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It depends on how much you like her, how much she likes you, if both parties like it very much, then marry her, generally after a girl gets married, she will first think of her own home, and she will not always want to send money to her mother's house.
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It doesn't matter, it's so clear that you need to divide it, what is your own family, no matter what, it's for the elderly, the old man is not easy for us, don't think so much, such a girl must be a good girl, I like it.
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I disagree with what is said above. I'm also a girl, and our family is not in good condition. But I know that marriage should be family-oriented, and although I still give my parents living expenses, it is not a serious impact on my family.
Although everyone said that they are very good, life is very realistic. After a long time, the contradiction will definitely come out.
If she is married and she is not aware of her responsibilities to the family, the family will not be happy.
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She said this may be a test for you, I am a girl, I will also have that kind of thought, my parents have raised me for so long, I will definitely be filial to them in the future, but if I really marry you, she will definitely not take all the money she earns to her mother's house, because life is life after all, you can rest assured
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Such a woman is a woman you deserve to love, she knows how to repay her parents for their nurturing grace, her family is already poor, and she is a good woman worthy of love for a lifetime.
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After she has a child, she will not only make money for her mother's family, she says this is filial piety, mainly depends on whether you can be a person.
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If you don't even love your own family, you won't love your family.
She's very filial, isn't she.
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To love her is to contain all that is to her ...
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You have to love this girl so much.
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Sometimes, men don't know how to cherish the people around them, and they regret it after they lose it. But by this time it was too late, the woman's heart was already broken, and even if the man tried to redeem it, it would be useless.
1. A virtuous woman.
A virtuous woman will help her man prepare all kinds of things every day after marriage, clothes, meals, briefcases, etc. In the beginning, a man will be grateful to the woman for preparing so many things for him every day, and will say thank you to the woman, but after a long time, they will get used to it, they will get used to the woman's goodness, and take it for granted.
When a woman can't bear to leave, men will be particularly unaccustomed to life without women, at this time they will remember that women are usually good to them, but it is too late, women have left, and men can only regret it to heartache!
2. Independent woman.
It is very reassuring that an independent woman can take care of everything in her life and do not have to worry about anything. Men can do their jobs and all kinds of things without scruples, because there is nothing for men to worry about. But after a long time, men will feel that they are not needed, and women are dispensable, and gradually they will ignore women and not put her at ease.
Once a woman can't stand the neglect of a man, the woman will leave sadly. And when a man loses this independent woman and meets an unconscious person, he regrets it! I regret that I didn't cherish her well and missed her.
3. A woman who is willing to marry you when you are poor.
Most women don't want to marry a very poor man, because living in poverty is really too difficult, it's simply difficult. If a woman doesn't care if you are poor or not, and is even willing to marry you when you are poor, she definitely really loves you. The last thing you can afford to lose is such a woman.
Fourth, the woman who cares about you.
This is a very material era, and many women are also materialistic, and the reason why they choose to be with you may be just for your money. But not all women are so materialistic, and some people really like you as a person, so they choose to be with you.
When you meet a woman who cares about you, you have to learn to cherish it. Because there are really not many such women, being able to care about a person from the bottom of their hearts is a high cost in itself.
Fifth, an empathetic woman.
An empathetic woman is always very understanding of you, can put herself in your shoes and considers things, and she cares most about your feelings. She knows what you want and what you don't want, and she is the biggest presence behind you. Don't miss such a woman, or you'll really regret it.
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Selfish, narrow-minded, suspicious, vain, in general, don't marry a bad woman.
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Many men will have such a doubt, that is, what kind of woman can not marry home, in fact, for a man like this, many people feel that it is not necessary. Because you love a woman, you want to marry her home, and if the other person can also love you, this marriage will be very happy.
If you want your marriage to be happy forever, first of all, you have to marry someone who loves you, if the other party doesn't love you, such a marriage will not be happy, and you can't marry such a woman.
Everyone hopes that their marriage can be happy and long-lasting, but when they manage their own marriage, they will have a lot of confusion, and it is because they can't manage it that their marriage will break down, and many men will put such a responsibility on the woman.
But in marriage, men and women are equal, if you don't know how to cherish the trillion nucleus, such a marriage will definitely not last long, so when you choose a woman, you must choose a woman who cherishes you, so that the marriage can last, if the other party does not know how to cherish, your marriage will not last long, and you can't marry such a woman.
When choosing a woman, you must choose one who knows how to pay for you, if she is a woman who is calculating and always thinking about herself, then you can't marry such a woman.
After marrying home, there will be a lot of quarrels between the two of you, quarrels cannot be had in marriage, and quarrels will break the relationship between the two parties, so you must marry a woman who can think about you and tolerate everything about you, so that your marriage will become very happy.
In today's society, marriage is not as reliable as imagined. It is because you didn't find a suitable person for yourself that the marriage broke down, so when you choose the other half, you must choose the one that suits you, so that the marriage can be happy forever. Cave.
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The requirements are very high, there is a great desire for money, a desire to succeed, a desire to get a better life, and there are serious problems in life.
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These women are women who spend a lot of money and shout blindly and frankly, women who are disrespectful to their in-laws, women who have no moral heart, women who disrespect others, and women who do not have any intention of taking care of others. Because such women are generally unaware of their own problems, they can't take good care of their families, and they can't take good care of their children.
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This generally seems to be the crystallization of the love of two people's feelings, forced by social pressure and family responsibility, and there will be children within a few years after marriage, because parents will also urge to have children, giving birth to children is not a simple problem for two people, for a family, it is related to their next generation.
With the development of society, some couples will also choose to be dink. Generally, such couples belong to the upper class of society, and both of them are very stable, and they don't want to be overworked because of their children, but only hope to live happily, have a smooth career, and enjoy their old age in peace. But this is not something that everyone can do.
If you also don't want children, you think that after two people get married, as long as they live happily. Children are not necessary, everyone stands from a different perspective, and treats the problem differently, your girlfriend does not want children, and you and your parents do not object, then it is a matter of course for two people who love each other to get married.
But if for the man, he will generally choose to have children, if his girlfriend is unwilling to have children, the two people will definitely have disagreements, one wants to be a dink and the other is unwilling, even if they are married, there will be cracks in the relationship between the two people after a long time, because the man has always had something in his heart, marriage is a major event in life, so it should be carefully considered, two people can sit down and talk about it, maybe the two people will make it clear when they talk, and they can't accept not having children because of the impulse at the timeAfter getting married, two people have conflicts, and they should think carefully about such a major decision, and ask their parents for their opinions. I believe that if two people who love deeply, they will not only think about themselves, since they can be together easily, then don't give up easily, anything can be solved, I think girlfriends should get married if they don't want children, after all, it is not easy to find someone who loves each other.
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A child is the crystallization of love, the best gift from God to a family, and by raising this child, the family will give a lot, but it will also get a lot. To a large extent, a family must have one child to be complete, but these things have nothing to do with whether you marry your girlfriend or not.
1.If you love her, you will marry her, the child is the crystallization of love, it is a deep love, a natural product, it is not a necessity, he is just a gift, I am fortunate to get it, and I lose my life. You marry a wife because you love her and want to give her a sense of security and a guarantee, not to have children.
If it is a marriage for children, it is difficult to stick to it, and a happy marriage should be simple at least at the beginning.
2.In fact, she doesn't necessarily really don't want it, it may be for various reasons, if you really love her, you have to understand her and respect her. To love someone, you don't have to love all of her, but to love cowardice, not wanting to have children, is her cowardice, only by first showing understanding and respect for her cowardice, can you help her be brave.
3.Saying that you don't want children now doesn't mean that you don't want children in the future, and many times, people always grow up by constantly denying themselves. There are many people who can make arrangements now to decide what their future life will look like, but there are very few people who can achieve their goals.
Otherwise, how could so many people feel that the original intention remains the same is a very happy and powerful thing? With the change of time, maybe she will change, looking at the cute obedient or naughty children in other people's families, when the motherhood in your heart is replaced, it is when you have a crystallization of love.
4.In fact, you can adopt one without giving birth to a child, the grace of parenting is greater than the grace of childbirth, is the relationship between children and parents really maintained because of blood? If yes?
So why, there are so many biological sons who abuse their biological parents? Why do so many biological parents come to the door, but still choose adoptive parents? (ps:
Usually hate your adoptive parents as your enemies in martial arts dramas, and if you don't kill them, you are unfilial. )
5.You can say to her, "Baby, the matter of having a child, I will think about it later, I want to marry you because I want to marry you, and it has nothing to do with having children." In the future, if you want to have one, you can have one, if you don't want it, we can also adopt a child. ”
If she can't even adopt a child, you have to make your love for her formal, can you tolerate a childless family? Can you take on the pressure of the people around you because you refuse to have children? If you can, prove that you love her enough to get married.
If not, when it is broken, it will be broken, it is good to get together and disperse, love and marriage are 100 turns to meet, men can walk 99 steps alone, but men can't take the 100th step, not because they can't persevere.
Because love is a matter of two people, the 99-step journey, although it is not long, has made men lose all their self-esteem, because of some things, men can have no self-esteem, but self-love still has to have.
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Some girls are just a little scared, and then just talk about it, it doesn't mean that he really won't have children in the future, so you should have a good chat with him about this matter, and see if he has a tough attitude before deciding whether you get married or not.
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Because my current wife is very kind to me, she takes care of me every day, and she is very considerate of my difficulties.
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Because my wife is very good to me, and she has a solid family, is kind to me, and cares about me very much, I married my wife.
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Because I love my wife very much, and my wife is very good to me, she will encourage me and be considerate of me.
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Because I love her, I feel very comfortable with her, and I realize that I just want to live with her for the rest of my life, and I can't live without her.
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I married her because she was very kind, she had no scheming, and she was more tolerant, and although she was a little quick-tempered, I was very happy with him.
I think your girlfriend is very good, I have a problem, and I should keep it. Girls in general don't like stingy boys.
Divide it! If, as you said, your boyfriend is not self-motivated, then as the gap between you grows bigger and bigger, he will become more and more inferior, and the final result will be unhappy, and the man's inferiority complex is very terrible!
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