When the effort and the gain are not equal, how do you comfort yourself?

I think all the effort pays off, but it may not be the way you expect. You may not get a good test score, but you may have gained the patience to do one thing over and over again and the spirit of not being able to beat the death. It may take you a lot of time to achieve a tenth of what others do, but you may be more determined about your dreams and learn to motivate yourself.

Maybe you don't get the other person's like, but you know that love can only last if you are happy with each other, and you are willing to continue to find the right person.

It's not right to just work hard and not ask about the harvest. You need to take a look at yourself at each stage. Look at what you have gained after hard work, this harvest does not necessarily mean that your grades have actually improved, but what you have discovered in the process of hard work.

If you find that the direction and method are wrong, correct it as soon as possible, and learn to summarize in the process of effort. This way you will get a greater harvest.

Quantitative change will only change qualitatively until it reaches a certain level, and perhaps your efforts are in the most difficult stage. There must be a harvest, but you don't see it. The harvest does not necessarily manifest itself in actual form, it is very likely that you have figured out a learning method that suits you after the wrong learning method, then this is the harvest.

Some people review for a day or two, and they can get excellent, and some people review for two months, and there is still no way to achieve excellent or even pass, I generally comfort myself with a very open sentence uploaded on the Internet, which roughly means that in many cases, the competition between people has not reached the level of IQ, and you have already lost. (I don't quite agree, but there is a reason for it).

In fact, the "harvest" in "no effort is rewarded" is actually a specific kind of harvest that you want. Painful experiences are gains, mental sharpening is gains, knowing oneself is also gains, and so on. While these are not relevant to your success in the moment, perhaps at some point in the future, they may help you succeed.

life is just about writing a good story.

Connecting dots in your life that Steve Jobs said in his speech at Stanford University, only when you look back can you define how your efforts have been rewarded. Also, if you want to get some kind of reward, you should have to find a good direction, some people can find it relatively quickly, and some people need to go around to find it, it doesn't matter if you are lucky or not, you will have a harvest. Come on, work hard for a better life. Share.

Every penny is rewarded, but no one knows when it is, you can only wait until one day you find out, wow, fortunately I did it at the beginning, otherwise I wouldn't be so fulfilling, satisfied and happy at this moment.

About giving and harvestingMany times, the harvest after giving takes time to accumulate, and it may take a while to have the harvest you want.

When there is a difference between the effort and the gain in learning, I usually talk to teachers and classmates more to understand how others are learning and reviewing, and try to make some adjustments to see how effective (for learning).

There is no shortage of hard-working people in the world. Most people's IQ is still relatively ordinary, if they don't have a smart mind, they don't have a talent in some area. Then the only way we can improve ourselves is to study hard and work hard.

Work hard, work hard, work hard. But a lot of things don't come with effort. When it is found that the effort is not proportional to the return, many people will choose to give up.

I feel that the result is more important than the process, and the effort is in vain if I don't achieve the desired goal. So be it, forget it.

It is true that many things cannot be accomplished through hard work, but the process is very beautiful, and in the process, we have exercised our perseverance. I have also experienced a lot, which is a wonderful wealth, although I did not succeed, but I have no regrets.

Don't forget that there is another saying: giving and reaping are not in the same season. Maybe your current efforts didn't lead to a good result in an instant.

But that doesn't mean there won't be results in the future. Only by paying, only hard work can you have a chance to achieve success, and if you don't work hard, there is no reward at all.

Since you have paid, you don't ask for the same return, because this world is not fair, just do what you have to do, maybe in the short term it seems that the return and the pay are not positive, but in the long run, it may be different.

Telling yourself that giving is more blessed than receiving, can fill your heart with gratitude, and make yourself very happy.

This world is unfair, not every hard work has a harvest, often it is a very hard work to get a harvest, you have to use these words to motivate yourself.

I tell myself that sometimes you don't necessarily get paid off, you just need to be happy in the process.

I will tell myself that I have experienced happiness in the process of giving, and it really doesn't matter if there is a reward or how much I get in return.

If I find that my efforts are not proportional to my rewards, I may comfort me in more ways, such as for the sake of my children, I can't afford to lose this job, put up with it, or complain to a good friend to get rid of this trouble.

If you really give, you generally don't ask for anything in return, just like the love of parents for their children, they never ask for anything in return, just like you give to the person you like, and never ask for anything in return, because some things you can't change, if you always feel that you need to get a proportional return for paying, which limits your life and makes you mercenary.

Sometimes we want to be respected by others, we want to be liked by others, and there may be an imbalance between return and giving, but as long as you are sincere and happy to do so, why bother too much?

Feeling good and being physically and mentally healthy is far more important than rewarding.

Excellent people fight to the end, and good things often don't appear until the end.

You can think about the phrase "do your best to obey the destiny of heaven."

It means that I tried to do things, but what the result is, then wait for God to arrange.

Because it is true that if you don't work hard at this time, you will definitely have to return to the mountain to travel to the newspaper, but Qingwei is not a person who works hard, and there will be fewer opportunities.