Couple quarrels, help analyze it

You've gone to work in his city for him, and subconsciously you want to have a future with him. But judging from some of the things you said above, I think you really love him? First of all, you feel that you have similar educational backgrounds, and your family background is half a catty, but you are many times better than him in appearance, so you have a sense of superiority at the beginning, and you feel that he is climbing you, so he should accommodate you in everything.

Actually, as far as the internship is concerned, I think he does have something he can't do. After all, you came to this unfamiliar place for him, so you should arrange everything before letting you come, and you should have left yourself a way back before. But after getting angry and interacting with other boys, I don't understand whether I want to deliberately anger him or what, it stands to reason that if it is to deliberately anger him, then the purpose is achieved, and he should go down the stairs when he is sick, why don't you ignore it?

I also feel this. It's subtle. After that, I can't find a place to ask you to eat, and to be honest, I'll be angry if I'm you, because I'm also hot-tempered.

After all, he should always take care of a girl when she goes out. However, the development of events after that was a bit bizarre, and it felt like a deliberate quarrel.

If a guy is fierce to you because you didn't take care of yourself, didn't be filial to your parents, etc., because of you or a relative, then this man can have a relationship. But for the sake of very inconsequential problems, it is easy to be fierce against you and ship to you, so let's end it early. That person will always love themselves more than you do.

Finally, I hope you think about it, in fact, your parents must also want you to be by their side, now they are only children, they have grown up in honeypots, it is better to be by their side, although it will be very stable and peaceful, but they will be happy. It's better to think more about your parents Find a good man who loves you and your parents

The landlord is good, but my appearance is definitely many times better than him! Academics are comparable.

First of all, I want to say that fate is also hard-won, and besides, your relationship has not reached the point of breaking up...

It's good to be noisy together, it's just a different way.

But my appearance is definitely many times better than him! Academics are comparable.

From this sentence, you can see that you are a member of the appearance association.,For you, I can only say.,Don't think too highly of yourself.。。 I believe that if I had to choose, I would definitely choose a woman whose wisdom is higher than beauty, not inversely proportional.

He also told me that either they would break up directly, or they would not work in the bank.

He also said that the money owed to me would be returned, but in fact, I don't know what I owe... I spent less than a tenth of what he spent on me, I admit it.

As for money, if a man likes a woman, money is just a joke...

Shouldn't I break up with him?

I regret coming here now ...

Please help me take a look.

I'm really upset.

The above sentences are actually a certain degree of denial of your own time, which can only say that you are still young... It's good to be young ...

That's all there is to it.

Silly girl. Finally, I wish you good luck and happiness at the same time.

Hehe, this is normal, you are tired, do you think he is not tired? Now you can't stand it like this, and you can't stand it for a long time after getting married, but I want to advise you, this guy is not bad, if you find someone like you say, it won't be good to get married! It is not easy for anyone to be wronged for a lifetime without complaining!

Do you think there will be a person who will be able to accept your grievances without complaining in the face of no matter how much pressure he is subjected to? Even if you may have been a coquettish ...... at the time

Why should there be a "boy who has always been good to you and can make you complain like this"? In the understanding of the landlord, the relationship between men and women is that girls complain coquettishly, and boys care about it? Just looking at this text, I wonder, do you love him?

Why did you listen to your account and come to work in this city just to "fulfill" him?

Then I looked at the update below, "I really don't love him... I just want to find someone who loves me more than I love him", I can only hehe. If you are together just because you can get each other's care, love and support, let's break up as soon as possible.

If I were you, I broke up with him, and between him and you, money is a line of obstruction.

Occasionally, between couplesFrictionIt's very normal, think about two people together, talking and chatting every day, there will definitely be differences in thinking, and the personalities of the two people are also different, the way of thinking of boys and girls.

It's not the same. Therefore, when two people have been together for a long time, they may have different opinions on some things or their attitude towards things. But when there is friction or conflict between two people, it is the bestDon't quarrel

Because quarrels can't solve the problem, it will also cause more conflicts and misunderstandings between the two people, which will eventually affect the continued development of the relationship. Therefore, when a couple quarrels, the following problems will generally arise.

It may be that two people are already unhappy when facing the same thing, and at this time they should calm down and seek a solution to the problem. But if both people are not calm, in negative emotions.

It is already more obvious that the choice to continue the communication whileWays of communicatingThis? It's just that you say something that hurts the other party and finds fault with the other party, and finally it turns into a quarrel. This is very bad, because in the end there is only one result of the quarrel, which is to make the conflict even bigger.

Couples have never used quarrels to solve problems. A quarrel will only make two peopleAwarenessIt turns out that I am so bad in the other party's heart. It turned out that when faced with contradictions, the other party just wanted to find fault with me.

Then in this state, the couple's feelings will fade or even disappear because of the quarrel.

It is not terrible for two people to have contradictionsTerribleis the workaround is wrong. As mentioned in the previous point, a quarrel will escalate the conflict between two people, so the contradiction will escalate, and the two people will not have a good way of communication, and they will not be able to resolve the conflict smoothly. Although the two people may not mention the previous small friction, the pimple caused by this small friction.

But it left a shadow in my heart. This is all a hidden danger for future relationships. If two people don't reflect in time and find the right way to communicate, in the constant quarrels, the two people can only get tired in the end, feeling that the other party no longer loves them, and they don't want to continue the relationship.

The relationships that have been quarreling all the time ended in a breakup. Therefore, couples should be more tolerant and sympathetic to each other, establish good communication channels, and try to avoid quarrels, because quarrels bring onlyNegativesomething and the result that hurts the most two people.

It may be that two people have different interests and hobbies, quarreling over who washes the dishes, quarreling over what to eat at noon, whether to go out on Sunday or stay at home, quarreling because of a little conflict. Quarrel because of laundry, quarrel because the other person doesn't care about him in time.

A quarrel can expose the problems of two people, and it is convenient to solve the quarrel, that is, to use their most "sharp" language to communicate with each other, and the more "vicious" they are, the more they can express their resentment. But it is also important to have a quarrel, that is, quarrels will also expose some things that are usually forbearance to the other party and the truest thoughts in one's heart. A man may say in a quarrel that he hates that a woman has a relationship with a male girlfriend, and a woman may also say in a quarrel that she hates a lot about how much men always eat before going to bed at night.

And these are probably things that men and women usually deliberately withhold from talking. So after the quarrel, the man will get rid of his bad habit of eating at night, and the woman will keep a distance from the male girlfriend and no longer interact. Quarrels can really see through a person's temperament and temperamentThe more intense the quarrel between couples, the more they can see each other's nature.

Those men who beat women when they quarrel the most, and women who smash things when they quarrel the most, are all manifestations of exposing their true nature when they are angry. Anger will expose a person's character and qualities, and it will also allow others to see the worst and truest side of him or her.

Therefore, most of those who have had fierce quarrels and have not separated are also because they love each other, so they can endure the "evil" that the other party has done to them.

Quarrels will enhance the love between two people, especially those couples who are willing to change for each other, and they may not quarrel in the end. Because the two people have already run in and have adapted to each other's temper and style of doing things, there is no place for disputes. Of course, quarreling is not the reason why the relationship between the two people becomes stronger quickly, but changing each other for each other.

A quarrel will make the contradictions between two people come to the fore and quickly adapt to each other's living habits in a short period of time.

It is likely to be because of some trivial matters in life, because of the relationship between two people, or because of a third party's problem, or because of money problems, or because of disagreement.

It may lead to unstable feelings between the two parties, resentment in the heart, the idea of quitting in the relationship, and slowly giving up on each other and wanting to leave.

You are not suitable to be together, so you will quarrel over many small things because of Chunchun, and the two of you do not understand each other or tolerate each other. They are all looking for each other's shortcomings, since they don't want to be separated and impatient, just communicate well, and if there is a problem, just talk about it and don't quarrel.

The quarrel is because your Xu Hui can't get along in many ways. And you have only been in love for such a short time, and you can quarrel every day, which means that you will not tolerate each other. I think it's better to break up, and it will be painful for both parties to continue like this in the long run.

It is normal for lovers to quarrel with each other, after all, there must be a diaphragm between couples at the beginning, and it is a run-in period, noisy and noisy, after all, it is okay, after the seven-day run-in period has passed, it will slowly stop noisy after the fiber leakage, this matter, everyone's personality run-in.

Shizhi Zhichang said the truth, you have only talked about it for 7 days, it can be said that there is no affection between you, and it has not reached the point where it is difficult to give up, it can be said that your relationship is not very dripping at the beginning, and it can be imagined in the future that the time you spend together, for others for one year, two years, three years and five years, may be a drop in the bucket, and they really don't understand each other, so what is sweetness to talk about?

Loving someone too much is actually hurting the other person, giving the other person a kind of burden and causing guilt in the heart.

As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, and the hard-knit relationship is not lovely.

You must know that the most comfortable state of loving a person is really in moderation.

That love is not about giving unreservedly, but about knowing how to manage.

Quarrels and incompatible personalities. So let's break up. lest we not get together in the future and be even more angry.

If you're tired, make up your mind to break up. If you get married quickly, you will be even more tired, and you will have no living space for you. It's still early, and the bridge will not affect the youth, and you will be happy if you look for the right one.

Couples quarrel too often, and to analyze the reasons, I think that often quarrels represent a relatively large difference in the values of two people, because of the different understanding of things, so we deal with it differently. For example, when a girl receives a text message from a courier, she will want to take it home immediately, but the boy feels that what he is doing has not been done yet, so he doesn't want to be interrupted, so the girl feels that the boy is procrastinating. Secondly, objectively speaking, there is nothing wrong with both girls and boys.

The real reason for the quarrel is: The girl thinks you are my boyfriend, and I need you to accompany me to pick up the courier, but your grinding state makes me feel that you don't want to accompany me. In other words, girls have higher expectations of boys, and when boys' behavior does not meet girls' expectations, girls tend to interpret the problem as an "attitude problem".

In addition, when there is a conflict, don't blindly quarrel, don't think that this will solve the existing problem. Because often when quarrelling, under the effect of bad emotions, it is easy for two people to be quick to speak for a while, and the hurtful words they say may be left in each other's hearts forever and become a time bomb. Therefore, it is better to leave each other some buffer time, calm down with each other, think about it well, and then respond to each other's thoughts and opinions, and quarrel rationally, which is the most meaningful.

It is also necessary to learn how to deal with each other for each other's sake, and don't always think about how many grievances you have every time you quarrel. Conflicts and disputes between two people are inevitable, and the first thing to do is to learn to understand and care for each other. Don't always think about yourself one-sidedly.

When quarreling, don't always turn over old accounts, or quarrels caused by other issues, and always turn over old accounts in the end, blindly talking about the other party's shortcomings and faults. The past is in the past, just talk about things, don't go too far, so as not to intensify the contradictions between the two people. Personally, I think that breaking up with frequent quarrels is irresponsible for the relationship, and it is also irresponsible for oneself.