What should I do if my father, who loves me the most, dies and can t let go?

Updated on society 2024-03-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Life and death are something that everyone has to experience. Bury these things from the bottom of your heart, don't think about it, first, we really can't make up for it, and secondly, the best way to believe in the tolerance of our elders is to live a good life and miss them once in a while, I hope that all we can recall are happy pictures. I think there's no way to be truly relieved, we will always think of them, so it's okay to think of those happy pictures, and when you can't control your emotions, finding a place to cry is the best release.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is a fact to accept the death of a loved one, after all, the person is gone, you can go to the attractions that you have been to with your father, and recall what happened with your father at these attractions, so that you can relax, be kind to your mother, and be filial to be relieved.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can listen more, let yourself relax, and then go to travel, let yourself release your mood in the tour, let yourself relax, tell yourself that everyone will be born, old, sick and die, and the death of your father is a fact that cannot be changed, be kind to yourself, and your father will be at ease.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, you have a good mentality and allow yourself to be sad for a while, but you must understand that there is no benefit in being sad all the time, it is impossible to live a good life because the person who loves you the most has passed away, you need to look forward, you have to live better, even the inner part of your relatives, live with her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can find your friends and family to cry, and if you cry, you will be psychologically released, make yourself more relaxed, or do something you like to do, so that you can be a little more fulfilled every day, and you can also divert your attention and relieve your sadness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The father who loves him the most has passed away, and he can't let go, so he can go to some places where he often goes to find out the life experience with him, recall the scenes when he lived with him, and ease the thoughts about him in his heart, although time will dilute all this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The human heart is not made of iron, unless it is not your own father. It will get better over time. I also experienced it a few years ago, for a long time, I sat and cried like this, and I suddenly cried while driving on the road, Dad hurt you all your life, and before you could hurt him well, he left.

    This feeling is like a knife cut. Five years have passed, and I am much better, and I only cry when I think about it occasionally.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it is impossible for parents to accompany us all our lives, we should learn to grow, learn to mature, we should learn to be self-reliant, birth, old age, sickness and death, no one can escape, mourning and change, if you praise again, what should your mother do, you should be strong, but also live well, to support the family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Think about your mother, you are so sad, what should your mother do, it doesn't matter if you can't hold on for a day, but you can't let your mother's life be too hard. I also used to grieve for my grandfather for a long time, and every year when I went home, I would go to his grave to chat with him. I'm afraid of being lonely, and some of them have to be kept in my heart.

    The common feelings of birth, old age, sickness and death.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are only two people in the world who love themselves the most, that is, the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, and when your parents are gone, you can only rely on yourself for everything you have, and be strong to face the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My old father passed away at the age of 91 this year, and I was very sad in my heart and regretted that I did not spend much time with him. He is always full of positive tension in life, hardworking, thrifty, content, happy, I am a college student from the countryside in that era, my father is proud and proud of me, and he is very good to me. In fact, I was able to be admitted to university and go out of the countryside because of my father's teaching and encouragement.

    Every day with tears on my face, I beg my father's forgiveness, I miss my father. Dad, are you okay over there? Daughter will miss you forever!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dad is an elegant, kind, forbearant old man, when Dad is almost 90 years old, I am afraid that Dad will leave me one day, I often go home to accompany Dad, every time I have to look at Dad's face a few more times, for fear that one day I will not see, this nightmare day finally came, 91-year-old Dad left us forever, that period of life is worse than death, the heart is like a knife cut uncomfortable, never to see again. I want to cry every day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I have never been able to get out of the pain, and when I think of the pain of my father's death, I can't stop crying. I love your father, I hope there is no sickness in heaven, I hope there will be reincarnation, and our father and daughter will meet again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's been 17 years since my dad died, and I couldn't put it down when I just left, and when I got home from work, I cried when I saw what my dad left behind, what should I do if I couldn't go on like this, and then I wrote a diary, wrote one every day, and slowly came out!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My father passed away two years ago at the age of 86. I am also over half a hundred years old, and I feel very sad and helpless when my father leaves, and I feel that my father who loves me will cry when he can no longer see me, and he always thinks about the ......scene when my father and I were together when I was a childDon't say it, I'm going to cry again

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