If both husband and wife have a cold war with each other, and they can t communicate and reach a con

Updated on society 2024-03-01
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The conflict between husband and wife has risen to the level of communication and consensus, and it seems that the subject is a person with a high level of education, and it stands to reason that people with a high level are very easy to solve when they encounter problems, how can it reach the level of a cold war?

    If the husband and wife reach the point where they have a cold war with each other, cannot communicate, and cannot reach a consensus, divorce is not the only result.

    If the husband and wife have contradictions, they will not sort out and resolve them in time, and they will reach the point of the Cold War.

    When the husband and wife reach the point of the Cold War, neither of them wants to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, do not want to explain, do not want to talk, and there is no way to communicate and solve problems well.

    The inability to reach a consensus is due to the fact that there is a gap in the original cognitive level of the husband and wife, and they are both angry, no one wants to give in, and there is no subjective willingness to reconcile, so there is a phenomenon that a consensus cannot be reached.

    Husbands and wives have a cold war with each other, perhaps because one party has made a mistake but does not realize that he has made a mistake, and the other party's desire to ask for an explanation has not been satisfied, so they express their inner anger in the form of cold war.

    Husbands and wives have entered a state of cold war and are unable to communicate at all, and couples who have no arguments and no verbal communication cannot reach a consensus at all.

    When the husband and wife reach this point, they must first communicate, and only when the husband and wife have a verbal exchange can they end the Cold War, find the root cause of the problem, solve the problem, and then have the opportunity to reach a consensus.

    Consensus is that both parties have the same view, common opinion, common understanding, and common handling opinions on a certain issue, and if the husband and wife want to reach an agreement, they must talk, discuss, and seek common ground while reserving small differences, so that family conflicts can be resolved as soon as possible.

    Problems should be solved by all means, not by divorce.

    No matter what problem you encounter, you have to face it, you have to find a solution to it, if the problem cannot be solved, the relationship between the two parties has been broken and cannot be repaired, and then you can think about other things.

    The main problem now is to change the state of the Cold War, so that the husband and wife can resume language communication, "the words are not said thoroughly, the casserole is not leaked", only when the words are thoroughly spoken, the reason is understood, and the problems between husband and wife can be solved.

    No matter what the matter is, it doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong, both husband and wife should find a person of high moral standing and sensible to sit together, explain things clearly, "to love and unreasonable", both sides stand on a fair standpoint, seek answers to problems, so that the conflict between husband and wife can be alleviated, find the best solution, let the husband and wife break the deadlock, and return to the past.

    If there is a conflict between husband and wife, it must be resolved in time, and the contradiction cannot be left overnight.

    The contradiction is like an accidentally tied buckle, untied in time, nothing happens, if it is not untied in time, it will affect the overall situation.

    Husbands and wives should understand each other and care for each other, and there will be laughter and laughter in a loving home.

    Husbands and wives should tolerate each other, not oppose each other, it's time for the New Year, have a good reunion year, and wait for the fifteenth day to talk about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think there's only one way to get divorced. Because two people especially look down on each other, can't communicate, and can't feel each other's advantages, such two people often quarrel, the impact on the children is not good, it is better to divorce.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it should be easy to divorce, if you can't communicate and can't reach a consensus, at this time, two people should look for the problem together, you should find a solution to the problem, so that two people can communicate, can reach a consensus, no longer a cold war, both sides should have more understanding, humility, tolerance, patience with each other, and can't divorce at every turn.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In marriages, situations like this happen from time to time, and it is not only divorce that is the solution, I think that as long as two people calm down, they will be able to better solve the problems that arise between each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are not only divorces, but many other ways. Clause.

    1. Try to calm down for a while and think about what you did wrong in your relationship. Clause.

    Second, you can try to understand his situation with the other party's relatives or familiar friends. Clause.

    3. Choose the right time and communicate with her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, since it has reached this point, it is difficult to recover, and the best way is to divorce.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Often in the Cold War, I look for the cause, first from my own body, everything has a cause and effect, and there is no right or wrong for no reason. Cold war and domestic violence can be as addictive, cold violence in marriage is often more terrible than all quarrels, because you are no longer willing to communicate with each other, rather let the misunderstanding deepen step by step, and then wear out the feelings between you, and then create the illusion of emotional breakdown, and then fake the real end of the marriage, in the near future or longer only to find out that all this is just a drop in the ocean is not worth doing, rather than regretting it at that time, why not remedy it now and give each other a chance, Talk openly and honestly, and it's another sunny day when you walk over.

    If there is a cold war, and often a cold war, it means that the first thing is that both sides feel that they cannot communicate with the other party, or that the party at fault still insists on going their own way, which makes the other side very sad and disappointed in you, and there is no longer a request, and it has been improvised. Second:

    Neither side takes the initiative to talk to the other party, they are all waiting for the other party to come to you to talk, or one side enjoys this cold war mode very much, and would rather have a cold war than say a word to you.

    Of course, if you have been holding grudges for a long time, treat each other as nothing, or really dislike each other, and both sides enjoy this state of cold war so much that daily communication between them has become an obstacle, then let each other live as soon as possible. While you are still old, you are still red, and bravely look for a happy life that truly belongs to you. Don't wait for the yellow roll and green light, and the beauty will regret it when she is late.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need to maintain a couple who often have a cold war, because two people obviously don't love each other anymore, and treat each other like strangers, like enemies, and quarrel every day, so there is no need to maintain it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Couples who often have a cold war can sit down and talk about their hearts appropriately. Talk about each other's strengths and weaknesses, and then recall the scene when you fell in love. Turn the marriage around.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is definitely no need to continue this marriage, because the husband and wife who often have cold wars have no feelings for each other and are not even willing to speak. Then there is no need to maintain the marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Couples who often have a cold war, it is obvious that the relationship has been almost consumed, and if there is no effective communication, they will not be able to get into this marriage.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to maintain such a marriage, because there will be a lot of contradictions between two people who often have a cold war, and it will also make people feel very tired.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A cold war began between the husband and wife, and if the knot is not opened, it can lead to divorce. Quarrels between husband and wife hurt feelings, and the cold war is the fuse of divorce, and the cold war means that if you don't want to communicate, if you don't want to communicate, you may come to the end of your marriage.

    There is a cold war between husband and wife, but they don't want to get close to each other, they don't want to open their hearts, you are stubborn, I am more stubborn than you. Husbands and wives compete with each other, so they take the form of a cold war, which is not convincing to each other, I don't like you, you don't like me, it will make the contradictions between each other bigger and bigger. The cold war is very emotional, if you don't want to untie the knot and keep each other in a state of cold war, sometimes the cold war will last for several years, and in the end the relationship between two people will be exhausted, then you can only go to divorce.

    Therefore, the Cold War means that divorce is not far off.

    If a cold war starts between husband and wife, no matter what the reason, one person should learn to take the initiative to communicate and untie each other's knots. If you don't want to communicate, you just ignore anyone, don't eat together, and don't participate in activities at the same time, which means that the relationship between husband and wife is allowed to develop in a bad direction. Water freezes into ice, if you add a little temperature, the ice will turn into water, and the relationship between husband and wife will become warmer, on the contrary, if you keep cooling, the ice will continue to be in a state of ice, and it will never turn into water.

    A cold war between husband and wife is definitely not a good sign, and if no one likes to bow their heads, it is possible that divorce is not far away.

    If husband and wife often quarrel, it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife, if you want to be harmonious with husband and wife, you must take care of each other's emotions and have a tolerant heart. Frequent quarrels will lead to divorce, because often quarrels will make it difficult to reconcile feelings, so no one will let anyone, and they will feel too tired, so they will think about divorce. Family and talent are prosperous, husband and wife must not have a cold war, to be harmonious, often reflect on themselves, often communicate together, will avoid divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Divorce is not far away. The husband and wife have started a cold war, indicating that the two people have begun to get tired of each other, and it is especially easy to divorce.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a cold war starts between husband and wife, in the process of the cold war, there must be a direction, and the other party bows his head, otherwise, it is easy to cause divorce, then it will not be far from divorce, after all, in love, no one is right or wrong.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If there is a cold war between husband and wife, it is very dangerous for such a husband and wife relationship, so if one of the husband and wife is cold, the other party should be thoughtful to resolve the conflict between you, so that your husband and wife relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's normal to be brain-dead, and it's normal for couples to be noisy sometimes, and it's normal to ignore them for a few days Not necessarily, why do you want to divorce at one point? You will not be good to everyone, even worse to children, and it will hurt you a lot.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not absolutely, calm down, both parties communicate well to deal with the problem, the relationship may be better, if you don't communicate and don't solve it, then the deep relationship will be exhausted and divorced.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Isn't it normal for this couple to have a cold war? If after calming down, everyone feels that it is still necessary to be together, then there will be no divorce, and if there is no need to be together, then it is not far from divorce.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, if two people often have a cold war and there is no particularly good way to solve it, then they may end up divorced.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That's right, the most taboo between husband and wife is the cold war, and there is no way to solve this matter if the two parties don't speak, so the two can only divorce.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In a marital relationship, couples always like a long cold war between each other, and they may end up with a divorce.

    In fact, the Cold War is like cold violence, destroying the line of defense from the depths of people's hearts, which will make two people less than communicate in their emotions, and shout late to torture the minds of two people, and also make the feelings of two people be suppressed and inhibited to a certain extent, which is not conducive to the emotional communication and cultivation of both husband and wife. When we find the harm caused by cold violence and cold war in our marriage, we should take the initiative to solve it. Marriage needs to be managed and maintained, and both husband and wife should put in a certain amount of effort for the marriage, and at the same time, they should also make certain compromises.

    It is impossible for us to be full and self-sufficient in all the course of life, and we should also make certain concessions in marriage. Everyone will have many contradictions in their married life, and at the same time, they will also show their own lack of patience, but this is not a reason to be discouraged. We should think about each other's problems and communicate more at the same time.

    Let the former emotions continue to heat up and heat up, so as to ensure a fresh married life and emotional state, and to make people feel happy and happy in marriage. The cold war will only kill the feelings of the two people, and the cold war will also make the two people lose their initial expectations in this marriage.

    Therefore, when we can find the root of the problem, we should actively face these problems. The Cold War won't solve all problems, but communication can, and when both people still want to continue the marriage, you might as well open up and talk about what you think, and don't let silence be the final decision-maker in this marriage. We should make our own efforts, and at the same time, we should let the other party know our hearts, so that we can go on in marriage for a long time, and we will have a happy love and marriage family.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think so, if one of you can stand up and break this situation, you will know which side will get better. Don't care too much about face during the Cold War, and learn to take the initiative to talk to each other and resolve the contradictions between you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is true that divorce can only be chosen, because a long-term cold war will wear out the relationship between two people, and two people are very, likely to find other love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, because the two of you have been fighting coldly for a long time, neither of you is willing to bow your head, no one is willing to make sacrifices, two people will not love each other, such a marriage is meaningless.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The Cold War was terrible, and if you don't communicate, it's easy to get divorced. If you are just angry, you can wait for the two parties to calm down and communicate well, and there is no knot that cannot be untied. The Cold War does not mean that divorce is coming, and if both parties want to maintain their marriage, someone should take the initiative to break the deadlock.

    There are many forms of getting along with husband and wife, some husbands and wives always have a cold war, and some husbands and wives do not quarrel or quarrel, and there are many reasons for the formation of the cold war. If two people are angry, the relationship between two people is still there, and the marriage can go back. After the Cold War period, the two people will return to their previous peace, so the marriage can still be maintained.

    Some husbands and wives have inconsistent views and often quarrel, and the form of quarrels is the cold war, some husbands and wives have a cold war for up to a year, and some husbands and wives have a cold war for more than half a year and more than a shack, so couples can no longer communicate. Instead of torturing each other, it is better to let go of each other, and the two people will be separated for a period of time, and maybe they may remarry after the divorce.

    There must be a reason why couples often have cold wars, and if both people are too strong and lack communication, it will be difficult to solve the problem. To solve the problem, both parties need to stay calm, they need to sit down and communicate together, and both of them need to learn to introspect. Some couples have lived a lifetime without quarrelling, some couples have been noisy for a lifetime, and some couples have been in a cold war, and in the end, because there is no way to communicate, they can only choose to divorce.

    This is because two people are too selfish, and neither of them wants to put down their bodies to take the initiative to communicate with each other, so in the end they can only choose to break up, marriage is a university question, both parties should learn to communicate, and both parties should also learn to bow their heads. If we can all be considerate and understand each other, we will end the Cold War. There is a talentWhen you come together and become a husband and wife, you should understand each other and be considerate of each other, and divorce is not the only solution after the Cold War.

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