What is it like for a guy to be single for more than 20 years?

20-year-old me, single for 20 years, according to the current era, maybe some people think that a 20-year-old person, has one or two, or even two or three love experiences is normal, people around me, play best friends have also been in love, but I have always been alone, never in love, worthy of the name of a single dog.

Finish. I remember that since elementary school, there have been several couples in the class, and at that time they were all gossiping, who liked whom, who was with whom, and who was with whom, but now I feel quite naïve. In junior high school, I fell in love more often, and over time it became a common thing, but I was still not interested in falling in love at all.

Sometimes when my boyfriend buys candy or snacks for his girlfriend, some of the girls in the class will make amazing noises and envious eyes, which I feel is like flattery, and I am not interested. Some classmates have asked me, saying that I have someone I like but am embarrassed to say it, and even someone has to force me to say who I like, whenever this kind of time I can't smile bitterly, I really don't particularly like someone, if I find someone to fall in love, I don't feel it.

The experience of being single for more than 20 years is that I don't know what it's like to be in love, and the views on love in my mind are all obtained by watching ** and TV series, when friends are trapped by love, it is always the most thorough one counted by bystanders, as if the love saint is on the body, not only for others to come up with ideas but also to comfort them, but in fact, he is a single dog with zero love experience, and the long-winded view of love is actually his own blind imagination, and he has not experienced it personally, and he threatens to get rid of the single but still feels cowardly about falling in love, Fear of two people being alone together.

After going to college, our dormitory is full of single dogs, I think it's good, live your own life, do one thing without worrying about another person agreeing or disagreeing, free time can be at your own disposal, do whatever you want, how free, not to spend money to buy some flashy things to give each other, you can also save a lot of money, I think a person's life is very good. Anyone who longs to be loved will have this feeling, when you need help, you will feel that you are a little tired, different people have different feelings, after all, people crave love and the degree of love is not the same, fortunately I have a group of roommates like a family around me, and now the days, for me, they are enough.

I have been single for 20 years, probably in the past 20 years, I have done everything by myself, no girlfriend can share the ups and downs of my life, and no girlfriend can comfort myself when I am sad, but I feel that it is good for me to be single alone.

Twenty years have passed, everything is providential, and I hope I can get off the list soon. In the past 20 years, whenever I have celebrated Valentine's Day, I always feel like everything is in a dream, and I think: Ah!

I spent Valentine's Day by myself again, how tenacious I was!

In fact, when I am alone, sometimes I feel very lonely, when I go to eat hot pot alone, the waiter looks at me alone, thinks that I am in a bad mood, and brings me a doll to accompany me, I ask him: "Is this to give me a doll?" The waiter said

That's to let the doll accompany you, it's boring to be alone! I looked at the waiter, a very young man, and I said, "Then you might as well come and eat with me!"

The waiter walked away embarrassed! Although I don't care about other people's eyes, I was told that when I was alone, I still felt weird, what happened to me alone? I've never seen anyone who hasn't been in love and has been single for 20 years!

What's this! I think I'm good like this, I'm free, I can do whatever I want!

I always hear others say how popular I am, how many people like me, but, I don't feel it at all, from school to now, God knows how much I want to break the ambiguous spell, open everything to talk about a love without regrets, I won't get close, I don't know the proportion, I don't know if anyone likes me, I don't know if the other party is teasing me, sometimes I'm not in love but I'm greedy for a feeling, a kind of heart-to-heart like, a kind of peace of mind, a dependence, a look, want to get closer, But once I get closer, sometimes I get a little frightened, mainly because I'm stupid, confused, and hard to understand, or it's hard to determine what the other person means. A little lonely.

Actually, I don't think it matters, I think it's normal around 20 years old, I didn't fall in love when I was 20 years old, I was officially in love when I was 23 years old, after all, I was young and just became an adult, so why rush to fall in love? For me to be single at 20 years old, it is normal to be single for 20 years.

1. Go out and exercise.

If you stay at home for a long time, you become an otaku, and what you do as a whole is nothing more than games and movies, which wastes both time and physical fitness. Boys should go out and exercise more, running on college campuses, working out in the gym, playing ball on the basketball court, there is no shortage of people full of girls in these places, and it is naturally easy to get to know girls.

2. Attend parties.

The party is the process of constantly getting to know friends, at the party, your friend's friend will come to participate, there are boys and girls, through the party you can meet many new friends, some girls can be used as love objects, some girls can be recommended as love objects of kindness, when making friends, you can also exercise a person's emotional intelligence.

3. Online dating.

Now is the Internet era, and even the chat software for finding a girlfriend has many names, such as the well-known one-partner marriage, only marriage, etc., and now many boys who are single in their mothers and fetuses are on it, you can also try. You can also make friends with girls on **, games, reading software, **software, and if you chat well on the Internet and have a good impression of each other, you can start dating. It greatly guarantees the safety of users.

4. Introduced by friends.

It is more difficult for introverted boys to take the initiative to make friends with girls, but they are looking forward to meeting women and developing romantic relationships, so you can ask a friend to introduce you.

If a guy has been single for 22 years, then, as long as he is not more than 50 years old and has the desire to court, there is definitely hope.

Of course, there is hope;

Being single is just a state at this time, and the front vertical does not represent the state after answering the skin, maybe you will find a different self in the next smart move of questioning yourself;

If it is calculated from birth, it is normal to rush early in this way, and there is no feeling. Many people are in their twenties after graduating from college, and then fall in love, get married, and have children

How can there be no hope, as long as you are brave enough to pursue it, there will always be a suitable one for you, and at the same time have love.

"Fate hasn't arrived yet", poof, this sentence has deceived me for 23 years.

I don't feel anything, I'm used to being single.

It doesn't feel good to live a free life.

What are we all talking about when we talk about love?

In my generation, around 20 years old, some people have already experienced the taste of love, and some people have been single.

If you think about it carefully, there are actually not a few people who have been single for 20 years. Although there is a saying that if all your good friends are single, you are the only one, and you are probably under pressure to get off the list soon.

Hi everyone, I'm Vizi. In our inefficient group, being single is a normal thing, because from the editor-in-chief Momo herself to the person who is friends with her, either broke up or broke up (although it was just a series of coincidental events that happened at an unexpected time). But being single for 20 years is quite rare.

Today we are going to share the stories of two friends who have been single until now.

1. The indomitable marching beast roars wildly.

Text anonymous. I've been to the sea alone. When I sat alone in Xiamen on the bus, one stop away from the inn to the beach, stepping on the sand along the coastline, and blowing the sea breeze, I didn't feel lonely.

However, when I saw the newlyweds who were going to come out to take wedding photos on such a cloudy day, I also uncharacteristically did not roll my eyes at this kind of behavior of showing affection in public, but sat by and watched for a long time, until the sea breeze made me a little cold.

I have been single for twenty years, just because I haven't met the right person. Every single person has an impossible person in his heart. I believe that every person who has been single for a long time doesn't really want to fall in love, but he can't wait for the person in his heart to fall in love with him, so he has been single.

It's not that I'm willing to be single, it's not that no one wants to fall in love with me, it's just that there is an impossible person living in my heart, and it has long been filled with this person, so there is no more place for others.

We don't want to be single, and we don't want to settle. We try to get close to the person we like, thinking that we can get the love of that person by giving out our hearts, but in the end, we just can't get the person we like, and we miss the likes of others. Enjoy the beauty of being single and in love.

You don't think there's anything wrong with being single, and it's not necessarily lonely to live alone.

Now that you are single, you will enjoy the beauty of being single, one person has a large portion of ** food, one person has a double bed and rolls around, one person goes shopping, watches a movie, one person enjoys half price of the second cup, and there is no need for another person to participate in your life.

Regarding the matter of love, you have completely handed over time, you know, you can't be single for the rest of your life, sooner or later you will meet someone who is willing to be with you, willing to give yourself a home of sustenance and concern. This person will find you in the vast sea of people one day, even if you come late, you are not too anxious, because you know that the person who has helped you to old age must come to see you in the dust.

You're still single as always, and you're as eager to fall in love as ever. In fact, no matter what state you are in at this time, I hope that you can enjoy the beauty of being single, and at the same time have the ability to love others. When someone loves, love hard, and when you are single, you must also be full of expectations, because there will always be someone who comes unexpectedly and is willing to bump into you.

I think it's okay, because at the age of 20, I just went to college, and it's okay to be in a relationship during college, which is normal.

I don't feel anything, I'm 21 years old now, I'm still very happy, fitness, games, studying, watching dramas, I don't think there's anything hard in my life.

Carefree, uninhibited, I've been single for 30 years, and I still want to go**go** alone, and I'm very happy.

It's normal, I'm only 20 years old, so what's the hurry. It's just that I haven't met the right person yet, I'm just waiting for someone to make eye contact with me.

It's that I've never had a partner for 20 years, and I've never been in love, and I've watched others in pairs, but I'm alone.

I think if he has been single for 20 years, his hand speed in playing games must be very, very high, and his level of playing games must be very, very good, because he has been lonely for so long, and only games accompany him.

Sometimes I feel like I'm lonely. But I don't want to reluctantly start a relationship on my own. Still want to wait for a suitable person.

It's still 20 years, but I'm used to being alone, and I won't feel lonely, nor will I crave love, and I feel that I may be single for a lifetime.

I'm very happy to be single for 20 years, when I'm single, I'm full of food, and the whole family is not hungry.

After being single for 20 years, I feel very bitter, everyone else has a other half, and I show affection in front of myself every day, which makes my heart full of bitter water.

I began to get used to living alone, and I faced everything in life by myself, and I became stronger and stronger, but sometimes I was a little envious when I saw others in pairs.

I feel that gradually I feel that I am good alone, and I feel that it is not good to have a boyfriend and girlfriend. I learned to accomplish a lot of things on my own.

The feeling of being single for 20 years is that I feel that I am actually quite good alone. You don't need to think about the other person's feelings, and do whatever you want.

I feel that I may be lonely in this life. After being single for 20 years, I have forgotten how to fall in love, and if a relationship is placed in front of me, I may not dare to accept it.

After being single for 20 years, I will begin to wonder if there is really such an emotion as love in this world, and what can make two people desperate to want to be together. Anyway, I just don't feel like this should happen to me.

Being single for 20 years is really fed up with loneliness, and every time I want to go out to play, I don't have a regular playmate, so I can only make a temporary appointment.