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Because of the high prices, high consumption, and high housing prices, it is very difficult for people to buy a house, and it takes several generations of hard work. There are also many cases of property damage due to marriage and divorce. In this case, people's sense of self-protection is very strong, so many people try to turn the house into a pre-marital property.

In other words, high housing prices can not only eliminate the needs of the brothers, but also destroy many other trust relationships. It's the current relationship, the relationship between husband and wife. The reason why people do not trust this relationship is also related to the whole situation of the current development of society.

And then again. After a woman gets married, she can live with peace of mind, without so many ideas. Makes me less dependent on substances.

Now, let's say, you have a house in Beijing. If you get divorced, you don't have a house to live in, and under the conditions of high-rise buildings, there are tens of millions of mansions. But there is no place for it.

This is also a very objective reality. It's not like you can buy a house with a little money.

Under high housing prices, there will be a sense of high risk prevention. With the awareness of high-risk prevention, how can you trust other relationships? Even if there is, it is a failure.

You see, now because of buying a house and buying a house after marriage, a woman wants half of the man's property as soon as she divorces. Who dares to get married, and pay for a house after a year or two of marriage. The reality is really scary.

And this house is the result of generations of savings. Marriage is arguably the most risky thing. Especially for the side that buys the house, the situation is really not optimistic.

High housing prices, high prices, and high consumption not only eliminate people's rigid needs, but also eliminate people's family affection and love. Inadvertently, it also destroys marriage. It is often said that whoever gives birth to a son buys a house.

There is no such thing as equality between men and women when buying a house. When divorced, there is a saying that men and women are equal. So for a man, if he gets married once, he has to pay for a house after a marriage, who would dare to get married?

Ordinary people have been buying a house for several generations, and they were lost in this way. That's the reality.

Because many people will be heartbroken by each other when they are in love, those false lies, those unfulfilled vows, will become the scar in people's hearts.

Because more and more people are full of fear of marriage. And I feel that marriage will make me very stressful, and it will not make me feel warm.

Because many people feel that the ideas of the opposite sex are changeable. When you fall in love, you may be deceived and hurt yourself deeply.

Because a lot of things are happening between the opposite sex now, and they are magnified, getting worse and worse, and the impact is great, and sometimes lives are not guaranteed.

I don't believe in the opposite sex because I have been hurt in the past, and I don't want to fall in love, which is indeed a very time-consuming and painstaking thing, many people prefer to spend time on themselves, and marriage also needs a material foundation, and now life is stressful, so I dare not get married.

Because in this materialistic era, it is difficult to find true love again, in order to pursue love, they are hurt again and again, betrayed again and again, so that they no longer believe in the opposite sex and do not want to fall in love again, because they can't afford to hurt, let alone dare to get married.

Nowadays, many young people have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married, which is also very strange, some people complain that this behavior is "hooligan" behavior, and the reason for this idea is also related to many factors. Marriage and love are two different things, love seems to be a matter between two people, and marriage will be a relationship between two families, and marriage may also face many problems. So why do some people now have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married?

Personally, I think there are three reasons:

It may be because the economic strength does not allow, if the cost of love will be relatively small, but if you get married, it will involve all aspects of expenses, in addition to the preparation before marriage, house, car and bride price, etc., after marriage, you may face a person's salary, to pay a family's expenses, the pressure is very high, so you simply don't want to get married.

Only fall in love and do not get married, there is not enough responsibility and responsibility, we know that only a marriage certificate is legally recognized husband and wife, and not wanting to marry each other is unwilling to give the other party a certain amount of protection, and it is enough to see that this person is very "selfish" and only thinks about himself.

Nowadays, young people have a greater "playfulness", and it may be that they have seen too many divorce cases, and sometimes they think that not getting married is a very free thing. Only falling in love only has to face two people, but if you get married and face two families, you may be bound and controlled, so you don't want to be shrouded by "family".

Because after getting married, a new family is formed, and there are no restrictions on falling in love, and it is relatively free, so most people don't want to get married.

Maybe it's because they think that getting married will have a lot of troubles, and there are also a lot of contradictions, so it's better to fall in love directly.

Because most people are afraid of marriage now, they are afraid that there will be a series of conflicts and problems after marriage, and they may have some worries about their children, so they want to only love and live freely.

Because marriage is stressful and requires material things. Today's young people can't bear the huge pressure and can only choose to only fall in love and not get married.

Nowadays, some people just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, mainly because falling in love is compared to getting married. It's more relaxed and free, and there are not so many chores.

Because people nowadays feel that getting married is very stressful, and it will bring great difficulties to themselves and limit their lives, so they just want to fall in love and not get married.

Because marriage brings so much trouble and pain to people! Especially women, after getting married, they do everything by themselves, and the children are brought by themselves, and their jobs will have to be given up because of this!

The reason why some people now say that they only fall in love, that is, the idea of not getting married, is because they feel that marriage is more troublesome, the cost is relatively high, they want a bride price, they have to buy things, and it is more troublesome to live in the future.

Because the cost of falling in love is low, you don't need to spend too much money, and if you get married, then the pressure will be great, and you need to spend money everywhere.

It's because there are a lot of contradictions after getting married, and after getting married, it means giving up a lot of things, so people enjoy falling in love more.

Because once the relationship process into the marriage has become a greater responsibility, to bear the relatives and friends of both parties, and even the other party's family, the other party's family is responsible for all kinds of things, it will increase invisibly, now a lot of pressure between young people, coupled with the current social cost of life pressure is very large, many people fall in love in order to transfer their own pressure, find someone to bear together, share pain and share happiness, but once married, those many things are not chosen.

Nowadays, many people want to fall in love and not get married. You don't need to bear any consequences when you fall in love, as long as you are happy. But marriage is different, it's a responsibility.

That's because falling in love is a matter of two people, it's easy and interesting to fall in love, and after getting married, it's a matter of two big families, and a little bit of a small thing can cause a big chain reaction.

Why do some people now have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married? Because some people are very selfish and irresponsible, they only pursue romantic love and pursue good looks, such people are unreliable, they are selfish, and they may be caused by social pressure.

Nowadays, some people only fall in love and do not get married, which is actually an irresponsible idea and should not be admired.

Modern people often lack responsibility and have no sense of responsibility. Because the cost of having children is high now. Some people just don't want to get married and have children. They often only think about having fun and eating well in their lives.

Now there are some people who are only in love and don't want to get married because they don't want to take on the responsibilities of the family, they just want to be alone and relaxed, and over time he also has the possibility to change his mind.

Nowadays, some people only have the idea of falling in love and don't want to get married, that is, in the real society, marriage can't put a lot of pressure on young people, so they have this idea.

Love is happy and sweet, and everyone hopes that they can have a happy and happy love. ......However, there are also some people who don't want to fall in love, and the reason why these people have such thoughts is because of the lack of personal willingness to fall in love, their own poor conditions and inability to find a partner, and the temporary inability to fall in love due to external factors.

1. The reason why some people don't want to fall in love is because they lack the willingness to fall in love.

The key factor in whether a person is in love is the ...... of personal willOnly when you want to fall in love can you take action to fall in love. ......And in real life, the reason why some people don't fall in love is because they lack the willingness to fall in love. ......There are many reasons why these people don't want to be in a relationship.

But these people have one thing in common, that is, they are unwilling to fall in love from their own hearts. It is precisely because of this state that these people lack interest in falling in love, and then do not want to fall in love.

2. For some people, the reason why they don't want to fall in love is because of their poor conditions and can't find a partner.

Among those who don't want to fall in love, some people don't want to fall in love because of their poor conditions. ......These people actually wanted to fall in love, but because of their limited conditions, they couldn't find a wishful partner, and when a long time passed, these people wanted to fall in love, and the idea of falling in love would gradually disappear, and eventually become a part of the people who didn't want to fall in love. ......Fundamentally, it's not that these people don't want to fall in love, but that they can't fall in love with their own limited conditions.

3. Some people don't want to fall in love because they can't fall in love for the time being due to the influence of external factors.

For a person, external factors have a very big impact on their own state. ......For example, working in a different place will make two people who love each other a long-distance relationship, for example, the disapproval of parents will become an obstacle to two people falling in love, etc., these external factors will become an obstacle to their own love, resulting in their inability to fall in love for a period of time. ......Some people accept these problems rationally, wait for the opportunity, and try to try to obtain favorable conditions.

And some people are disheartened and no longer think about ...... in loveThis latter type of person will become a person who does not want to fall in love, and they do it out of helplessness.

It is said that "wise men don't fall in love", many people are obviously in good condition, but why don't they like to fall in love so much? Actually, based on my observations, there are many reasons for this.

The first is being too picky. Some people are too picky and demanding of the object they like, even to the point of being harsh. As a result, their options become narrow, and it is difficult to find objects that meet their criteria.

Some people may pay too much attention to the other party's height, income, education and other conditions, and ignore other important aspects such as the other party's personality, hobbies, and personality. On the other hand, people who are too critical may also mask their insecurities by holding themselves too high standards due to their own inferiority complex. Therefore, it is suggested that people who are too critical should let go of the "standards" and "prejudices" in their hearts, learn more about different types of people, and give themselves and others some opportunities.

The second is poor social skills. In fact, not everyone with good conditions is a "social cow". Some people are in good condition, but they lack good social skills.

They are not good at socializing with people and are not good at expressing their emotions, which can make them have a lot of difficulties in love. These people may need to practice more social skills, be socially active, and try to make more friends. At the same time, learn to take the initiative to express your emotions and needs, so that you can build a healthier and honest relationship.

The third is that he has a strong sense of professionalism and puts a lot of time and energy into his work, and it is difficult to have time to manage a romantic relationship. For such people, it is still necessary to learn to balance work and life, not to spend all their time at work, but also to spend time managing romantic relationships, so that they can live a fulfilling and happy life. Because, at the end of the day, work is just a part of life.

When choosing a partner, choose those who can understand and support your career and work together to achieve the value of life.

Finally, because of psychological disorders. Today, there are more and more young people who may have psychological disorders, such as anxiety, depression, etc., which can affect their relationships and romantic relationships. I once knew a friend who chose to run away from marriage because of psychological anxiety, and ended up causing great harm to his family and partner.

For such people, it is best to seek professional psychological counseling and ** in time to help yourself overcome psychological obstacles and restore a healthy mental state. At the same time, you can also gradually overcome social barriers and establish healthy interpersonal and romantic relationships by participating in social activities and making friends.

In short, if we want to find a suitable partner, we need to try to break out of our comfort zone, be brave enough to reach out to more people, improve our social skills, and learn to let go of our high standards and give ourselves and others some opportunities. Falling in love is a process of mutual understanding, appreciation, and support for each other, and we hope that everyone can find their own happiness.