What should I do if my former boyfriend proposes to reconcile?

The most important thing is that you don't feel anything for him anymore.

Since you don't feel it, why do you want to be together.

Discord and discord I recommend facing it with a normal mindset.

Keeping his concerns to a minimum ... It's best to be a buddy.

I really can't do it, just ignore it.

Do you still love him?

Do you still care about him?

Do you still care about his every move?

Did he hurt you last time he broke up with you?

Go back to being true in your own heart.

If you love him, if you care about him, if you care about him, if he hasn't hurt him, give him a chance.

Otherwise, you decisively refuse, which is good for you and for him.

Don't. Don't give him a chance. 、I would have said to break up。

I'll still say it later. Don't believe what he says. He doesn't deserve your chance ...

Since you don't have any feelings for him anymore . . . Right. 、。

There won't be anything together. What a feeling.

You ask him to pour you a glass of water, and then you splash it on the ground and say to him, "If you can take all the water I poured back into the cup, we will be reconciled."

It's not worth it, it's obvious that he's not emotionally minded, and you don't have feelings for him anymore.

In that case, don't go back, go forward, and you'll meet something better.

It doesn't matter if you see him every day, you don't need to hide, you don't owe him anything, just go with the flow, you can still be ordinary friends.

Be sure to think it through.

Do you really have feelings for him? If you don't, it's not necessary, don't fall twice in the same place.

If you don't feel it, don't accept it.

If you accept it, if you don't feel it, it's not going to be divided again.

Hehe, it's up to you! If you don't feel good for him, make it clear, because it's better to solve this kind of thing sooner later!

…What are the answers, and what are the ......Have you ever thought about him? You've loved him, haven't you? Do you still have nostalgia? Remember the old days?

I also broke up, I know the taste of breaking up, the past is over, forget him, but when we meet again, I still love him, the love in my heart, but I don't remember ......

So, you feel that you still love him, and you feel in your heart that he used to be good, and your past love, if you like it, try your best to reconcile, you have to treat him well, remember to find your husband, I will try my best to enlighten him, if it doesn't work, just give up......Forget about his ......

If you need psychological help, please consult Jiajia at any time

Do you think that the person who has abandoned you is still worth associating?

<> "How to reconcile with your boyfriend."

Many people want to reconcile after a breakup, but they don't know how to do it to reconcile, so as long as you take a good look at the next analysis, you will know that only by taking the initiative to snub a man can you reconcile.

There are always some people who are still stalking about their exes after a breakup, and expressing their suppressed emotions in the circle of friends all day long, which will not only not make men change their minds, but also make them feel that their decisions at that time are correct, so that they have a kind of idea that you can't do without him, so the chance of reconciling is very small.

Why do you say that you should take the initiative to snub men? As long as you don't take the initiative to find them and snub them, this will arouse a man's desire to conquer in the first place, and the more you ignore him, the more he wants to pursue you and chase you back.

Secondly, after you leave him, your free and happy life and cold and calm psychology can make him calm down and rethink whether his decision to break up is correct, and you seem to be doing it well to leave him, whether it is his problem, so that the probability of him changing his mind and wanting to reconcile will be greatly increased.

Therefore, sometimes sisters don't stalk after breaking up, Sun Heng asked for a reason, which will only make the man who wants to break up more tired of you, more ruthless, and more determined in his own ideas, only if you calm down, live well, and then take the initiative to snub the man, can you have the opportunity and possibility to reconcile.

If this male girlfriend has a good relationship with you, and there is no other relationship, then you should honestly make it clear to the other party, saying that you have a good relationship with your male girlfriend, it is the kind of relationship between iron buddies, there is no other relationship, so that your other half does not have to worry, if your other half can accept it, then you will be happy together, if your other half can not accept it, then you can only make a choice, after all, fish and bear's paws are not available, and male girlfriends themselves are not a very normal thing.

Or if you're determined to fall in love, you should keep your distance from your boyfriend. I think a normal person can't have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, after all, a girlfriend is the kind of person who can understand your heart in my heart, whether it is a boy or a girl, he should not be allowed to have other girlfriends of the opposite sex, and it is very normal for your other half to care, it depends on who you care about, if you care about your male girlfriend, then you abandon your partner, if you care about your partner, then you stay away from your male girlfriend, if your male girlfriend is more aware of current affairs, Then he will also take the initiative to stay away from you.

I once listened to a class about male and female girlfriends in a college class, and one of the teachers expressed his own opinion, he thinks that male and female girlfriends are only people who have ghosts in their hearts, generally speaking, these girlfriends are her spare tire, a normal person will not develop a lot of male and female girlfriends, not to mention that the things exchanged between boys and girls are different, and the only thing that can be said is the spare tire.

So when you are in love, you must pay attention to each other's male or female girlfriends, if you find anything wrong with the two of them, then I advise you to break up as soon as possible, sooner or later it will be green.

is really in love with you, some boys are afraid of losing, so they choose to forgive everything, he hopes that his patience can be exchanged for your sincerity.

It should be sincere, so you better be with him, at least he can be good to you.

I think he still likes you, you have been in front of your ex-boyfriend in front of him, this is not right, the past has passed, there is no need to mention it again, grasp the future, is the most important thing, it is not easy to meet someone who truly loves you, you have to cherish it.

If your boyfriend chooses to reconcile with you, it means that your boyfriend does have you in his heart and wants to love you sincerely.

It must be sincere, so you don't let her down.

This relationship can only be said to be erratic like you, and it is possible to really like you.

The boyfriend he once talked about now wants to get back together, so the man never mentions his previous relationship history, even if you force him to confess, he just says something that sounds perfunctory to you.

Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son" Love is two people who want to be together all the time even if they are unhappy You can peacefully spend joy and hardship together, that is, no matter what hardship you have to spend together, you will support each other in practical life. Love is actually quite simple. It's also very unpretentious!

Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! To live, man needs very little and is just another person.

Fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you don't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see him, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, truly love a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, you will be happy when you see the person you love happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, But you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy, a real love person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Pay attention to the love at a certain time, some people will quarrel and contradict, and some people will be at a loss, please pay attention to the communication between the two! Taboo suspicion and learn to trust! Cherish your current him (her) and the most important thing is not to give up! The first person to give up, love will fail again and again!

What does it feel like to like someone? It is a magical feeling that arises from the psyche, and the same is true of loving someone. That is to say, our psychology must have a certain state.

It is not enough for the state of psychological appearance, we must also take corresponding actions, so that people will have pursuits, love, cranky thoughts, and soul disappointment.

First of all, from your description. Do you hesitate and don't get back together with him? The main thing is to see that he has been thinking about you for two years. You feel very impressed. So there was a hint of compound thought in my heart. But you actually want to refuse.

Second, you dislike him from the bottom of your heart. Blame him for not being angry. Don't listen to you. I can't grow without being able to grow economically. A young figure can't be taken care of.

In the end, although it is normal for men and women to divide and merge. You were put back together after you were separated. Tried and still doesn't fit?

Plus you don't like him in your heart. There is even more estrangement. So for the good of each other.

It is advisable that you refuse. Because two people who are estranged will not get along for long.

Others are just external responses, as far as you said about his inferior scars, it is best to be cautious, I hope you don't get entangled with him anymore, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper after a long time, and there is no regret medicine sold in the world.

Perfect. If you can appreciate the good in the other person and tolerate the bad in the other person, then you get back together with him. Otherwise, find another boyfriend.

You have these thoughts, you are right, you don't know how to improve, and you can't listen to persuasion, it's better not to get back together.

Stepping on the shoulders of bad men to find happiness.

Ling Shuang often heard such complaints: "That bastard! I took out all my heart and gave it to him, how could he do this to me? ”

However, the funny thing is that this kind of resentful female resentment is resentful, but she has never been seen to break up with her bastard. It's okay if he's a good man, if he's always been a bad man who is always bad to you and has no heart, do you really want to grit your teeth and stick to it?

There is a "bun theory" about why the resentful women don't leave the bad men, which is a wonderful metaphor. You queue up at a well-known steamed bun shop, and you thought that there were not many people in the front of the queue and you should buy steamed buns soon, but it backfired, everyone bought a lot, and you waited in line for two hours to taste the steamed buns. In fact, if you don't leave in the first ten minutes of the queue, you will be reluctant to leave, and you can't tell whether you are unwilling, or you really want to eat, or you are just afraid of being laughed at if you quit halfway.

If an egg is boiled only to find out that it is "bad", then you will definitely throw it away without hesitation; If a man falls in love with him and finds out that he is stupid and bad, he will work a little harder. Please exercise your arms by the way and make a throwing pose! As for the amount of strength, it depends on how much he hurts you.

When you realize that the man you meet turns out to be a bad man, you must remember this sentence - I not only want to let go, but also step on his shoulders towards happiness!

You have to see that from the bad man, you have increased your gold content, it is gold that always shines, it is only a matter of time. You must have the courage and confidence to catch a good man, because in every bad man you have experienced, you have learned how to see through his lies and skillfully expose them, without hurting his face; You learn from bad men how to judge how much a man loves you from his daily behavior......

Don't underestimate the injuries and lessons you have suffered from bad men, every wound you have has is a treasure that will make you discern good men in the future.

If you look at the characters who can stay with good men, how many of them are pure vases? Which one is the one who waits for leisure? Who is the first time to get involved in the love scene and return with a full load?

Loving people is not an innate ability, it is not so easy to love if you want to love, you have to have some bad experiences, taste bitterness, and know what is sweet and what is right.

It's good to be able to step on the shoulders of giants, and it's not a blessing to be able to step on the shoulders of bad men. Because of the hurt, we know right and wrong, good and bad; Because of giving up, we know how to cherish and cherish. The perception and momentum brought by bad men are really not a star.

But the premise of everything is still that you have to let go before you can step on his shoulders and move forward. Those women who scolded their men for being bad while guarding them were actually trampled under the feet of bad men without knowing it.

This kind of person, I advise you, don't let him think how good you are, if he is really good, he won't have an affair with so many women. He really thinks you're good, he'll only come to you when he might get hurt or the woman ignores him, so what's so good? Send you a word, open your eyes and choose your future partner, and if you choose the wrong one, separate immediately.

Don't blindly improvise. That would hurt two people.