Can the relationship with my girlfriend be salvaged if it fades?

Updated on society 2024-03-29
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The relationship with his girlfriend is irretrievable. Because there will be some problems in all people, all people will change, and feelings will change. Relationships need to be maintained, not decisions made alone, so you can go and communicate with your girlfriends to save the relationship between you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No matter what happens to really good girlfriends, the relationship will not fade, if it really fades, it means that we are not all the way, even if it is redeemed now, but our feelings will still fade.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The relationship with your girlfriend is weakened, and it can be salvaged, because there are many good memories between you, and as long as you talk more, the relationship will rerise.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that now that the relationship with my girlfriend has faded, it should be salvageable. It should be easy to save it by chatting with her for a while, or to go and play with her in her free time, or to buy some small gifts.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For example, in the adult world, the feelings are weakened, in fact, two people don't want to continue to communicate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think if the relationship is weakened, it will definitely be salvageable, but if the two of you really break up, then it may not be redeemed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it can be redeemed, I think the role of girlfriends, please don't have to communicate in real time. And no matter when you speak, you will definitely have a good relationship as before.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it is still salvage to have a weakened relationship with my girlfriend, after all, your relationship was so good at the beginning, I think it is necessary to use some small skills to redeem it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How to say it, it's not that it's light, it's just that the distance from her is getting farther away, and there is no common topic anymore, and there is no feeling of being a good friend, so don't keep it. Sad and hurtful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think the relationship is weakened and can't be recovered, because many things are just adults who are silently far away, and they are disappointed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, it's good to walk around more and go out more often.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't want to give up so many years of friendship, there is a way to get it back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. You should take the initiative to look for opportunities and ask the other party why they ignore you and what offended her? If the other party can speak frankly, you should let the other person finish the conversation in a calm manner, and then explain it slowly, so as to resolve the misunderstanding between them.

    2. Don't deliberately escape. We should take the initiative to face some changes, don't always want to avoid these things, after knowing the reasons, we should analyze where our fault is, and face it positively instead of passively accepting it.

    3. Recall how you felt when you were with your girlfriends. If something goes wrong in your relationship, the atmosphere will inevitably be a little tense and you may feel a little uncomfortable. Maybe there are problems between you that need to be solved urgently, or maybe you're just inevitably drifting apart.

    4. Apologize to her. If it's your fault, you still have to apologize to your girlfriend! The relationship between girlfriends is actually very fragile, and sometimes your small actions may break his heart, but since you can read this article, it shows that you still care about the relationship between you, so don't feel ashamed, go directly to her and apologize!

    Since you are reluctant, don't give up, as long as it's not a big problem, you go to her to apologize, he will definitely accept it.

    5. Learn to communicate well. We should learn to communicate, through good communication, in order to make the other party abandon the previous misunderstanding, we should not be indifferent to the misunderstanding between two people, and communicate with her well.

    6. Keep in touch from time to time, when there is a lack of communication, our relationship will be estranged, so at least once a week, you can talk about what has happened recently.

    7. Do you have any shortcomings that make your girlfriends unbearable? For example, some people have a very strong sense of dependence in a friendship, blindly asking, not knowing the return, they have something to do, and they always ask their girlfriends to help them as soon as possible, but when their girlfriends are in difficulty, they can't help anything. Anyone will feel powerless and unbalanced.

    Girlfriends need to help each other, otherwise what do you want your girlfriends to do? If you are such a person, think about what you can do for your girlfriends and correct your shortcomings.

    8. Time will dilute everything, and many misunderstandings can't be explained clearly, so just let it stop there. As for friendship, I believe that after a long time, all the damage will disappear.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The relationship between girlfriends has weakened, and it may be that one party has found a partner. Because I have to be with my boyfriend every day, I gradually cold my girlfriend. There is basically no antidote to this situation, and the best thing to do is to find another girlfriend and re-cultivate a relationship.

    It is also possible that your thoughts are at odds, and she feels that chatting with you is not as speculative as before. In this case, you have to show her more favor, take the initiative to find new topics, and when your communication becomes more, gradually the feelings will become as strong as at the beginning.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, any relationship requires the efforts of both parties to maintain!

    You can communicate more with your girlfriend, meet her more often, chat and talk about your heart, and having common hobbies and common topics is a good way to maintain a relationship

    The same is true of the relationship between girlfriends, you met and knew each other before, and finally became good girlfriends. As the saying goes, friends are family members who are personally selected, so girlfriends are the closest family members they choose to be closest to themselves. Now you feel that the relationship with your girlfriend has become weaker, or it may be because you and your girlfriend are busy with their own affairs and neglect each other, your communication has become less, and the number of times you see each other has decreased, which means that the intersection of your lives is slowly decreasing, so it will cause the relationship between you and your girlfriend to become weaker

    You don't have to worry too much, as long as you are willing to put your heart into maintaining this friendship, I am sure that your relationship with her will be as good as before

    I hope you and your girlfriends have a long friendship, and I hope mine can help you

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no way, if you forget a person, you should boldly go to him, since you can't forget him, it means that you like her, and if you love her, you should boldly confess to him, only then will he know that you love him, and a crush on someone will not lead to results. Be sure to touch him with sincerity, if he really likes you, he will definitely be with you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I felt that something must have happened, so the lack of communication between the two people led to mutual suspicion on both sides, so it became the way it is. It is recommended to find a time to talk, and it will be changed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is particularly normal, and the feelings between people are constantly changing with the change of time and environment.

    Sometimes because of some misunderstandings or contradictions, the feelings will fade, and there is no way. What can be recovered, recovered, and what cannot be recovered, can only be taken as it comes.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No one will be with you until the end. Whether it's friends or girlfriends, everyone will be separated.

    The people and things you come into contact with are no longer the same, and the people you want to talk about every day will not be very clear about the topics you want to talk about, so you may not have a strong sense of identity with each other, and you will want to find people around you to share recent things with you.

    Gradually, you will find that you are getting farther and farther apart......

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The relationship with the girlfriend has weakened, this is normal, it must be. Understand that this is the norm in the world.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There must be something wrong with this, a real good friend is a good friend even if he doesn't have a lot of contact. It's hard to analyze the specifics, but do you see it a lot now, or are you separating the two places? If you can see it often, it should be some misunderstanding and lack of communication.

    If it's two places, I think maybe there is a gap between you, including aesthetic or material foundation, etc., in short, if you want to make up for it, take the initiative to contact and spread your heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no way to do things, but after all, your best friend is relatively your best friend, and he may not care about this, so you also have to learn how to do a good job of communication between two people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is actually normal, if there is less communication, the relationship will definitely gradually fade away, and if you often contact and often go out to play together, the feelings will slowly become stronger, and the feelings also need to be managed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People have to communicate with each other, whether it is a husband and wife or a girlfriend, the same is true, if you don't communicate for a long time, your feelings will fade. If you still have this girlfriend in your heart, you can't bear to contact her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This question is very interesting, this is also very natural, after all, there are many people who just walk and disappear, so such people are naturally the same.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This situation still needs to be thought about in your own heart, and many things don't care too much, just let it be.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The relationship with your girlfriend is weak, which proves that both of you have secrets or one party has secrets that you don't want to share, and if you don't complain about each other, there will be a distance.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Whatever your reason. It's your best friend, so you have to respect it, right? It is important to maintain a good relationship with the other person.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You still have to work hard to manage it, friends, girlfriends, and if you don't maintain your feelings, it will naturally fade.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I do feel tired, it's hard to get together, and there is no need to wronged myself at this time, slowly alienate them, and they will feel it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Read more, use your brain, and see the world more.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Summary. Hello, I'm glad for your question, girlfriends will get along for a long time and there will be contradictions and frictions, how to redeem it? I recommend that you do the following first.

    First, calm down and analyze what the problems between you and your girlfriend are. Second, whether it is the fault of the other party or our own fault, as long as you still cherish this friendship, you can take the initiative to go to her and tell her that you cherish her. Third, if the girlfriend is already angry at this time, then you can coax her in a coquettish way, which sometimes works.

    Hello, I'm glad to have your question, girlfriends will have conflicts and frictions after getting along for a long time, how to redeem it? I recommend that you do the following first. First, calm down and analyze what the problems between you and your girlfriend are.

    Second, whether it is the fault of the other party or the fault of our self-annihilation, as long as you still cherish this friendship, you can take the initiative to find her and tell her that you cherish her very much. Third, if the girlfriend is already angry at this time, then you can coax her in a coquettish way, which sometimes works.

    What happened between you, can you tell us? Let me help you break it down.

    You can also do what she likes, buy some small gifts for her, as long as you show sincerity and sincerity to redeem it, I believe she will definitely feel it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There are ways to save the relationship between girlfriends:

    1. Find out what is "preventing" you from contacting.

    You have to think about why you drifted away from your friends in the first place. Sometimes, we romanticize our friendship and want to start over, perhaps because we have forgotten why we ended it in the first place. If you start over, you may return to the swamp you left off.

    2. Pretend you've just met.

    If you've just moved to the city, you might be tempted to get in touch with old friends in the same city. This is understandable. Making new friends in a new city can be a little awkward and intimidating, but for those who have been close and familiar before, the whole process will be a little more comfortable because you once had a relationship foundation.

    That doesn't mean you should immediately restart the intimate relationships you once had, though. Psychologists believe that first of all, you can become acquaintances with them, not good friends. Because you're just a little bit further than a brand new friendship.

    So you need to get things at the pace after meeting strangers.

    You can start by having a cup of coffee with them. Because you really need experience and time to build trust with others, whether old friends or new ones.

    3. Give them more time.

    Don't force them to get into action right away. In the beginning, WeChat contact may be better than **or directly**, because it is not so direct. Psychologists explain that this gives the other person time to think about it.

    When you're ready to renew your friendship, it doesn't mean the other person is ready. If they want to renew their friendship with you, then nature is the best.

    However, if their attitude is cold, you don't have to worry too much. They may be fully engaged in their work at this stage, or they may already have many new friendships, and they may not have more energy and have more friends. This is the reality of friendship, and there is no need to be sad.

    You and each of your friends are only partially connected.

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