What do you think of the Dink family, as the title thanks

There is no need to repeat the explanation of what Dink means. Let's talk about this behavior first, I personally think it's not very reliable, people can't worry about children getting involved, being out of shape, and raising children is troublesome. There are always some ups and downs in a person's life, and your life can be considered perfect.

It's even a little selfish.

It cannot be said that this behavior is wrong, at least not admirable, as in the case of homosexuality. Obscurity.

If someone really plans to do Dink, it is estimated that there are no longer a few people who regret it. After all, this is two people, as long as one person changes his original intention, then the other party will lose more than just the child. Some people say:

It is possible to change another person. But with only a few decades in life, how much time do you have to spend on it and do nothing else?

I don't understand that there are many people who seem to be afraid of raising children, but I think that 0 years old to the age is the happiest time in my life. I have witnessed the growth of my children, working all day. When I got home and saw the children laughing, I suddenly felt tired, and sometimes the children were childlike and would make everyone lean back and forth.

I understood what it means to pity the hearts of parents in the world.

I think the Dingke family is very good, at least I still think so, it's really not easy to raise children, I watched my brother raise children, and most people nowadays are not very responsible, whether it is for themselves or others, my brother's children are almost all brought by my mother, and I think that Dingke is actually still good, at least they understand that it is better not to have children than to be irresponsible parents.

What happened to the Dink family? What do you think of Dink?

There are some Dink families who don't have any burdens in their old age and have more time to enjoy life. There is a part of the Dink family around us, and they hope in their hearts that there is a world that belongs only to two people, and they will not be dragged down by children's affairs. Because when they are young, they put all their energy into their work, so they have a part of their savings, which can make their old age more colorful.

In their later years, they will travel with their other half, enjoy the great rivers and mountains, or play cards and exercise with friends, and live a good life, and those old people who watch children for their children are particularly envious of this kind of life.

There are also some Dink families who regret their original choice, especially envious of families with children, who feel very lonely in their old age when they have no children to serve at the bedside. To choose a Dink family, you must have a strong psychological quality as support, and firmly believe in your choice in order to make your old age happier. But when many couples get old, their health becomes worse and worse, and they can no longer go outside to see the world, and they will regret the choice they made when they were younger.

Looking at other old people's children and grandchildren, they are very happy, but they have no relatives to take care of them in front of their bed, and the loneliness will also linger in their hearts, and they will persuade young people not to go the way they have walked.

In my personal opinion, there is some selfishness in choosing Dink, which is not worth advocating. When I was young, I chose Dink to reduce my burden, thinking that I would save more money and be secure in my old age. However, they did not think about their parents, and the elderly were worried that their children would have no one to take care of them in the future, and they would be alone and would continue to live in such torment.

Therefore, I feel that the person who really chooses Dink is selfish, thinking only about his own life, completely ignoring the inner thoughts of the old man.

The Dink family was very happy in the end, because their economic conditions were very good, so they could enjoy the mountains and rivers when they were old. I think the Dink family is the choice of the husband and wife, and ordinary people should also respect their choice.

The Dink family may have some problems in the end, but in the process, both parties are more trusting and happy. The Dink family is a very good form, and I especially identify with it.

In the end, they were all happy, and I think Dink is a particularly good trend. After all, with children, nothing is very convenient, and it is very stressful.

Don't want children to affect the relationship between two people, but the degree of influence varies from person to person.

The impact of not having children on the relationship between two people is a complex issue, which involves many factors such as personal values, life planning, and family background. Therefore, the degree of its impact on the relationship between the two people also varies from person to person.

Decisions on personal values.

Whether or not a person wants children is often tied to their personal values. Some people believe that having children is the meaning of life, a necessary experience in life; Others, on the other hand, are more focused on their careers, hobbies, and freedoms and don't see having children as necessary. If the values of the two people do not coincide, then not having children may become a problem for the relationship between the two people.

Life planning is different.

Having children brings many changes to the lives of two people, such as time and financial investment. If one partner wishes to have a child and the other party is worried that having a child will affect their career or other life plans, conflicts and grievances may arise. In this case, it is necessary for two people to negotiate together, weigh the pros and cons, and make a final decision, rather than ignoring each other's needs.

Family background and social pressures.

Some people may slip back and not want children because of family background or social pressures, which can have a negative impact on the relationship between two people. If a person's family expects him or her to have a child, but the other parent does not, there is a risk of conflict and resentment.

Conclusion. To sum up, not having children will affect the relationship between two people, but the degree of influence varies from person to person. If two people have the same ideas in terms of values, life planning, and family background, then not having children will not have much impact on the relationship between the two.

But if both parties have different ideas about whether to have a child or not, then communication and compromise are needed to find a mutually acceptable solution to avoid unnecessary conflicts and friction.

From a traditional point of view, unfilial piety has three nos. It is a pity that the family is cut off without descendants.

From a social point of view, the expansion of the Dink family will lead to a decline in population and a shortage of labor in a few years, which will lead to a lack of momentum for the country's development.

From an individual point of view, this is a complete personal freedom.

They did not violate any regulations by choosing this way. I feel that they will socialize if they fall in love, and if they don't fall in love, they will be regarded as passers-by. The world is colorful, don't be uncommon and weird......

Pursue freedom and don't want to be burdened.

I feel pretty good, I have my own thoughts.

The view of "Dink": the family has the functions of production, childbirth, education, religion, entertainment, etc., and childbirth is no longer the most important function of the family, which is indeed a kind of progress, people with different backgrounds and different experiences can choose their own family structure according to their own understanding, values and ideals, which also needs to be understood and accepted by the whole society. However, it is indeed the responsibility of the family to give birth to offspring and maintain the reproduction of human beings, and giving birth to children can make both husband and wife psychologically healthier, and in the process of giving birth to life, they can experience a deeper philosophy of life, and understand the kindness of their parents from the hard work of raising children.

So, don't blindly, or even impulsively, choose not to have children and be a "Dink" family.

Introduction to the Dink Family:

A Dink family is a family that does not have children, only husband and wife. The members of the Dink family are generally working-class, with stable incomes and high levels of consumption, and they are the middle class of society, which seems to be quite similar to those young people in the United States in the 60s of the 20th century. Many of them think that raising children is a very troublesome thing that will hinder their life as a couple.

Seven reasons to choose Dink Family:

1. The husband and wife put their careers first and are unwilling to let their children affect their work.

2. To be the representatives of the "new new human beings", they have a new outlook on marriage and love, family, and childbirth. So refuse the involvement of a "third party" (child).

3. Don't let yourself and your children be too tired, thinking that you are bound to work hard for your children's growth, so it's better not to have children.

4. If you don't have confidence in family life, you don't want children when you don't have a full grasp of life.

5. Restricted by economic conditions, I think that my current job is not stable enough, and I hope to create better economic conditions so that my child can have a good life after birth.

6. Relax the conditions for family happiness, thinking that you can live a fulfilling life without children.

7. Believing in the progress of social security function, these families believe that "preventing old age" does not necessarily have to "raise children", and the family's security function is gradually borne by the society.

Choose to be.

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Some people are because they don't want their children to affect their careers and lives.

Some people find it difficult to take on the responsibilities and obligations that come with having children.

There are also people who are born with a dislike of children.

Therefore, regardless of what is thought of the Dink family, their choice needs to be respected.

I have a different opinion on this, if both husband and wife or one of the spouses have certain diseases, resulting in the inability to have children, this can be answered.

Understand. After all, they have a deep relationship, and they would rather protect her than give up. If you want to have a career or a quality of life, you don't want to have children, unless you have a good foundation.

Otherwise, your later life will be greatly affected. As the old saying goes, raise children to prevent old age. When you can't do anything yourself, who will take care of you, no matter how rich you are, you can't take care of your own children.

1.The most important thing in China is the DU people, and most of them are purposeful. Obstetrics and gynecology experts all advise you to give birth. Expert.

Halo 2Being born is instinct, not being born is the result of thinking.

3.The reason why most Russian women don't give birth is because they are worried about the future, and Chinese and African women are clamoring to give birth, are they full of hope and confidence in the future, or they don't think about the future at all?!

4.Don't say that Dink thinks too much, right and wrong Ding thinks too little.

5.Having a child is extremely harmful to women, and the remark that having a child is good for health is to deceive rural women6Give birth to a 10-year immune, then give birth to 10.

7.You are a man, if you are allowed to give birth, let you raise, let you worry, will you give birth?

8.Succession? Whose sect is it preaching? Whose generation is it to pick up? At least not your girlfriend's Zonghedai 9Others give birth to you, do you think?

10.To have one more now is to have one more cheap labor.

1. [Dink Family]: "Dink" is the transliteration of English dink (double income nokids), which means double income but no children. The Dink family advocates a break from the traditional notion of inheritance in married life, and prefers to live a quality and free "world of two" life.

2. [Domestic Development History]: The "Dink" family only gradually increased in China after the 80s, mainly concentrated in big cities. Their socio-economic status, education level and family social status are much higher than those of the general population.

In 1989, Li Yinhe, a female researcher at the Institute of Sociology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, began to pay attention to "Dink". Li Yinhe believes that it is an inevitability of social development. In the industrialized countries of the West, there are a large number of people who voluntarily do not have children, and there is a growing trend.

From the perspective of family structure, there are regional differences in the changes in China's family structure, and the direct family still occupies a very important position in China's rural areas, and the Dink family is mainly concentrated in the eastern coastal areas, large and medium-sized cities, and the proportion is relatively small in some areas such as the central and western regions.

3. [Views]: 1. Support: Considering the pressure of raising children in today's society, and the arrival of children will completely change the pattern of the world of husband and wife, if there are no children, you can have more energy to enjoy life, not to mention that today's social welfare system is becoming more and more sound, and providing for the elderly does not have to rely on children.

2. Objection: It is a matter of course to have children, children are the best gift from God, and it is a very beautiful thing to enjoy the joy of family, and a family without children is incomplete.

Resources.

In the eyes of the Dink couple, love is the most important thing!

A marriage without love is a grave, two people live together, just to be happy, happy, and comfortable to get along, and the Dink couple does not have a third-party child involved, so they don't have to worry about the child's affairs, let alone work hard for the child, and fall ill. Some highly educated Dink couples believe that children are just the continuation and hope of two people's lives, and some couples want children just to rely on their old age.

Think about it carefully, most of those couples with children, after getting married, spend their energy on managing marriage and love on raising children, revolving around their children every day, and they can't even squeeze out the time for traveling and shopping together, from morning to night. And the Dink couple is different, the Dink couple has enough time and energy to manage marriage and love, so that the world of the two of them is more exciting.

Dink and his wife have a hurdle, that is, when Ding is middle-aged, one party is unwilling to continue Dink anymore and begins to regret it, which is the most troublesome thing for many Dink couples. When they got married, both of them said that they didn't want children, and this agreement persisted until middle age, and one party may be very successful in their careers, have a car and a house, and their mentality has changed, so they proposed to have a child.

This situation shows that the husband and wife can no longer reach the same idea of Dink, the party who does not want children may continue to insist on not having children, and the party who wants children, if they cannot convince the other party, will divorce or betray, and have illegitimate children outside. Therefore, there will still be certain hidden dangers in the Dink family.

Dink couples are a way of life, and when choosing, you must be cautious. Couples who take the road of "Dink" must be confident enough and not feel inferior because they are Dink families. It's just that in real life, there are some Dink couples who are not real Dink and don't think about the long term.

Although I had this idea at the time, it also changed later, just like the question I mentioned earlier, when Ding reached middle age, one party didn't want to continue Ding, and the situation was a little embarrassing at that time.