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The third stage of junior high school is also a critical period, judging from your performance, there is a tendency to compulsively repeat a thing, otherwise you will feel uneasy, anxious, and even associated with a specific result, such as, how to do it, how not to do it, otherwise the exam will not be good......Similar to Yunyun. You're supposed to be an obedient kid, right? Is that right?

Constant pressure from the outside world and your excessive self-focus will lead you to follow certain patterns, or you will have a strong sense of insecurity. Temper tantrums may be related to depression, especially in the third year of junior high school, when homework is becoming more and more intense, and the expectations of family members and others conflict with your inner desire for freedom, and when you are depressed to a certain extent, you will naturally have an outbreak, otherwise you will be sick Hehe What is the situation of lack of sleep? Can't sleep?

Poor sleep quality? In short, these are all related to your inner tension, don't put too much pressure on yourself, allocate time reasonably, regulate your emotions in time, pay attention to your diet, and communicate more with parents, classmates and teachers

Like me, how old? It's only 19, isn't that good? People are growing up slowly, and if you want to be the same as childhood forever, there is only one kind of human juvenile dementia, really.

It is precisely because people are growing up, they feel their responsibilities, they feel their concerns, they feel the loneliness in their hearts, and then they grow up slowly, they begin to miss their childhood, they begin to miss some people they once knew, and then they know how to cherish and love!

Also, a personal opinion: If anyone in adolescence says that they can be happy every day without many worries, it is pure! Do you think that a person who has not experienced this kind of emotional change is here to make some useless nonsense, and it is practical to calm down and communicate more and not think too much?

Anyone can say comforting words, but it's nonsense to put it here.

Again, people are almost like this, if you don't even have your own sentimental heart, you might as well be a vegetative person. There is only one way, to slowly experience life for yourself, as long as you don't think about it, you will enjoy life, and the so-called puberty symptoms that others say are nonsense.

As long as you don't commit suicide, you will definitely know how to cherish life in a few years. You're mature lol.

It's really useful to force yourself not to think so much, to shake your head when you think about something negative at first, to forget about it, and to stick to it. As for being like a child, or not, children can only live in a carefree childhood, worries and worries are the price that must be paid for growth, there is no need to deliberately pursue a carefree lifestyle, recognizing this can also help you have a better attitude towards life.

This question of yours reminds me of the story of Meng's mother's three migrations. Mencius's mother moved three times for Mencius. Just because of the places I moved to the first two times, the cultural quality of the people there is not good.

Meng's mother was afraid that Mencius would learn some bad habits from the people in those places, and if they learned badly, they would affect their future. That's why I moved. I want to say that if you have understood that comparison is not right, even if you are studying in a class with a higher comparison, as long as you are not moved, you can still study normally and be yourself.

Because even if the whole class has the heart of comparison, and you don't have the heart of comparison, your teacher is also a good teacher. It's someone else's business that others have the heart to compare, others look down on you, you don't have to care too much about their eyes, not to mention that your family is a middle-class wealthy family, even if you are a child of a poor family, you don't have to make yourself inferior or uncomfortable because of their eyes and words. Of course, you don't have to dislike or hate them because they have a desire to compare.

Because what they do is just their own business! People like this will also suffer the setbacks they deserve in the future because they don't study hard because of their current comparisons. You just have to be yourself.

I would say that when you buy something, you have to buy something that suits you. If you really want to have something beautiful and expensive, you can buy it yourself when you grow up and earn money. Because even if the family has the money to help you buy it, it is the hard-earned money of your parents after all.

As long as you have a level of mind. When you have time in school, you can go out to exercise, walk around campus, or review your books when you have time. Gather less with those who are comparative, because watching them listen more and watch more will also be affected a little.

Or if you are as open as I think, in front of these classmates with a strong sense of comparison, you can just be an audience, listen to what they say, and treat it as listening to gossip.

In fact, this is not a psychological problem, I feel that it is just in such an environment, you are too seriously influenced by others, the first priority of students is actually reading, not comparison, now everything you have is hard work of the parents, sensible children should not take their parents' grades out to show off, how people do is people's business, do their own thing, treat others sincerely, others treat you like this, you don't have to be like that, friends need to be heart-to-heart, don't blindly ask your family to ask for it, you read good books, and have more contact with societyWhen you have the ability, no one looks down on you, put a better mentality, parents are not easy, everyone needs to understand.

Shoes are bought to wear, not bought to compare, I read the most expensive shoes in college has been 89 yuan, but I worked hard to still be the second in the school in five kilometers of the sports meeting, and thousands of shoes still can't outrun me, and now it's still a student stage to study, I only have one or two friends in the class, because I can't fit in, and I'm too lazy to be gregarious. Strength is the most important thing, when I was in junior high school, they thought I was a nerd and looked down on me, but now that I graduated, the gap is obvious, you are doing the right thing, insist on doing the right thing.

Is there extroverted autism or social phobia, in fact, not liking sports is a personal hobby, this can not be changed, as for everyone likes to compare, you don't have to care about other people's opinions, you don't have to feel inferior, people have their own ambitions, when they point you out, you use your strength to tell them, improve your grades, make your psychology stronger, and you can afford to be praised as much as you can't afford to denigrate, everyone is unique, and you don't care about a lot of people who don't live like your real self!!

It's good to be yourself, don't play if you can't play together, you don't have to be friends with them, you will always meet your real friends, praise your pocket money, buy your favorite clothes and eat if you have nothing to do. Buy clothes like goods, wear them for a few days if they are cheap, and save money to buy *** if you want to buy good ones. Comparison is not necessarily intrinsic, so study hard.

If you are admitted to a good school in the future, you will meet better people. You will find that not everyone is like this, even if you don't fit in, you will still meet a good friend.

There's no need to force yourself to do things you don't like, you can be what you are, you don't have to change yourself, life is short, why force it? Moreover, you can live as much life as you have, you don't have to compare with others, you are the best you.

Really, other people have too much influence on you. You can try to let go, or even change it. If you've changed enough about yourself, don't think about it.

They gossip, and in the end, Handan toddlers didn't know anything, but they learned society. Do you do your own well, better than any of them, after all, school? It isn't?

Learning.

Stick to your heart and look back years later and you'll feel how naïve those people were. You can communicate more with your mother, you are such a kind person, there is nothing you can't talk to your mother.

I feel like you don't care too much, he may be a classmate just unintentionally, not intentionally, compare or something. There shouldn't be too much scheming or anything on campus.

Don't care about other people's eyes, you may feel that you don't fit in, friends choose excellent ones, why maintain what you don't like, how tired you are, people who understand you naturally understand you, people who don't understand you, no matter how hard you bother, he won't understand you.

His own problems, a person with emotional intelligence can deal with anyone. Let go of your own prejudices, your original school has the strengths and weaknesses of the original school. Nowadays, schools have strengths and weaknesses, learn to appreciate them.

Don't be gregarious for the sake of being gregarious. Human pessimism is not the same. It's better to be yourself and read more good books than to make a bunch of so-called friends.

Don't care about other people's eyes, the road is your own, including your future, it's all your own decision

Problems and environmental factors are influencing your growth. Specific words cannot be simply brought over in a few sentences. Message me to give you some suggestions.

In fact, you yourself know very well what to do, if you were him, you would definitely not buy **, but you seem to be like his mother, afraid that he will be angry.

Good medicine is bitter, and advice is against the ear. So you can't expect him to accept it without getting angry, without getting angry, and gladly accepting some old habits when you try to persuade him to break some old habits. If you don't have the courage to face his anger and anger, and you are afraid that his friendship with you will break down because of this incident, you are unlikely to become a good friend.

You can make your own comparisons between whether you want his prodigal son to turn back, or whether you want to maintain a relationship by following him. It's just that one thing can remind you that if he has a problem with you because of the purchase of **, but in the end he figures it out and thinks that you are for his good, your friendship will deepen; If he's angry that you're stopping him and you're going to cut you off, then he's not necessarily worth worrying about him.

This is not love, then coddling is also ...

A student in the second year of junior high school, you are also a child, it is normal to have psychological fluctuations, it is not a big deal, I guess you are all fine now, and I regret posting this post.

There is no place that will make you happy forever! You have to remember this, your happiness and troubles are your own, if you want, you can always make yourself happy, it's very simple, don't believe you try to laugh now.

It's not pleasing to the eye, what's not pleasing to the eye? Why is it pleasing to the eye before, isn't it very simple? Whether it is pleasing to the eye or not is just what you "think" of yourself, because the home has not changed, the environment has not changed, it is only your heart that has changed.

Now you calm down and think about it, what is it at home that makes you unhappy, if not, then what should you do, our minds are a little naughty, sometimes joke with us, just like a naughty child who often plays pranks, you just think he made a little joke with you, don't take it seriously.

So, there's nothing unpleasant, it's all your choice!

Emotions and cognition are related, and students in the second year of junior high school have less emotional experience, self-awareness is still developing, and self-control ability is gradually forming. The situation mentioned by the landlord can be regarded as a case of emotional control, and you can self-reflect to find out what specific cognitions and thoughts cause emotional fluctuations, dig out the subconscious, find out the problem and solve it; If you really can't do it, divert your attention, don't go to the tip of the horns, after all, it's only the second year of junior high school. The above is for reference only.

Happy and innocent, I wish the landlord to mature slowly!