My 8 year old son can t be quiet when he does homework, eats, and reads, what should I do?

I guess you're worried about whether your child has ADHD, in fact, it's normal for 8 years old to not be quiet, many active children are like this, in fact, many surveys show that such children tend to have more ways to develop and have a future than quiet children in the future. But for your peace of mind, here are a few ways to distinguish ADHD from one another, and you can take a look at them.

How can I tell if my child is ADHD or just hyperactive?

1 The relationship between attention and interest: Children with ADHD have no hobbies, no matter when and where, they cannot concentrate for a long time, and have symptoms of attention deficit. The active child can concentrate on doing what he likes, and hates the interference and influence of others, and he is restless in class and homework, mainly because of his lack of interest in learning.

2. Purposeful, planned and systematic actions: Active children's actions often have a certain purpose, and are planned and arranged. Children with hyperfunction often act impulsively, chaotically, and have no beginning or end.

3. Self-control: Active children have self-control in a serious and unfamiliar environment, and they no longer make noise. Children with ADHD are not able to do so and are often blamed for"I don't know each other"。

Expert tip: Children can only be diagnosed with ADHD after the age of six, of course, there are some details in the 0-6 years old stage that can also remind parents to pay attention early. If children with ADHD are not corrected in time, it will affect their academic performance and social adaptability.

Most doctors do not diagnose ADHD with children under the age of 6 because almost all preschoolers have similar symptoms to a greater or lesser extent. Even for older children, it can be difficult to be diagnosed with ADHD. Doctors refer to the evaluations of parents and teachers to a certain extent, and their evaluations are often divided:

A child with ADHD may be addicted to video games for hours at home and unable to sit still for ten minutes in spelling class. In addition, ADHD can be subdivided into three conditions: hyperactive, careless, and a combination of the two.

And some children with ADHD may never be hyperactive.

If you think your child has attention problems, it's best to talk to a doctor who can look into the subtleties of the symptoms to tell the difference between ADHD and other types of mental disorders.

If the child has excess energy, let him participate in more sports, consume the excess energy, and calm down when it is time to be quiet.

Praise him from time to time For example, you say to him: Your teacher told me that you did a good job in today's homework, and you will be better tomorrow than today.

In fact, every child is different, this is not necessarily suitable for your child, the child is not in charge, give him confidence, trust him, don't be stingy with your praise.

When you were eight years old, you probably didn't want to stay and do your homework every day, so you can't fool around, you have to do both soft and hard, first, you read the content of his homework first, and after you know it, accompany him to do it first, and do it for a week.

Second, then, you have to watch his homework beforehand, and then ask him to do it himself, you are reading the newspaper or something on the side, playing don't watch TV and surfing the Internet first, it's too sad, hehe.

Thirdly, after two weeks, you still have to prepare in advance, and then let him do it himself, you better insist on creating an environment for him, he learns, and you also learn! ok

Fourth, it is very important that "mom or dad" pay more attention to children, chat with them more, tell them stories, and if they don't know, just talk about it, but pay attention to the content of the words to be guided, don't talk nonsense, who says that children don't understand anything......

This parent, although I am a child, I think that raising a child does have to think a lot, so try to create good conditions.

Eight years old? Do homework? So big is when it's time to play. I basically didn't do it from elementary school to junior high school! It's not hard to do your homework. There's no need to push him. If the high school course is difficult, ask for it.

It's simple

When he doesn't want to do his homework. Prepare snacksand admonished him

Completing an assignment will give you a pack of snacks, and if you don't finish it, you won't be allowed to watch the animation at nightAnd you can think 1257538051 say. Give incentives appropriately

It doesn't matter how many points you get. As long as it is progressive, even if it is a point, it will give the child comfort and encouragementAnd give appropriate rewards.

Children's fun is mainly to eat, play, so the key to cultivating children, is to understand children's interests and foundation

Give a little reward appropriately! What is the reward for how many points or more in the test.

There is an old folk saying that a seven-year-old or eight-year-old dog is suspicious. Eight-year-olds are more mischievous, and then have their own thoughts.

There is a way to try, take him to a poor place to feel life, and read with the poor child for a few days, so that he knows how to cherish it. For example, there is a program on TV stations where poor families and happy families exchange children and live for a month.

In this way, poor children can also feel the life of a rich family, get more material care, and rich children can experience the hardships of life, and they will grow up a little more.

If you really can't do this, your son will be poor. Then at this stage, the main concern is his character, just don't develop a bad character, and it will be better when he is nine years old.

Then you don't need to memorize it, don't be too forced, let him feel the beauty of childhood, China's stereotyped education is too rigid, and now the post-90s and post-00s are all ahead of their consciousness, if they just use the old methods to follow repeatedly, it will only aggravate the status quo.

Specifically, you still have to communicate with the heart, if you can't understand the child's words, then the meaning of education is lost.

1 All 8 years old is about the second or third grade of elementary school, and the children in this period are more naughty, but they are also easier to discipline.

1. If you are not busy with work, you should take the initiative to go to school and communicate with the homeroom teacher, because children generally listen to the teacher.

2. You should always talk to your child at home, don't use the tone of parental orders, calmly tell him what he did wrong, what are the consequences, etc.

3. Coax him in a luring way, it is better to say that if you do all your homework this week, take her there to play, go to eat and so on. . .

You can communicate with your child and give him a better choice.

A child's education can only be gradual and guided.

Exchange of interests....Haha....But it's not very good after a long time...There will be a backlash....It's better for parents to spend more time supervising...

Please don't make homework a compulsory part of children, how many celebrities like to do homework when they are young? For the child at the age of 8 years old, don't pressure him, I didn't finish my homework once when I was a child, and my parents comforted me, but never forced me. Now I am also very grateful to my parents, because I now feel that I had a happy childhood, and I am now the director of the office in college.

Because I'm confident, there's no pressure from my parents.

Spend more time with him doing his homework (but not for him), patiently teach him that it is necessary to do his homework.

I guess the computer is the main reason, and you have to be kind and ......You can't spoil your children too much, if you spoil them, you won't be able to control them when you grow up in the future.

Are you busy playing with the computer? Or just don't do your homework?