Wouldn t someone who mentions breaking up in love be sad?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course you will be sad, how can you not be sad if you have loved each other but broken up? Sadness is only temporary, and time will forget everything about you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No. He saw the irreparable relationship before you, and maybe he had already struggled a lot before breaking up to come to the conclusion, and this feeling of powerlessness was really super painful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Breaking up after really loving is a very serious internal thing, compared to the sadness of being cried by the party who broke up, the party who proposed to break up is often a blunt knife to cut his heart, feeling that he should see it and be relieved, but he can't cry with tears in his belly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course not. And I can tell you that it is dangerous to have such subjective assumptions, and if you don't face up to the problem in time, it will eventually develop into a vicious circle of revenge pathology.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many girls mention breaking up because they are overwhelmed, and many boys mention breaking up because they don't love. As long as you have loved, no matter who asks for it, it should be painful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's not necessarily, maybe he has his difficulties, and he feels that he can't bring happiness to the other party, so he chooses to give up and let the other party choose a better person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I proposed the breakup, I thought about it for a long time, and the problem of the two people existed from the beginning, but I didn't want to think about it, but now I don't want to spend it, fortunately, it's only a little more than a month, I thought I wouldn't be sad if I didn't like it very much, and if it was longer, it might be even more uncomfortable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No one knows that the party who proposes to break up is the saddest, but that must be done sincerely, otherwise don't blame the other party for proposing to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The person who does not exist and offers to break up may also be someone who has been saddened to the point of numbness.

    From liking to indifference, from scorching heat to indifference, how can the torture suffered be known to others.

    As long as you like it seriously, it's impossible to break up without feeling sad at all, if you haven't been taken seriously from beginning to end, leaving is to be retained and other active and passive deaths, then it's not in the discussion.

    Many times, I was already sad before breaking up with the other person.

    Why? It may be because you are not giving him what he wants (mentally, materially) or because you have irreconcilable conflicts (personality problems, concept problems) and there are signs when you are about to break up. Big.

    The family knows that long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and it always hurts. Many of the respondents upstairs explained that they had injured the enemy by 1,000 and suffered 800 self-damage, and they must have realized that they were all painful.

    Think about it, people love you too, why do you have to separate no matter how painful it is, no matter how difficult it is? Why do you say that if you don't love, you won't love? It's because you've missed too much.

    As long as you have paid in this relationship, you will not be sad, sadness is certain, it is just a matter of degree. Because the party who proposed the breakup first, they are already mentally prepared and may have previewed it many times in their hearts, so they may be more acceptable, and conversely, those who are notified of the breakup may be a little more sad.

    There is no one in the relationship who does not give at all, otherwise there is no way to continue this relationship. Therefore, there is no one who will not be sad, whether he proposes to break up first or is notified to break up, he will be sad. Because people have feelings, it is inevitable that they will be sad.

    Because breaking up is always a sad thing, it's just that one of the two people will always be a little sadder.

    There are many people who accuse those who propose to break up of being scumbags, saying that they don't miss old feelings at all and don't feel sad, but I personally think this is a wrong view. They may just not be sad in front of you, or not as sad as you, because everyone has the same ability to bear it, and you may be so sad that you cry bitterly, and he is just expressionless.

    But if you can't question him, you won't be sad or sad, otherwise, you should question why you fell in love with him.

    Therefore, people will be sad, don't look at each other from the perspective of being a victim, they will propose that there may be many reasons for breaking up, it may be that they can't stand it, they may change their minds, they may not love each other. But you can't deny that he really loved you, and you can't question whether the other party is not sad. Everyone has their own way of managing and venting their emotions, and not everyone is the same.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In a relationship, the party who proposes to break up will not be unconcerned, and he has invested too much in the relationship, but the other party has broken through his bottom line, so that he cannot tolerate and understand, and after proposing to break up, he will make himself extremely sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can tell you very clearly that if in a relationship, the party who takes the initiative to break up, he will definitely not be sad at the beginning, and even very happy, because he himself will definitely feel that he has finally gotten rid of this burden, but if he can't meet a better person after the breakup, or if he has been single, then he will definitely remember the good of his ex, in this case, he will be very sad. However, this sadness is because I regret it very much.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The party who proposes to break up will definitely be sad, because two people must have feelings, so they will choose to be together, but the person who proposes to break up feels that the two people really can't be together now, so they have to propose to break up, but they will definitely be sad.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The one who proposes to break up in a relationship is actually the saddest.

    Because he knows that no matter what changes he makes, he can't satisfy you, and he can't make you change, so he is very entangled in his heart. will make this sad decision.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The party who proposes to break up will still be sad.

    Because sometimes a relationship has come to an end, you have to need someone to propose a breakup. Although this person does not want to, you all know that it is no longer possible. So the person who proposed to break up made this decision with a very painful feeling.

    In a relationship, two people will always be hurt, how can they not be sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The party who proposes to break up will also be sad. People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless. The other party's proposal to break up only means that he can't see the result or has no choice. But that doesn't mean you haven't experienced good, it doesn't mean you haven't been sad. Therefore, we should learn to look at it correctly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He doesn't have to be sad. Because sometimes a breakup is not necessarily due to lack of feelings. If you have feelings, you will be sad and sad to break up. Only two people have no feelings, and it is possible that they will not be so sad if they propose to break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on the situation, some people obviously love each other, but because of various factors have to break up, they will also feel very sad, and because they buried this relationship with their own hands, they will also feel very reluctant, and they will regret it very much in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The party who proposes to break up does not mean that he is not sad, he can only say that he has seen the result, so he wants to end the relationship between the two. But as time changes, you will regret it and you will be sad. It's just a matter of time, and of course it's divided into people.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It doesn't feel like that, and many times, the party who takes the initiative to break up will be even more sad.

    Therefore, many people may want to break up, but they want the other party to take the initiative to break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A broken relationship can be sad for anyone. Most of the time, two people obviously love each other very much, but they still break up, and many people don't understand? The reason is actually quite simple, because we all know that the feeling of liking can be short-lived.

    If there is a conflict after they are really together, if they can't be resolved in time, then this feeling will slowly fade away, and they may break up at that time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Not really.

    Because in most cases, the party who proposes to break up is actually forced to do so, and they are already disappointed, so they will propose to break up, in fact, they are the most painful and saddest.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The party who proposes to break up in a relationship is not necessarily not sad, mainly because he proposes the reason for breaking up, the reason for the breakup, and how to find the root of the problem, only to know whether he will be sad, if he breaks up because he does not love, then maybe he will not be sad, but if he breaks up because of family reasons, maybe he will also be sad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The party who proposes to break up will also be sad. My cousin behaved like her ex-boyfriend and proposed to break up, but then she was very sad because he really liked the other person, but he knew that the other person didn't like him that much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That's not necessarily, it's possible that the party who proposes to break up is the one who is hurt the most!

    Everything that cannot be generalized has special cases!

    It can only be said that it is universal and not all!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think the party who proposes to break up must be very sad, so in our emotional world, we must learn to relax ourselves appropriately, learn to tolerate each other, and never break up easily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There will definitely be sadness, but relatively rarely.

    After all, two people have been together, and this relationship still exists, but it is only because the two people may not be suitable to be together, so they will take the initiative to break up. Whether it is actively proposing to break up or being broken up, this is a relatively sad state.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello, it won't. Whether it is to break up or be broken up, it will be sad, because the payment of a relationship is on both sides, but the party who pays more should be more sad, and the party who pays less is also sad, but it is slightly better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, in love, it is not that whoever proposes to break up is a question of whether it is sad or not, the main thing is to see if it is said to be cold and violent, and then helplessly propose to break up, then it must be very happy to be broken up, because he just wants to force the other party to break up through this cold and violent way, but if it is said that two people have a good relationship, and suddenly one party proposes to break up, it must be broken up, and I feel very sad.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's all sad, for the person who proposed to break up, he must have broken up when he was desperate for the relationship, and he would be sad in his heart, and he would also be sad for the person who was broken up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In love, it is generally sad to be broken up, because it is the party who is broken up, and it is more sad to be abandoned at any time than to give up voluntarily.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you give your sincerity in a relationship, whether you propose to break up or be broken up, you will be sad, because we are all people with hearts.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Personally, I think the one who was broken up was even sadder.

    Because the person who proposed to break up must have chosen to break up after careful consideration, he was mentally prepared in advance. But the other was told suddenly, he didn't even know why he was broken up, and he didn't have time to keep it. In a hurry, he was proposed to break up by the other party.

    So in such a situation, I think the one who was broken up was the saddest, and he didn't even know what he did wrong. I didn't even have a chance to revise it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It is more difficult to be broken up in love, because those who are broken up are generally caught off guard and are proposed to break up, and there is no preparation at all.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It must be more sad to be broken up, and the person you love disappears from your side without preparation, leaving only pain.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    As long as they break up, and both of them have loved and liked each other, then they are both sad, and no one says that there will be no sadness if they break up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It should be sad to be broken up, because if you propose to break up, you must be dissatisfied with him, or you don't love him. If you don't mention breaking up, you must still love you, and he will be sad and sad if he loves you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think in love, of course, the person who was broken up is more sad, the person who proposed the breakup was the one you proposed to break up, your sadness is obvious, your sadness is the eldest sister Well, it's just the beginning of it, if I don't, why would you mention breaking up? Of course, the person who was broken up was a little sader.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think it's all sad, if there is any reason why we can't be together, then the breakup will be sad no matter who mentions it, and it's really hard to say that you love someone to break up.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I believe that both people will be sad, of course, provided that both people are sincere to each other, because the one who proposed to break up, he didn't expect the other party to agree to break up so quickly, so he may be sad, and the one who was broken up, he will feel that he has not done anything wrong at all, how could he suddenly be asked to break up, he is also very aggrieved in his heart.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In a relationship, it is usually sad to be broken up, and it is generally necessary to be still attached to this relationship, and the person who proposes to break up may have another relationship.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It must be sad to be broken up, because he must be the reluctant party. It may be difficult for the person who mentions the breakup to say it, but he is also unwilling to accept the relationship anymore before he will say the breakup.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The sadness of being broken up, generally the people who are broken up are those who have love in their hearts and give the most, so they are also the most painful after the breakup. The person who proposed to break up is ready for everything, so he won't be sad.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    In love, whether it is proposed to break up or broken up, it will be sad, as long as the person who has not paid his heart will not be sad.

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