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<><"Punishment" the child correctly
1.Persuasion - quarreling and snatching things for the children's spring feast
Walk up to your child and give you care and greetings.
Be patient and ask why.
Tell your child about the consequences of these actions and guide them to do the right thing.
2.Penalty station - for children to quarrel and cause trouble
Set up a punishment area in your home and put it on soft cushions.
Have your child face the wall for 20 minutes.
Make a summary with your child and what to do next time you encounter this situation.
3.Do housework - for children who are lazy and littering
Assign a few simple family characters to your child, so that he can develop good habits of hygiene and cultivate his ability to live independently.
4.Drawing – Targeting children for hitting, swearing, etc
Let the child draw his true thoughts in his heart, let him express his emotions first, and analyze with the child why he should not hit someone.
5.Confiscation of things - for the act of not cherishing things
The confiscation of the child's beloved items as a punishment, so that the child can understand the meaning of cherishing through the loss, and only by learning to cherish can we better understand love.
6.Writing - Lying and touting things for children
Prepare a notebook and pen in the punishment area, let the child express his inner thoughts through writing, preaching and accusation are not useful, try to guide.
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Some teachers are very irresponsible, beating and scolding children in the name of love, and also physically punishing children. Our children have also experienced such a thing, and the children are afraid to tell their families after experiencing this kind of thing, and finally the parents found out about it. I think such teachers are very irresponsible, they don't think about the children's feelings when they do things, and more importantly, they don't give the children respect.
I believe you have seen a lot of incidents on the news, that is, the child was scolded and corporal punishment by the teacher at school, and finally the child's psychology was shadowed. Some people feel that the child's psychological tolerance is very poor and cannot accept criticism, so they will feel that it is the child's fault. But I think that if a teacher can only solve things by scolding and branding when educating children, it means that the teacher is incompetent.
Every teacher should do their duty, that is, to teach and educate people, they can teach children at the same time as teachers, but if corporal punishment of children, then it is an abuse of power, which is a manifestation of irresponsibility to children. Some teachers want children to memorize for a long time, but they use the wrong method when they remember it, and they can't make a deeper impression on the children. Every time the teacher oppresses the child physically or mentally, the child is very helpless, because they are powerless to resist, and they have to face the teacher's scolding and corporal punishment every day, and it is difficult for them to spend such a time.
Teachers should not use love to achieve their goals, because their so-called love is a burden to children. More importantly, they never imagined whether the student would accept this love, and whether he would be willing to use this way to change his wrong way and pressure, which would not let the child move forward, but would cause a lot of harm to the child. If you really love your child, don't let your child be hurt, and let your child release his nature is the most important thing.
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Experienced. Because some teachers will think that children are more naughty and mischievous and can't clean up, and then they will beat and scold children and physically punish children in the name of love.
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No, my children's teachers are very qualified and will not arbitrarily adopt corporal punishment education.
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If you haven't experienced it, this situation is not a good experience for the child, and when you encounter such a situation, you can properly enlighten the child.
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Introduction: Some teachers beat and scold children and physically punish children in the name of love, such behavior should not be among teachers, these are directly contrary to the principles of teachers, such people are not worthy of being a teacher.
I don't know if you have ever met such a teacher, it seems that you have encountered such a teacher when you were in junior high school, and they also beat and scolded and corporal punishment of children in the name of love. No matter what period the teacher's scolding and corporal punishment will bring a lifetime of psychological shadow to the child, until now I still remember the teacher's expression and the scene at that time, it really feels particularly terrible, never in the name of love to beat and scold the child and promote the child, otherwise it will bring a lifetime of psychological shadow to the child, and he may resent his teacher.
The teacher is the existence of teaching and educating people, and must use the right way to guide the child to study well, rather than using this wrong Fang Sen Yanqing style to bring harm to the child, you must know that once the jujube buried is corporal punishment or scolding, it will make the child dislike this subject before, and it will affect the child's physical and mental development, the child has been in such an environment for a long time, and will not face up to his own advantages at all, he will only feel that he is very poor, and he will not be recognized by the teacher, and he will not be praised by the teacher. Slowly will doubt themselves, such a child his self-esteem is seriously frustrated, and I hope that the teacher can change his education method, so that the child can grow up in a happy life, of course, such teachers must be a minority, and I hope that more and more good teachers will appear.
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I think this kind of behavior is very incorrect, it will affect the child's development, it will lead to the child's rebellious emotions, and Mingshan Guess may affect the child's character development, but it will ruin the child.
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This practice is particularly incorrect, and it can directly affect the child's character and physical health. Corporal punishment of children is discouraged in many places.
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In fact, this kind of situation is common, but I think teachers should not be like this, because loving children does not necessarily have to hit children.
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I think it's very unreasonable, as a teacher, you can't use corporal punishment on students in such a name, it's not right.
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I think this is unreasonable and against the rules, and as a teacher, you can't corporal punishment of students in the name of this.
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I found that there are many parents in China who always do everything they can to hurt their children under the banner of love. In fact, parents also know that sometimes they are just angry for a while, and the starting point is not for the good of their children at all. But I am afraid that my child will hate myself, so I will use moral kidnapping to tell my child that your parents love you too much.
I also see that many parents will choose to use beating or corporal punishment when educating their children, and today I will tell you about the disadvantages of this education method.
First of all, we must know that children also have self-esteem, and hitting and scolding children will hurt children's self-esteem, and it will also make children hate their parents very much. Secondly, hitting and scolding the child will not solve the problem, it will only make the child hate his parents more and more, and hate communicating with his parents more and more. Hitting and scolding a child will also make the child become a violent person, because the child thinks in his heart that only by hitting others and scolding others can he solve a problem, so when the child wants to solve the problem, he will beat and abuse him.
Many parents do love their children very much, but they don't know how to express their love for their children. In normal times, we give more care to children and give them more patience. After encountering some problems, take the initiative to communicate with the child, so that the child knows that the parents are always behind them, so that the child will feel the love of the parents.
I hope that parents can always stand on the side of their children unconditionally, and after encountering some problems, it is best to take the initiative to understand the cause of the matter, rather than randomly beating and scolding the children and corporal punishment of the children.
In fact, there are many parents who do not really understand the cause of the matter after encountering some problems, and when parents know that their children have done something wrong, they will be angry and start to abuse their children. But at this time, the child's inner thoughts are to hope that the parents can care more about themselves, and hope that the parents can know the truth of the matter.
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This kind of thing is not correct, scolding and corporal punishment will make the child more rebellious, and it will also make the child develop bad habits, which is not good for the child's development.
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I think this kind of thing should be stopped, and this kind of thing should not happen again, because loving children does not necessarily have to beat and scold children, corporal punishment of children, this is just parents venting their emotions in the name of love.
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I don't think this is a reflection of loving children, but it hurts children, making children very afraid of their parents, afraid that they will even learn to lie in the face of their parents.
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I think this kind of behavior is very incorrect, and it will also bring great psychological pressure to the child, which is not conducive to the child's future growth.
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