What is the way to treat people, the way to deal with people

I think it's heart-to-heart. Treat people with heart.

Treat people with sincerity and trust in things.

The ancients once said that when you make friends, you keep your word. I think the other point is also very important, which is to make friends and make sure that you don't let your friends suffer.

People who always make their friends suffer will definitely not have many friends, and the road will slowly go away. In the process of dating, friends may suffer, but if you keep letting friends suffer, it will definitely not be long-term. I believe that taking the initiative to suffer, or having enough value in oneself, is the long-term way.

Winston Churchill once said that there are no permanent friends, only Tongqi has eternal interests. He is talking about the relationship between the state and the state, but in fact the relationship between people is almost the same, but it is not so obvious because there are some personal emotional factors involved.

First of all, this awareness came from a business training, when I was just starting to work. In an account manager training, the teacher preached what customer satisfaction is, customer satisfaction is the value of your service exceeding the customer's expectations. By definition, it's mainly related to two factors, one is what you show and the other is what the customer wants.

Although this is just business training, I feel that it seems to be applicable in many places. No matter the occasion, no matter who you are facing, this definition makes almost no sense. If you provide more than the other party needs, then you will definitely be satisfied with the Tartar Wheel Side.

In ancient times, there were stories of Six Feet Alley, and there were actually many things that happened around us. Mutual respect and giving to each other are definitely the longest-lasting relationships, and it is definitely interests that maintain long-term relationships.

It's just that sometimes the "interests" referred to here are not "interests" in the conventional sense. You can think about who we are more polite to, who we are more sincere, who we respect and respect enough, all of whom are people we care about, who are either higher in status than us or stronger than us.

This is not to say that we are snobbish, I think this is given to us by social attributes! Sometimes we know we may not get anything out of them, but we are afraid that we will lose the chance of less than 1 in 10,000 chances.

It's a bit far, and then it's back to the way of treating people. I can't say that every friend who intersects with us needs to maintain interests, but at least I think we should keep ourselves as "useful"!

The reason why people are human beings is that there must be some irrational factors in addition to the relationship of interests, and the reason why people are human beings may be the fundamental point, so they must not rely on their useful bodies to make friends suffer all the time.

Follow the principles of interpersonal communication:

1. Fully respect the other party's inner secrets or privacy.

2. When talking, look at the other person.

3. Don't divulge the content to others after hearing the other person's inner secrets.

4. Don't criticize others behind your back, save each other's face, and so on.

On the basis of abiding by the above four principles, pay attention to the following points:

1. Acknowledging your true self and presenting it in front of others, that is, honestly acknowledging your image as reflected in the minds of others.

2. Always be open and always consider problems from the perspective of others and give help.

3. Be open-minded and willing to accept others and yourself. Emotions are contagious, i.e. they are contagious to those around them, bringing happiness to everyone around them. Happiness dissolves the deadlock in interpersonal relationships and makes interpersonal relationships harmonious.

4. Master communication skills.

5. Strive for more communication and more exchanges. Only in this way can we better understand ourselves and others, eliminate misunderstandings between each other, and strengthen mutual understanding and trust.

6. Absorb the advantages of others, ignite the shortcomings of others, and be more understanding and tolerant. The so-called big things are smart, small things are confused, and the limited energy is used to do the main thing.

7. Take time to participate in group activities, etc.

1. Explanation: The meaning of this word is to teach people how to behave in a way that is to behave in a way that teaches people to behave in a way that is not auspicious.

2. From: From the book "Analects" compiled by Confucius's protégé.

3. Details: The most mentioned thing by Lao Tzu, the founder of Taoism, is the way of being a person.

4. The goodness of the ancients is the Taoist, "to the extreme, to keep quiet", and to fight the void beam, "white and humiliated".

5. In short, the slag is "red near Zhu, black near ink".

6. The enterprise does not stand, the cross does not work, and the self-seeer is unknown. Those who are self-righteous are not good.

7. Those who are self-cutting are reactive, and those who are self-conscious are not long, and they are also in the road.

8. Surplus food and redundancy, things or evil, 'so those who have the Tao are not punished.'

I often wonder, what should we be in the way we behave in the world? I think these sixteen words are good:

Eliminate evil and promote good, suppress evil and promote good, seek good fortune and avoid evil, and avoid evil and happiness.

Whether it's for treating others or for yourself, this is good. So, what should we do about it? We should think more and more carefully.

First of all, we should have a standard of right and wrong for good and evil, good and evil, good and evil. There is such a concept in mind. Then we can use it, and we can use it well.

For example, this uprightness and goodness means that for the good, the right, and the good, we praise and preach a lot, and we don't hesitate to say anything, we accept and get close to each other, and even help to achieve success, without stinging thoughts, time, and self-strength.

In short, this is an outline. The so-called steel is to remember this outline and grasp this big name. Then we can use it according to the specific situation of the specific situation and put it into practice.