What do you think a real girlfriend looks like

Don't disturb each other when you're busy, when you're in a bad mood, you can tacitly automatically perceive and care, you can discuss topics of interest together and have similar views, the same three views (I personally think it's really difficult to be girlfriends with different views), and don't interfere too much in each other's emotional life, but when the relationship fails, it must be each other's spiritual harbor. You don't need to meet often, you don't need to rely on posting chat records in social networks every day, posting girlfriend photos, posting others, liking and commenting**, etc. to maintain friendship (real friendship is not maintained by showing off** public, okay!) ）。

People who talk about girlfriends every day who are bigger than the sky have negative points and rough points!

Deep camaraderie never needs a pretty slogan. Remember each other's birthdays, you can not give gifts, but blessings must be there!

When the other party succeeds, he is not jealous, but sincerely happy for her, sincerely blessed, and when he fails, he does not mock, but is sad with her, and at the same time gives the greatest comfort! (This refers to real girlfriends, if the friendship is deep enough, it's like this, and you can't automatically sit in the alias.) ）

Girlfriends. I feel like my relationship with her is the healthiest. I know she's always been there, and she knows I'm always here.

We all know that the other party is our strongest backing. She respects my decision, and I respect hers. We're doing very different things on both sides of the earth.

Our personalities are very different, and we can say that we complement each other, but the three views are basically the same. She's very talkative and I don't talk much. She doesn't like people who talk like her, I like people who can make me talk.

I know she is there, she knows that I am here, I can find each other when I turn around, we all have our own lives, but we know that each other's world has always had each other's figures, there is no need to chat every day Aite to Aite, and there is no need to say ** greetings at every turn, but you can talk to Hi Pi in minutes, and we will always be unscrupulous when we cry, we are each other's confidence, sincere and forever unshakable existence like family.

I'm in college, and I never say I miss when I can meet for half a year, and I've been busy and neglecting each other for a long time, and I'll shake each other to talk about it, and I don't have any intersection with each other's college life but I can know a lot about each other, I can't say this feeling, but when I see this topic, the first thing that comes to mind is her. If there is a problem, we may not be the first to say it to each other, but when it is solved, we will say that true friends are considerate of each other. There was a period of melancholy last year, and thanks to her for always taking care of me silently, she could easily detect that my words were wrong, and so did I.

It's already a family-like existence. I am a very slow person, the kind of person who is typical of familiarity proportional to the length of time I have known her, and I have known her for 7 years, from classmates to good friends, and then to family. She is very mature in her thinking, I always rely on her, I always discuss things with her, she will give me the best answer for me, and she knows me well.

1. A real girlfriend is the one you can travel with, go shopping together, and drink together. Because girls are very wonderful, you will attract each other like magnets, and the same interests and hobbies are essential for you to become girlfriends. Being able to be each other's best friends is also a kind of fate for you.

2. Real girlfriends, even if they don't contact for a long time, they are still like a family. As long as you look back, you will find that she is always by your side, you will have your own life, but you will always be in your world. Real girlfriends can't be beaten away or separated, and you will never leave you.

3. Real girlfriends will make you feel that you are too similar. You have the same values, the same preferences, the same temperament. You can talk until dawn together, or you can be quiet and not say a word without feeling bored.

It will make you feel very comfortable together, and it will also make your friendship last longer.

4. A real girlfriend is the one who will accompany you no matter what you do. They will pull you when you make mistakes, give you a shoulder to cry after scolding you, help you how to solve a problem, and be there for you when you need it.

5. Real girlfriends, you will understand each other's minds. Although you may have different personalities, you will always have endless things to say together, and you are willing to tolerate each other and enter each other's world. It will bring your hearts closer and your relationship closer.

A real girlfriend is the one who makes you willing to give her your heart!

If your best friend feels angry and jealous when you succeed, it shouldn't be a real best friend; If your best friend, when you fail, feels that you should be so inferior to her, and even ridicule and ridicule you, then it shouldn't be your best friend.

If your best friend just uses you as a tool to confide, and when you are helpless and sad, she is unwilling to take the time to listen to you, and even uses you as an after-dinner conversation with other people behind your back, then it should not be a real best friend. And almost all of us have met such friends, we have all been hurt, and we have all been hurt by this. If you continue to have such a girlfriend, please stay away from her, although the loss of friends may be painful, lonely, lost and even a sense of failure, but please be sure to stay away, because, only when you are far away, can you meet a real girlfriend.

So what does a real girlfriend look like?

A true girlfriend is someone who loves you more than you love yourself. No one will laugh when I see this, I feel that the requirements for girlfriends are too high, and even many parents will not do such a request. But because of this, real girlfriends are rare, and if you meet one in life, or have had one, you are very lucky.

It can be said that it is enough to have a confidant in life.

A true best friend can take care of all your troubles.

She will listen carefully to your confession, help you answer, and help you come up with ideas. He comforts you when you are sad. He gives you encouragement when you are tired.

You share the burden. Enjoy the advantages of each other, and also share the responsibility. Vexation.

That's what a real girlfriend should do.

The real best friends are:

1. Real girlfriends are affectionate and righteous, and when they care about each other, they are not just superficial, they are really concerned.

2. Real girlfriends can become stronger for each other, not only to protect themselves but also to protect each other.

3. Real girlfriends will not dislike each other's badness, but will tolerate everything about each other.

4. When real girlfriends are in a gloomy life, they will encourage and help each other.

Girlfriends are all about to accompany you, tolerate you and understand you, go crazy with you, play and laugh together, cry with you and laugh with you, you can talk to her when you have something, she will patiently comfort you and understand you, girlfriends will always coincide, ideas are almost the same, girlfriends are the people who know and care about you most in addition to your parents, and will always be your backing, although she will fight and fight with her girlfriends, but when something happens, she is the first to stand next to you and break with you, When you have nothing to do, your best friend is the biggest hidden danger, and it is not easy to have a best friend, so you have to cherish this friendship.

When you have something, he really comes, when you are in trouble, he really helps, and when you are down, he really rescues.

I can joke with you, I can cry with you, I can make trouble with you, I can laugh with you.

Knowing what you like, knowing what you don't like, and getting the scene back for you will give you steps.

will be selfless and tolerant of you.

These requirements, if the other party wants to do it, then you should also do it yourself, the world does not revolve around you, in other people's world, you are also her best friend.

So the real best friend is actually the result of the joint efforts of two people.

A real girlfriend is someone you can travel with, go shopping together, drink together, and have the same interests and hobbies.

Real girlfriends, even if you don't contact for a long time, you are still like a family, you can't leave, you can't break up, you will never leave.

A real girlfriend will make you feel that you are too similar, that you have the same values, the same preferences, and the same temper.

Girlfriends are not crazy together every day, and they are called girlfriends when they are stupid together. A good girl with a strong heart is prone to having a real girlfriend (the point is a strong heart), not just literally.

Perhaps most of humanity is like that. If you are not bound by anything (or self-morality, or fear, or whatever), it is easy for your girlfriend and boyfriend to be attracted and curious to each other, because they happen to be the two closest people to you, they have more in common, and after you describe one person to the other from time to time, it may make them more curious about each other.

I didn't dare to click on it when I saw this title, or even didn't dare, but I still decided to share my story, one day in 2016, I had a falling out with my only best friend, in my consciousness, my best friend should be the kind of person who wants to say that you can say at any time, you can ask at any time you want to ask, you can make trouble at any time, you can not say it too much, at that time in my impression, her good friend is not only me, here's the thing, because I broke up with my boyfriend, I want to change places to live, Asked her if she could accompany me to find a house, but she persuaded me not to make trouble, at that moment my heart was really broken, maybe I usually complained to her a lot, so she thought I was making trouble, we because of that time, no one sent a message the next day, until one day she went to Alipay, stealing my energy, I sent a message to her, I said I learned to make red bean milk tea, you have time to come and drink, she replied that I have not been available recently, I know that this friendship is already cool, to be honest, for this friendship lost, I don't feel much distressed, a real girlfriend should be on your side no matter what she says, and she will be sad if you are sad.

My best friend and I have known each other for 18 years and now I am 20 years old, there is no secret between us, it is mutual redemption, no matter what is going on when something happens, I am always the first to run to me, and I will respect each other's choice, rent a house together, cry together, make trouble together, and when others say bad things about each other, they will help refute it, I can scold my best friend, but others can't! He will always be by my side when I am in trouble and time, whether it is a broken love, or a quarrel with my family, there is no real definition of a girlfriend, but she must support you and guide you on the right path, to put it bluntly, a girlfriend is another me.

No matter what decision you make, she supports you unconditionally! Don't talk about anything, even if you sit together and don't talk, you don't feel embarrassed! She goes through difficult times, she is happy with you in happy times, she wants you to be good, she wants you to be better than her!

Real girlfriends are affectionate and righteous, and when they care about each other, they are not just superficial, they are really caring.

Really good for you, the two have nothing to talk about, and their interests can be different, but both of them will think about each other.

It's really good for you, it won't belittle you, it won't blindly condone you, and it will give you very pertinent advice.

Look at personal needs, like-minded, can meet your emotional problems, answer doubts, and sincerely persuade you.