What did you do after you graduated, and what did you do after graduating from college?

Work hard to find a job and build up contacts and experience for yourself.

Thanks for having me! I graduated in '08, and what I want to do most after graduation is advertising design, after all, it is my major. Then I started looking for a job, and that time was the most confusing time of my life.

I have submitted a lot of resumes on the Internet, but there are few responses, fresh graduates, no relevant work experience, and many companies do not want them. And I can't look down on the recruitment of general workers in those factories, after all, I have read books for so many years, and I can't stand the gap of running to be a worker. Later, all the living expenses were exhausted, and I had no choice but to do it under pressure, so I went to Sohu to do online game promotion, ran an Internet café every day, and could walk tens of thousands of steps a day, which was particularly tiring, especially in Wuhan, a furnace city, for eight months, and I usually saved money to save about 800 yuan in addition to rent and daily expenses, and then I quit my job.

During this time, I feel that my mentality has changed a lot, and I feel that it doesn't matter what you do, the most important thing is to make money. During the Chinese New Year, I went home once, and at the class reunion, I saw that many high school classmates were mixing well, as we all know, this kind of party has a great impact on my mentality for students who have just graduated. After resigning, I saved some money in my hand, and began to set up my own stall, living in Wuchang at that time, buying some cups from Hankou, and selling them at the gate of the university at night, I could probably earn seven or eight thousand a month, and this situation lasted for a year.

Later, I met my current wife, and I needed to be more stable, so I embarked on the road of commuting on time again.

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Here are a few things I'll do:

1. When I was a freshman, I would continue to study English every day, and then my goal was to take the fourth or sixth level and the interpreting qualification certificate before graduation.

2. After every trip, I will write down my travel experience and thoughts on the road, and then go to major platforms to publish it, regardless of success or unsuccess, I will stay and will not lose it. Then show my relatives and friends what I wrote, 3, I will go through my parents' relationship in addition to traveling during the vacation, find a place to do holiday work in it, improve my writing skills and see how it works.

4. I will try my best to go abroad as much as possible, and I will prepare all the things I need for a working holiday visa when I am in my junior year, and I will grab the first batch of places after graduation.

5. When I was in college, I would start to set up a stall at night to experience this aspect, and then set up a review and summary.

6. I will try my best to take some of the required certificates, what computer level exams, English, and teacher qualification certificates. I also go to participate in some competitions organized by the school.

7. I will work hard to learn my professional knowledge and make up for what I lack, and Qi Xian is not to cope with exams, many times, college is for myself, not for others.

8. I will try water sports on a certain holiday. Experience it and learn to surf and dive. It should be cool.

In fact, college is a past that I can't go back, and what I want to do should be to look forward and think about what else I can do in the river of human growth, so as not to leave regrets for myself.

There's no connection anymore, and everyone still plays games and stuff from time to time when they just graduate. It's been about half a year since I graduated, and I've had a lot less contact.

On the one hand, everyone's time is really much less, and there is almost no time to get together and play something.

On the other hand, everyone actually doesn't know what to chat about, looking at the teenagers in the circle of friends, from the boring daily life of laughing and scolding in the past, posting some things to eat, drink and have fun in the royal consumption section to now starting to post some marketing articles, happy things are no longer happy.

Students who rely on their relationships to enter public institutions or have strong family backgrounds and many students from the bridge family who enter private enterprises are very different.

Some people are working from 9 to 5, everything is on the right track, some people are counting the big and small weeks, some people are going to graduate school, some people are working overtime late at night, some people are still looking for jobs, some people go back to their hometowns to live a comfortable life, some people are suffering in small cities, and some are unable to find their way in big cities.

Everyone has suffering, but they can't expose each other's old bottoms like before, and laugh and make trouble unscrupulously. Students who are not happy with their jobs avoid being able to talk to those who have not yet found a job, and students who have had a smooth sailing life do not know how to drink and talk with their old friends who are worried all day long.

The happiness of others seems to be no longer empathetic at this moment, and can only be said bitterly, without poking the needle, and gradually drifting away.

Actually, I really want to say to some classmates who are not in such a good situation, it's okay, if you have any troubles, just say it. In the past, we failed the exam, were notified and criticized, were punished by the teacher, and talked to by the counselor, we have all experienced each other, and no matter how embarrassing the moment, we will not look down on each other, laugh and scold them.

But from his own standpoint, he saw his former classmates, and today's high-spirited appearance, it seems that he can't fully accept such a distance.

And this second, I sat on the bus and watched you drive away in a BMW.

The distance in our hearts, the distance in reality, and the huge gap make us afraid that we will never have any more intersections.

May we all have a bright future, and when we are successful, we will meet again at the barbecue stand on that cold night, with a bottle of beer and a handful of cumin, around the fire, burning our eventful years.