Should I break up with her or not?

Love is a very hurtful thing, and when you don't grasp it well, it is likely to hurt each other.

You have to remember that love is not the whole of life, and there are many things in life that are worth doing.

Given your situation, I think you pay more attention to the other person's image. Of course there is no one who doesn't like it.

Belle. But I'm going to tell you to be beautiful when you are looking for a lover, and you have to be real when you are looking for a wife.

Either way, the final decision should be left to your own considerations, any feelings.

No one else can help you. Don't hesitate when you think it through.

Be decisive, let yourself get relaxed, and unload the heavy emotional baggage.

I believe that you will find your true love in the future, good luck for you! ok

Since I want to have fun... Let's stop... I know that I can't marry her, and your age is not suitable for playing...

Let's divide it... I think you are just determining the relationship between husband and wife in **··· It's the same as playing home... Didn't socialize... The word "breakup" should not be said either...

Alas. Actually, it shouldn't be continued. So as not to cause a lot of trouble, there are many such things on TV in reality! Generally nothing good ends! (Honestly).

But it's really hard to make the choice to leave, you're like a cat scratching in your heart!

If she's sure she's not the kind of person who can't let go, it really means that she's very confident I think this is also a very important reason why you like her, even having a child can't reduce her charm, it seems that she is indeed very beautiful and attractive personality If you think you have fallen into this relationship, please think clearly, are you willing to marry her? Would you like to raise her children with her? Will your parents approve of this marriage?

If you're sure, then don't say anything and go ahead! Consolidate your relationship, this relationship will only feel no regrets for you if you give it.

Love is not something that can be divided.

If you don't have feelings for her, then the result is believed to have come out.

If you have decided that you will not marry her, it is better to tell her that it is not good for you or her to go on like this, although if you don't say it, you can enjoy the rest of the warmth, but it will not last long!

It's better to let it go, choose a girl you like and are willing to marry her to fall in love, then at least there will be nothing inexplicable to block your path.

It's good that you can name her strengths. If you don't like her, the idea of wanting to possess it once is dirty. Unwitting harm can ruin a person's life. In turn, you let people play with it. Are you happy?

If you don't really love her, don't hurt her.

Do you wish there was one more person in this world who hated you?

It's not her fault that she's beautiful and smart, and hopefully you won't hurt her.

I suggest you don't indulge in femininity!

All you want is to have a beautiful woman! Instead of wanting to be together from the bottom of my heart, I want to take care of her for the rest of my life!

Although she had a failed marriage and was not very good with her husband, she hasn't divorced yet, right? In other words, she is still a married woman, and if you develop a relationship with her, it is clear that it is not agreeable!

Have you ever thought that you are really with her, but she has children, even if she divorces her husband and the children belong to her husband, as a mother, she will still contact her children, and you can accept it then? Or if she wants a child, can you treat the child calmly?

You just fancy that she is a beauty, but she is a married beauty, so I suggest you be cautious!

Dude, let's be realistic these days, she has been married and has had children. It's not okay to want to be sustainable.

First of all, there should be no such thought. Secondly, isn't she lonely? Don't you miss her ?

Hit it off and set the relationship in a good position, which is a lover. Once you've satisfied your desires, think about other issues. Do you know if you really come together?

Can you take on the responsibilities of a child? And there is one thing that cannot be left unconsidered. She is such a beautiful woman, doesn't anyone pay attention to her?

She confides in you, is it really just to confide? Can you hold her? Do you know what kind of medicine she sells in her gourd? That's all there is to it. Take care of it yourself!

Whether you should break up and others can't give you the right one, it depends on whether you love her, true love can tolerate everything, what do you think, love is happy and happy is the love that does not deceive each other, love is not to say play, this will bring harm to people, love is the most beautiful in the world, how can you play with your feelings! If you don't love her yourself, tell her why hurt someone like this. Do you like her appearance and beauty, so do you love her?

In the end, you still hurt her, you still have a good heart, don't deceive her. If you don't love her, break up! But in the end, you hurt yourself and hurt her.

In this way, how can your kindness go away? If you love her, you will tolerate her and make love more perfect. This is true love and true love.

In fact, there is no limit to love, the key is to see whether two people really love each other, and whether your love will be accepted by your family and friends. It's not enough for two people to love each other, it's important for two people to have similar personalities and temperaments, and don't just look at the appearance if you like someone, beautiful appearance does not mean that the heart is beautiful. Love and marriage are two different things, love can be with anyone, as long as you like it, but marriage is different, you have to consider if there are really two people living together in two families is not limited, will there be an estrangement between two people, you have never been married, find a woman who is married and has children is to bear some external pressure, including whether you will have physical or psychological resistance in the future, so it is normal to like beautiful women, but to consider whether it is possible for you to live together?

Can you build a harmonious family, if you can't let go early, there are more women in the world, see how you know your wife!

Let's look at the development. The human body wants to find what he really likes. Maybe you like her beauty. It's up to you, and you're dating for a while. I think it should be scored.

Isn't that the same question I just had?

Since you were broken up without knowing the reason, forget it, because she knows the reason for the breakup, and that is that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.

Then you just try to communicate with her, generally a girl wants to break up with you, and it is not easy to redeem it.

You don't even know why, and you want to start again.

Difficult!!! It is difficult for a good woman to cook without rice.

There is a reason. Otherwise, I don't like you. Or fall in love with another boy.

It seems to me that the two of you are not very likely to be together ...

First of all, she is a little princess, if your family is not good enough, then you will definitely not be able to meet some of her needs in the future, your quarrel will intensify, and it is necessary to be a good match.

Secondly, her temper is used to at home, as the saying goes, the country is easy to change, her nature is difficult to change, she has been used to it for more than 20 years, can you say that if you change it, you will change it for her? Unrealistic.

Moreover, she doesn't seem to have experienced any setbacks now, she is still a child with a temper and is not sensible, if she has always been like this, you have no way to study with peace of mind, she is still very playful, only suitable for you to easily fall in love when you have nothing important to do, but not suitable for the future, she is still in fairy tales, but you are in reality.

Give her another chance, if she is still vexatious and does not change, try to give up slowly, it only shows that she still needs some setbacks to make her grow. If you turn around as soon as she cries, it will be too indulgent for her to mess around, and the girlfriend wants to be spoiled, but not unconditionally and unlimitedly. The twisted melon is not sweet, rather than being so tired, it is better to let each of them live.

I read your story carefully and would like to make a few points.

First, use one sentence to describe "being together because you don't understand, and separating because you understand" At first, maybe you didn't ask for her so much, just a simple love, but over time, you found out that the other party has a lot of shortcomings, and the truth is that you can't stand your girlfriend type of person at all, which proves that you don't love her that much, in other words, she is not suitable for you, not the kind of girl you want and appreciate!

Second, you must know that all aspects of a person's personality can not be changed, what you think is bad, she does not necessarily feel bad, imposing on the other party will actually make both parties very tired, this is not a manifestation of really loving a person, love can tolerate each other's shortcomings, is to give not to force Your complaint did not mention any of her advantages at all, in your eyes, she is now full of shortcomings and unbearable.

Thirdly, the reason why your girlfriend relies on you and pesters you is only asking for love in her own way, without taking into account what you really need, in this respect, her willfulness and squeamishness are not suitable for you at all! She needs a boyfriend who can spoil her every day, accompany her and focus on her, and you need a girl who is independent and has her own opinions

Your nostalgia, it may be reluctant, this is a feeling that any flesh-and-blood person will have, after all, it's been more than a year I suggest, don't try to change anyone, she is her, if you love her, tolerate her, if you don't love it, please let it go decisively, if it goes on like this, it will be torture for both parties!

Her personality is like that, how do you change her? Break up, or we will often quarrel together in the future

If you are already in love, don't let go easily, some things as long as they don't violate the bottom line, give more tolerance and understanding in sticking to your bottom line.

Deal with your mentality first, if you also think that she is too open, then sooner or later you will also be divided... If you can look down, or communicate with her here, then you can redeem it...

Also, don't tell her your friend's opinion, just know it yourself

1) She is too open, has too many boys, and gets along very well (since your friend said so, you yourself feel a little, then I think 90% this is her objective reality, but I don't know if she admits it herself), whether you can tolerate this, think clearly about what you can tolerate and what you can't tolerate; If she stays like this and you can't tolerate it, then the advice is to break up;

2) Whether you can afford to support her, you have to judge for yourself, what your ability is, what her future is, whether she has high material requirements, whether she will be unable to meet her needs, and whether she will be tired of material pursuits in the future. If that's the case, I'm sure you'll have a miserable life in the future, and there's no guarantee that she'll find another love. Of course, if she is only richer than you, as long as she really loves you and is willing to live a slightly less luxurious life with you, you must cherish her;

3) Or if she is about to break up with you because you and your friends are talking about her behind your back, and talking about her shortcomings, it is recommended that you do less in the future, if you really want to mention something, it is better to say "I think... Instead of "Friends say ... directly turn the evaluation of her into your own opinion.

What more do you ask? 。Of course, I also think it's a little bit". You have the answer yourself, and if you go on, the result will be the same.

Didn't he say that he had mental problems, and he also said that she had a bad personality, and she had to accommodate her, but she also needed to be accommodated, maybe she loved in a different way.

How old are you? You said you were still studying, maybe around 20, going to college.

1. No matter how long two people talk about it, it is not directly proportional to whether they are happy or not in married life.

There are blind dates for a few days, and they are happy and loving after marriage; I also talked about it for seven or eight years, and I divorced after marriage.

Marriage is not the same as love ... Of course, every responsible relationship is considered for a long time in the future, and the idea is good;

But we might as well have this psychological awareness, and every relationship can learn and grow from it, and that is also meaningful!

2. After falling in love or in the rest of the pants, after the love period, it is normal for the two parties to cherish each other, and then they have entanglements with each other, which is the so-called "running-in" period, considering that no one is perfect, we sometimes can't even fully understand ourselves and control our emotions, and we can't ask for the other half who is not related to ourselves by blood!

3. Generally, we simply divide our personalities into introverts and extroverts, but in fact, in real life, it is far from being so simple.

No matter how outgoing and arrogant a woman's personality is, in the process of love, it is inevitable that she will show "gains and losses" and jealousy;

Of course, there are also men who may be worried and unable to let go, which is normal.

Everyone's psychological maturity is different, and it doesn't mean that if you work, you will not mature in school.

The fate between people is not easy, we must cherish it, but we don't have to force it!

We work hard, to communicate, sincerely, if the other party hadn't had other plans a long time ago, (mention breaking up, just taking the opportunity to make the boy can't stand it first, break up first...) So, I believe that girls can understand and understand your sincerity.