four years, Qianxi's mother said that Qianxi can fall in love when he goes to college, maybe Qianxi will meet someone he wants to take care of for a lifetime in college, and at that time, I will be sad, sad and angry.

But this is the end, we can't change it, we can only watch him get married and have children, we can't do anything, at that time, I can only silently bless and wish him happiness, but I wish them happiness, I can't do it.

In order to meet the needs of the target consumer group, the current male idols are essentially a kind of "boyfriend" personality: this requires them to maintain a tacit "intimate relationship" with fans, and this is also the goal of fans. And once this exchange is broken by "announcing a relationship", fans will naturally not buy it, and it is reasonable not to accept it.

In fact, there are two aspects to the public.

Not disclosed, from a business point of view, is nothing more than worrying that the star's image will be affected, for his career, or some endorsements will be damaged, etc. Therefore, simply conceal it and create a single character to win the pursuit of more fans.

Publicly, the first impact may be out of the fan, but for the celebrities themselves, they can have their own normal lives. This is much more comfortable than "single person". You don't have to hide to hide your other half.

Publicly, the first impact may be out of the fan, but for the celebrities themselves, they can have their own normal lives. This is much more comfortable than "single person". You don't have to hide to hide your other half.

When Lu Han made his relationship public, there was indeed a phenomenon of de-fanning, and many fans couldn't accept this fact.

However, Lu Han later responded to the fact that this public relationship would affect his popularity. He said: "Didn't I think about this before I announced it, and I'm not a fool, I announced it as soon as I was excited?"

Definitely not, this one will definitely have an impact. If I wasn't a character like me, I might not announce it, but if it were my character, I think I need to announce it. I think first of all, I think it's a kind of responsibility.

He also said that if he didn't make it public, there would be a lot of scandals every day, and he would also be affected.

Idol stars are also people, and they also have to experience life events like ordinary people: falling in love, getting married, and having children.

So, as an idol, if he can't even introduce his lover publicly, in fact, it's quite sad.

Maybe Lu Han lost a group of fans after publicly stalking about the imitation relationship, but after the verification of time, Lu Han did not affect his career because of the public relationship.

Many netizens said: "Lu Han has always been a passerby, in the period before Lu Han announced his relationship, it can almost be said that he can make money the most, even if he loses all kinds of things in the later stage, he can indeed make money during that time, and it is very touching to give up these traffic and money for the girl he likes." I still admire him in this matter, and he is indeed a man. ”

Nowadays, the life of celebrities is very disturbed by everyone, as idols, in fact, we should also regulate our words and deeds, everyone has different ideas about love, so what should idols do when they have an object? In the past few years, we all know that Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong have been evaluated by many people after they were made public, but after the relationship, many people have lost their fans, and there are also reporters who go to interview Lu Han later, what do you think of this matter? Who knew that Lu Han said that if he had someone he liked, he would make it public with her, which was the greatest respect for his girlfriend.

In fact, we should also cheer for our idols, because it is not easy for idols to find their own happiness, and it is not easy to open the chakra, and he also tells himself and others to make their feelings open and transparent. But there are some celebrities who have not made their romance public. There have been many scandals about Yang Mi and Hawick Lau's breakup on the Internet before, but then Yang Mi really posted an announcement on social platforms to break up with Mr. Hawick Lau, thinking that she would not be able to develop in the mainland, but who knew that he had developed better and better in the mainland in the past two years.

It's with Wei Daxun, you know?

People are very close when they participate in variety shows, and they are very ambiguous when they travel, but no one stands up to explain what the situation is. Netizens also faced this matter with the attitude of eating melons. In fact, it's good if they are really together, although Wei Daxun said that his idol is Yang Mi before, if he really ends up with Yang Mi, it can be regarded as very happy.

In fact, there is a pair of celebrities, and they have not announced their relationship to the public, but the later sweet ingredients also made many netizens very sour. You've guessed it! Zhao Liying has now had a child, but they rarely show affection in public, and it can be seen that both of them are very low-key and live their own lives.