What kind of psychology does your ex girlfriend have when she invites you to get married?

What is the mindset of people who invite their exes to the wedding when they get married? One is to show his attitude: I am married, there will be no more possibilities between us, the second is to hope that my ex will see his happiness, and the third is that he purely wants to take revenge on his ex, just to make him unhappy.

Now people generally don't disgust their newlywed wives and husbands for such a little money, so calling their ex to the wedding, it is more likely that they are still thinking about their ex, this kind of person generally wants to enter the wedding hall with his ex, and now he calls his ex to the wedding, although he is holding someone else's hand, but he is also at the wedding with his ex.

broke up, but they are still friends, this kind of love that belongs to the past is still quite sweet, and breaking up is also good to get together and disperse. Most of them belong to living in the same city, maybe they will have to take care of each other in the future, you and I have no chance in this life, and it is good for the next generation to have a baby, after all, "life is long, I advise you to walk more than one person".

For the bride or groom, the most heartbreaking thing is to hold your hand, holding the diamond ring you sent, but looking at the person in the audience, and, if you don't operate it well, you may be done in the rest of your life.

When a female friend of mine got married, the groom secretly called her ex, note that it was secretly, the bride saw the ex at the wedding and asked why she called her, and the groom said, "If I asked you, would she still come?" So my friend left directly, no matter how the groom hit **, the only thing I was glad about was that I didn't get a marriage certificate with this fool.

Definitely not inviting an ex to a wedding. There's no need for that. Exe means something that has already passed, and don't want it in the past. Tangled up again.

This is a very embarrassing thing and you shouldn't ask your ex to attend your wedding, but it's not impossible if you get along well.

First of all, the ex is not an ordinary friend, but someone who has had a relationship with him, in this case, if you invite the other party to the wedding, will you feel very embarrassed? In addition, you should also consider your partner's thoughts, whether it is very disrespectful to your partner to invite your ex to the wedding during the wedding, so there is no need to invite your ex to the wedding when you get married.

Everyone is well. Maybe some netizens think that their ex can get along well after breaking up, but such friends are actually unnecessary. Maybe two people are good to get together and disperse, so after a good gathering and good dispersion, they should be okay with each other, and there is no need to appear in each other's lives again.

There was once a strange guest who said that a qualified ex should be like dead, and there is no need to appear under normal circumstances.

I care about my ex very much.

Many partners care a lot about each other's exes because each other's exes have left a very deep impression on each other. In such a situation, of course, your partner does not want to see the other party's ex in the scene of marriage. The ex is indeed the most ordinary person, and after the breakup, there is no relationship between the two parties, there is no intersection, and in this case, there is no need to invite the other party to the wedding.

There should be no intersection.

It can be seen through some ** TV series, but anyone who goes to the wedding of their ex will basically make a little trouble, and it also means that they have not completely let go, so why provide such worries to their partners? Now that you have chosen to marry your partner and your ex is already your ex, there is no need for any intersection between the three of you, and even attending a wedding should not happen.

In this case, there is no need to contact the ex. First of all, the first one should disconnect from his ex, in this case, it seems crisp. In addition, it is very good for the stability of the family now.

Also, if you invite someone to come over now, if you're very open-minded, that's fine. If something happens, it will be even more than worth the loss.

Of course, you shouldn't invite your ex, because you and your lover have broken up, you have nothing to do with each other, and if you invite your ex at this time, your other half will definitely not be happy, and you will feel uncomfortable, so I don't recommend inviting your ex.

Now when many people get married, they will invite their exes and let them witness their happiness, but I think this approach is very inappropriate, although everyone says they don't mind, but there will be some discomfort in their hearts, so it's best not to invite your ex, let it pass the past, there is no need to touch, and there is no need to have too much involvement with each other, so that you can live a happier life, and you are now married and have your own lover, What you should do is to make your lover happier, and not have too much to do with someone you have an old love for.

I'm a very indifferent person, for this kind of thing, I will never invite my ex, because I think the ex is the ex after all, he is not our trust, what we should do is to make our current one happier, happier, and also give him a memorable classification, so I will never invite my ex to my wedding.

Wedding is the most important thing in our lives, we must take it seriously, so that it can become the most beautiful memories of each other, if you invite the ex, your current will feel particularly unhappy, and he will also have a knot in his heart, which is not conducive to the relationship between the two of you at all, as a result, he will not say anything at the time, but he will feel uncomfortable when he thinks about it in the future, therefore, more is better than less things, don't invite your ex, and don't think about your ex, you are married, It's time to look forward, not always look back.

Every marriage needs to be managed and treated with heart, whether it is before or after marriage, you must show your greatest sincerity, so when you get married, don't do something that is not conducive to the relationship between the two, and don't invite your ex, just grasp your present and show your greatest sincerity to love each other.

Of course I won't invite, I think men and women after a breakup should never get along, everyone should treat each other as the strangers they are most familiar with, although the friend list may be reluctant to delete, but there is no need to deal with each other for the rest of their lives. 1. The wedding invitation ex is looking for unhappiness If your current person knows the person before you recognize it, then when he sees the most "threatening" person at the wedding scene, guess what he feels in his heart. Even if the current one doesn't know who the predecessor is, but the way you look at the ex must be different from others, your current one can feel that there is something wrong as long as you are a little sensitive, and you can quickly guess the identity of this person.

Guess what he should do in the future, is he pretending to be stupid, or is he pretending to be generous? It seems that these two are quite embarrassing, and the big day makes him so awkward, can you bear it? Let's take a step back, the current doesn't know about the existence of your ex at all, but when you are an ordinary guest to entertain you, isn't there an embarrassment between you and your ex?

When two people who once loved each other meet on such an occasion, should he bless you? 2. The ex may not be willing to accept your invitationThe ex is a very magical existence, and the two people who are obviously okay have been the closest lovers, and this kind of role change is actually very difficult. Isn't it cruel to let someone who once loved you look at you and everyone else as husband and wife?

But anyone who still has a trace of affection for his ex, he will not want to watch the person he once loved marry someone else or marry someone else, and they are not willing to go at all on this occasion. However, when you fell in love with each other and you invited him to your wedding, even if he didn't want to go, he could only endure his unwillingness to be there, although he couldn't give you sincere blessings, but he could only watch you marry others like this. If you don't invite your ex, then he won't have to face this kind of torment, isn't it good to let each other live, why make the relationship so awkward.

Wouldn't it be nice to leave a little memory for each other, so that he can really forget the fact that he once loved each other. I think it's best not to invite your ex when you get married, it's useless not to say anything, and it makes each other embarrassed and uncomfortable.

Netizen 1: Yes! I even invited relatives and friends who I don't know very well, but it's someone who has been close to him, and there will definitely be no less red envelopes for him....

Netizen 2: I will invite, at the beginning he broke up with me because he was poor and unworthy, and now that I am married, I will invite him and let him contribute money.

Netizen 3: I got married and invited my ex, and his family disliked me for being too short and asked him to break up with me. Now I've found someone with higher conditions than him and better than him, and I'm mad at him!

I cited the thoughts of some netizens, from which you can see why they invite their exes? Mostly for these two reasons:

1: For an extra share of money.

2: To slap your ex in the face.

Netizen 4: I won't, I don't lack that share of money, and I don't lack that blessing. Inviting your ex to a wedding is simply uncomfortable with each other!

Netizen 5: No, did you invite your ex to participate because you wanted him to smash the field?

Netizen 6: If the ex comes to attend the wedding, the current one must be uncomfortable. And so many relatives and friends, why embarrass each other, I won't invite.

1: It's good to get together and disperse, and I don't want to have anything to do with my ex.

2: It is also a sign of respect and scruples for the current and their families.

3: Avoid embarrassing and unnecessary situations.

In a romantic comedy "Love Apartment" that I like very much, there is a plot where Zhang Wei's ex-girlfriend Xiaoli sends Zhang Wei a wedding card and invites him to her wedding.

Xiaoli was going to marry Zhang Wei at the beginning, but on the wedding day, she ran away with her childhood sweetheart Qiangzi, leaving Zhang Wei alone at the wedding scene. And when Xiaoli and Qiangzi decided to get married, she invited Zhang Wei out of guilt, hoping that he could attend her wedding.

Zhang Wei was devastated after receiving the invitation, he pretended not to care on the surface, but in fact, he was very reluctant to go, he didn't care about the money, and he didn't want to face the person who was going to be his wife in person, but now he is married, but the groom is not him. Later, in order not to think of anything, Zhang Wei even deliberately ate crayfish and went to the hospital with severe allergies.

Although it is only a comedy plot, in real life, many people do resist the wedding invitation of their ex. No matter what you want to invite your ex to your wedding, it's just a dilemma.

All in all, my idea is: since we are separated, we should keep each other at a distance and with decency. Marriage is not a one-person affair, you have to consider the emotions and feelings of the current one.

Besides, for your ex, if you are a scumbag, why should you bother with the contacts. If you break up peacefully, then keep the beauty of the past, be the strangers you are most familiar with each other, say goodbye and be happy!

Will invite will not invite, more inclined not to invite, the specific situation is treated, if there is no love, there is friendship, you can invite. If there is neither love nor friendship, but hurts each other, then you should never invite him to your wedding, in fact, if you invite him, he will not come, if he comes, it will be embarrassing, and both of them will not feel good, so why invite him? In general, the relationship between the ex and the person is not very good, so in most cases, the ex is not invited to his wedding.

If my ex had invited me to the wedding, I personally wouldn't have go. After all, the two have parted ways, and there should be no involvement after that. The breakup should be more straightforward, there is no need to have contact after the breakup, and there is no need to go to the ex's wedding banquet after the breakup.

1. The relationship is gone, and there is no point in attending the wedding banquet.

The ex is a thing of the past for us, and since the two people chose to separate, it means that the relationship is no longer there. After the breakup, we are already strangers to each other, and no matter if either of them gets married first, there is no need to invite the other party to the ceremony. For those who are married, inviting an ex can be a show off; For those who are not married, it is easy to be sentimental when they receive an invitation to the wedding reception from their ex.

It's better to let the two people who have been separated stop having any involvement, such a situation is the best for each other.

2. Attending a wedding does not bring us any joy.

Even if we can accept the fact that we have broken up, the imprint of love is still engraved in our hearts. Watching the person we once loved walk into the marriage hall holding hands with someone else is a torture for us and can make us sentimental. And the wedding should be held in a festive atmosphere, so what is the point of having an ex come to the scene and burst into tears?

For those who are invited to the ceremony, this not only does not produce any joy, but rather endless sadness.

3. If you want to get married, don't invite your ex to watch the ceremony.

If you still have feelings for your ex, don't invite your ex to watch your wedding, as this will directly poke at the sore spot and make it difficult for the other person to show off at the wedding reception. If you and your ex are falling out after a breakup, there's no need to invite them to your wedding. I believe that people with a certain degree of sanity can treat the issue of marriage correctly, and they will not want to let their ex come to the wedding scene to make all kinds of unpredictable actions.