What to do when you encounter a stubborn person, and what to do when you face a very stubborn person

When you have an argument with a stubborn person, it is difficult to gain the upper hand, and he will not allow you to refute at all, but it is easier to grasp his psychological characteristics.

If you want to influence a stubborn person, you must not give him your own views directly, let alone let him detect that you are trying to persuade him, but hide your intentions and use indirect methods, such as asking for advice, to put them in a higher position first, so as to produce a feeling of being valued, eliminate their psychological resistance, and their attitudes are often easy to change. In addition, pay attention to what kind of education level the stubborn person is, for the stubborn person with a low level of education, provide a single information, the persuasion effect is better, but for the stubborn person with a higher level of education, we must provide more information, especially positive and negative information, let him analyze it himself.

Take 100,000 yuan and tell him that if you are no longer stubborn, I will give you all of it, and then give you another $10000000 afterwards.

For this kind of person. The main thing is: I can't see my true side.

Opinionated. If the other party knows a lot of people. I suggest leaving it alone.

Because for the people! Self-righteousness is incomprehensible. He thinks leadership is none of our business.

It also shows pride and complacency. Don't worry too much either. It's annoying to see it!

And if he pesters you, he can only let him analyze it himself. If he dares to touch you in the future, let him ask for his own suffering. He'll also change one-scene choices.

If you're more stubborn than him, it's OK.

For a very stubborn person, don't raise the bar with him or think about changing him, just go with the flow, so as not to make both parties uncomfortable.

Shining stars.

What to do when you meet a stubborn person:

1. Try to conform to his ideas, give the other person a certain amount of affirmation and respect, and behave in a proper manner, without being frivolous or eager to refute.

2 Lower your posture and try to understand the other person's feelings, without trying to change the other person's perception.

Communicating with him in an indirect way can remove psychological resistance by seeking his help to make him feel valued.

When communicating, affirm first, then talk about the shortcomings, and let him analyze and compare the positive and negative aspects by himself, so as to achieve the desired result.

3 For a very stubborn person, don't try to change him or raise the bar with him.

Supplement: People with stubborn personalities generally have a strong sense of subjectivity, are prone to one-sided thinking, and are not willing to listen to opinions. Therefore, in the process of getting along, try to listen to his opinions and accommodate him in some innocuous little things, but also keep your own views and positions.

Pay attention to the art of speaking, you can give examples, use real cases (preferably what he knows).

When communicating, appropriate silence allows him to calm down and avoid arguments.

Stubborn people are stubborn in their bones, and trying to convince a stubborn person to go home is likely to only make you go home, so for those who are stubborn, the only way to make him change his thinking is to let facts speak louder than words, let the facts of experience convince him, and let the final results prove it.

Since you can't change others, you can only make yourself smooth, this is the feeling I got when I was a little older, so when I was at this time, I faced those "people who don't die until the Yellow River," I began to try to avoid those controversial topics, or lead the topic to other places before the controversy happened, or use a sentence "You're right", perfunctory, the advantage of doing this is that you will become very relaxed, you don't need to spend energy discussing some fruitless things with others, It also saves you from messing with those "idleness", but after doing so, there are also his obvious shortcomings, that is, your personality will gradually become transparent in the eyes of others, because after you don't express your own opinions, then your existence will slowly blur, just like when you are in school, there will be a good old man in your class, a peacemaker, but after graduation, you may not even remember the name of this person.

I don't want to be a transparent person, and I don't want to go to the truth of life with those people you can't change, so now I treat this group of brutes with such an attitude, I will argue twice at the beginning, but if the same problem arises again the third time, I won't discuss it, because it is undoubtedly a waste of time, maybe a person will indeed change what he does and thinks at the third time, but I have no obligation to waste my time on this person, Of course, if the person is particularly important, I will make an exception.

If you know that he is stubborn, it is best not to discuss the problem in depth, but to express your own opinions in conversation, and to listen to his opinions and suggestions clearly, and not to argue so as not to be displeased.

You can only communicate effectively with the other party.

When you are dealing with a very stubborn person, then you have to reason with him, you have to make him feel that your ideas are correct, so that he can make the other person change.

If you meet a very stubborn person in your life, in fact, it is recommended that you do not persuade him, because you can't persuade him to be a person's character, once it is formed, it is difficult to change, it is said that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, which is the truth!

In fact, there are a lot of very stubborn people in life, you must be patient, don't have some conflicts with them, you must have your own heart, and warm up each other, so it's good.

It depends on the situation.

What is the relationship between the other person and you?

In fact, in the vast majority of cases, as long as you don't hurt your own interests, stick to the bottom line that you can tolerate on major issues, and turn a blind eye to other things.

Stubborn, stubborn, don't touch the south wall and don't look back.

Just let him touch it, and his head will bleed, and if you go to the rescue, he will be grateful to you.

Ignore him and go with him, or go to the mental health department of the hospital for medical treatment.

Conflict can occur when we meet people whose ideas are basically the opposite of us. Of course, differences in opinion do not necessarily lead to conflict. It all depends on how we perceive our own views.

For example, some people may be fundamentalist when confronted with their own views, and they may have a hard time accepting any opinion that disagrees with their own, and for this reason, some people are just more difficult to reason with than others.

When we do encounter people who we feel arrogant or stubborn, it's easy to be tempted to break their resistance with a tough attitude. In the same way, when dealing with an angry person, we usually feel that we should not be soft or gentle, for fear that they will ignore us or even attack us as weak. We should think carefully about whether this is really the right thing to do.

If you add your own hatred to another person's hatred, the result will only be more hatred, and it will be harder to find common ground to move forward together.

As we know, there are all kinds of emotional forces that can prevent people from listening to opinions that are different from their own, and stubbornness is one of them, and a momentary outburst is another. In the face of people who are unable or unwilling to understand the point of view of others and open their minds to a wider mind, we must find ways to interact effectively with them. In such cases, it's up to us to find a healthy way to understand their point of view.

If this person is your colleague, your boss, of course you can make him think as much as he wants, and sooner or later he will pay for his own paranoia. But you said it, he is a person you can't live without, so you have to be patient enough with him, because even a small habit is difficult to break, let alone the character and temperament that a person has developed since childhood. In fact, if he is wrong in many things, it is better to expose him in advance, (if the consequences are not serious, you can show him with facts), and then you must not blame him afterwards, you must be patient to reason with him, and sometimes you have to listen to other people's opinions.

Slowly, he will understand your good intentions. Also, as for him not admitting his mistakes, you can also take advantage of the situation to save face for him, and tell him afterwards, so that he doesn't always be paranoid. It will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble.

The reason why this kind of person has the problems you mentioned above is mostly because there are always people who criticize him harshly since he was a child, but he is used to resisting, so sometimes he may know that he is wrong and is used to resisting. So you have to take your time with him. Since you have decided to help him, let go of your temper and arrogance and be considerate of him.

I believe that one day this "little beast" will be tamed by you.

If you want to spend a long time with it, personal advice is to keep a proper distance. Don't expect to convince him. Unless it's a necessary job requirement, of course, paranoia isn't bad, it's just that there will be its own insistence.

And it depends on the degree. You can make a decision after understanding. It's not that you can't turn people away at once.

If you feel that the other party has a problem, then just keep your distance from the other party and stay away from the other party.

Patients with paranoid personality disorder can be treated with antipsychotics, psychological, such as psychoanalysis, cognition, psychological support, interpersonal relationships, dialectical behavior, psychoeducation, etc. If the patient is seriously ill and has a serious impact on life, a small dose of antipsychotics can be used to improve cognitive function, and some social function training may be of some help.

If it does not seriously affect social functioning, it can be helpful to have personality disorders without **psychological** methods. Patients with paranoid personality disorder should have more contact with other people in their daily lives, think about the good side of everything, and see how the people around them do and explain things when they have difficulty solving them by themselves. If you can ask for the opinions of others on some problems, you should be more concerned and caring for such patients, and help them with love and sincerity.

When encountering a person with a paranoid personality, first of all, we must learn to communicate well with him, consider it from a different perspective when encountering problems, and do more explanation work for some things patiently and meticulously, and don't worry about him. Be more tolerant and understanding.

You can have two options, one is to tell him when he says that you don't want to listen, of course this may risk provoking him, but he will also anger you by instilling ideas with you, and the second is that you agree with what he says, but you don't agree with him in your heart, just go along with him, so that you don't need to stiffen or stay away from him as much as possible, and other than that, unless you can change him, you can only be in the dilemma of this contradiction.

Psychologically speaking, you should stay away from it, not try to convince. Because what can be easily persuaded is not called paranoia. For your own good, it is advisable to stay away.

Don't bother with paranoid people, because you can't change the way others do, including our loved ones. So the best way is to be patient to guide it, if you are not patient, don't dwell on it, and stay away is the right thing to do.

You just treat them as if they were crazy people and don't bother with them. If they scold you again and interfere with your life, you can call the police at the time, and if you can't solve it once, call the police many times, and let the police take care of them.

Ignore it, if you continue to entangle with him, he will find it interesting to go on like this, and will continue to tease you, as long as you ignore it, ignore everything, and hold back, he will feel bored with you anymore, and he won't bother you after a long time.

If he is really like this, it is a neurosis, ah, so many years, but you still have to be careful, although you have reached the point where you are troubled by the personal safety of your family and the personal safety of the children in your family must be paid attention to, take good care of the children, if you can't leave the circle of your life.

The guest house, time is a passerby from the past and present. The difference between life and death is like the difference between dreaming and waking up, changing and incomprehensible, and how much joy can there be? It makes sense that the ancients insisted on playing with torches at night.

Moreover, the mild spring attracts us with beautiful scenery, and nature shows us splendid scenery. Gather in the peach blossom-scented garden and tell the happy past between brothers. The younger brothers are handsome and excellent, and all of them have the same talent as Xie Huilian, but I am ashamed to be inferior to Xie Lingyun when I write poetry and chant.

The elegant enjoyment has never stopped, and the high-minded talk has turned to the elegant language. Set up a feast to sit and admire the famous flowers, and quickly pass the wine glass drunk in the moonlight. Without good poetry, how can you express elegant feelings?

If someone writes poetry, he will feel that Aunt Spade is blue and harmonious.

One, you didn't mishear the wrong person, did you?

Or even do you have auditory hallucinations?

Do you consult a psychiatrist? Tell your family about this?

Second, if there is such a wicked person, you and your relatives and friends, pay attention to collecting evidence, protect your rights and interests in accordance with the law, and seek justice.