As soon as I heard my parents speak, I was very annoyed, and I felt that they were just going to tak

As soon as I heard my parents speak, I felt annoyed, he felt that they were to be managed, no matter what, I knew that my mother was holding a kind of old man's discipline of her children, and I thought they were right to discipline you, so that you could get ahead.

Even if your parents are a little nagging, or complaining, and sometimes scolding you, they still care about you, so just listen patiently!

Every parent loves their children very much, but their own education style is different, they may not realize that their education style is wrong, you can talk to them when they are still in a good mood, let them realize that they are not right.

It's completely a matter of mentality, it is estimated that you are now in adolescence or rebellious period, don't worry too much, it will be fine when you grow up, but, control your emotions a little, don't hurt your parents' hearts too much, it is not easy for them to raise you so big Anyway, your parents are really good to you. To cherish the youth rebellious period has arrived, it's okay. Some people come early and some come late, or maybe the pressure is too much, and others don't understand

It may be that your parents are strict with you. When you don't do what they want, they will scold you. It may be a little more self-conscious, not taking into account your feelings, and being more anxious.

You can work hard to change yourself, and since you can't change your parents, you can change yourself.

It may be that there is a lack of communication between your feelings, and there is a serious misunderstanding between you.

I think maybe you have a problem with the communication between you and your parents, or the way you get along, and you should learn to communicate.

Because the closer the parents are, the more disgusted they will feel in their subjective feelings, after all, they really don't look up and look down with their parents, and they will feel like this at the age of the rebellious period; But when you become an adult or go out to work, you will feel that your parents are really the best people in the world.

In the animal kingdom, two individuals who bring a life into this world are called parents in a male and female species. They are the parents of this new life, and they will always have the identity of this parent.

For humans, parenthood encompasses much more. The two people who bring a person into this world are his or her biological parents, and the person who raises this person may be someone else, who is called his or her adoptive parents. Of course, adoptive parents are not limited to two people, and there is no gender limit.

The barrier to communication between people is sometimes not what he says, but the tone of his speech.

At first, you may be annoyed that your father criticizes you, but then your father's tone and voice form a conditioned reflex, and when you hear your father's voice, you feel annoyed!

Father's love aside, honestly everyone will be annoyed, and who likes to listen to others criticize you all day long?

Some people have already achieved fame and got everything they deserve, but they like one thing: they want to hear praise from others!

It can be seen that most people like to hear what they like to hear and what they don't like to hear.

American writer Ann. Landers once wrote an essay called "Me and My Dad."

12 years old: Oh, well, naturally my dad didn't know anything about it, he was too old to remember his childhood.

14 years old: Don't pay too much attention to my dad, he's an old antique!

21 years old: He? Oh my God, he's incorrigible.

50 years old: If Dad could still be here for me to discuss things with him, I would pay any price, I can't appreciate his cleverness, it's really bad, I could have learned more from him.

When you reach a certain age, you can think back to the days when you get along with your father, and those unpleasantness are precious treasures.

Maybe only the closest people look at you with a critical eye, if we can sincerely accept the criticism of adults, and correct, maybe we grow and progress faster, less detours!

But our young hearts, our self-esteem, make it difficult for us to accept that inappropriate way of education!

You have to adjust your mentality, you should be more irritable, you have to learn to be calm, your father criticizes you and says that you are actually good for you, if you are not his son, how can he say about you? He won't talk about others, no matter how bad others are, no matter how bad they are, no matter how bad they are, no matter how wrong they are, he won't say anything wrong, he will say you for your good, you have to remember this, so that you can understand him, especially when you also chop your parents, when you have children, you will be more considerate of your parents, so you need to treat your father with a normal heart, a grateful heart, so that you will not be very annoyed.

It shows that there is still something wrong with your mentality. Learn to adjust in time. Your dad often criticizes you and says you're annoying you, so.

You can't even talk to his god now. When this happens, you need to strengthen your autosuggestion. It is not easy to tell yourself that your father not only gave birth to you, but also educated you.

Only when you fully understand your father's hard work will you understand his painstaking efforts, and you will not find him annoyed by talking loudly.

You should have known your father for so many years, and it is his character to speak loudly, so you should have known if he was angry or selfish.

Of course, I'm just saying that it should be, but your father's education and harsh words have made you always afraid to see him, and this fear has been hovering in your heart, so even if you are mature, your father will no longer educate you easily, but you still listen to the wind and rain are afraid and troubled.

In fact, you can talk to your father more, only you can talk calmly a few times, you can get to know your father again, in fact, your father loves you, as long as you can feel it, you can untie this knot, or let go.

Your dad criticizes you may have something that doesn't like you, if you are right, of course you are very wronged, and now you may be upset when you listen to him, maybe your dad is like this, he is more willing to be a good teacher or more mean, you don't need to stiffen the relationship with him, you can ignore what he says and pay less attention to him. But don't confront him head-on and make the relationship stiff.

I think first of all, you should adjust your mindset and then communicate well with your father. After all, that's your dad, the person you respect the most, and the person you love the most. Only by communicating more and understanding more, you won't feel annoyed by your father.

Due to the poor education method of your father, it has caused a shadow in your heart, don't be afraid and refuse, slowly accept him, due to cultural level or personality reasons, speak without consideration, but you have to understand him, his motive is to become an excellent person for you, the old man, a little temper you must understand, even if you can't change the old man, change yourself to accept him, comfort yourself, overcome yourself, once you become a father, you will understand that your father is looking forward to the success of his son.

Explain that you and your father lack communication, so this is the way to get along, it is recommended to communicate well, talk to your father more about your inner thoughts, and both of you have a deeper understanding of each other. In this way, father and son can get along better.

You can try to communicate with your father, the older you get, the more authority you will have, and your parents will rely more on and fear you, so you can be brave enough to say what you think, let your father know your feelings, and he will not talk about you like when you were a child.

There are many manifestations of fatherly love, you can try to try to communicate with him, some introverted fathers and children can't talk to him if they want to, so cherish it!

It's probably because you've developed the habit of being afraid of people talking loudly, so you feel this way, as long as you avoid your dad when he speaks loudly, and it's okay after a long time.

You may already have mental obstacles, and if you have any problems, communicate with your father, I think he loves you. It can be converted.

You and your father need to communicate more and don't get bored. Understand each other.

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If you can endure your father's criticism, what kind of suffering and tiredness can you not endure in society?

That's because your dad didn't leave a good impression on you, so you get annoyed when you listen to her, and you must adjust your mentality, this kind of psychology is not right.

Parents' criticism is just to want their children to behave well with others later in life.

The criticism of parents is love.

If you don't love to be lazy, you don't care.

Then talk openly and honestly to your dad.

Think about how good Daddy is to you.

First of all, I understand your feelings, I am also a former parent.

When you're together, you're going to get angry, quarrel and something like that, and I've said a lot of sad things to my parents If you're independent enough, you can try to move out and live, and when you grow up, you can try to live your own life, if you can't move out, then you can only start with yourself, and if you can't change others, try to start with yourself, maybe your mother is that kind of temper, you think she's right, you just listen, if it's not right, listen to it in your left ear and in your right ear, you think about losing your temper and arguing with her can't solve anything, But it will only make you both angry, and you will just feel each other's anger during the whole process, and the problem itself has not been solved If you can control your emotions calmly enough, it is a good start, you can communicate with your mother, at least try, how to know which method works if you don't try, or you can choose, how much mom likes to nag and nag, listen to it and it's over, practice mind cultivation When you don't live with your parents, they will still think about you My parents are like that, and we will have unpleasant things together, Now it's far away, always thinking about me So, try to relax yourself, mindset is important

It's so annoying that you can kill it, right? When you make your own money, you should live separately from your parents. When the time comes, you can watch them if you want to, and don't watch them if you don't want to, which is not very cool.

Me too, it's been decades, but I have to live together, and the fire in my heart is ......You can't lose your temper in front of her yet, because you can't quarrel with her!

I used to be just like you, angry and wanted to vent. And then I got numb, and I cut my wrists, but I cut them shallowly, and tonight may be my time of death.

This may be due to your parents' speech and personal behavior not matching your personality and communication style, causing you to feel irritated and upset. Sometimes, parents will use an old-school way of parenting, which is different from the environment in which you grew up and the needs of modern society, causing you to feel disgusted by their words. In addition, tension, poor communication, mutual incomprehension and trust in the family may also be the cause of this.

To alleviate this, try to communicate more effectively with your parents, including expressing your feelings and needs, trying to listen to their perspectives and understanding each other. In addition, you can seek the help of a counselor or psychologist to resolve the problem with your parents.

You are annoyed by the people who have been with you, but if you think about them from a different angle, you can actually understand a lot.

Because people don't like to be told.

Summary. Hello! Glad to have a question for you.

My parents are so annoyed that they will only deny me, they will scold me every day, and when they try to communicate, they will beat me and scold me and say that I have nothing to do every day, and what should I do if I can't learn anymore. Dear, calm your brain, my parents are so annoying, they will only deny me, they will scold me every day, they will beat me and scold me when they try to communicate, and I will say that I have nothing to do every day, and what should I do if I can't learn to study.

Hello! Glad to have a question for you. My parents are so annoyed that they will only deny me, they will scold me every day, and when they try to communicate, they will beat me and scold me and say that I have nothing to do every day, and what should I do if I can't learn anymore. Dear, calm your brain and don't talk to your parents anymore.

If you say too much, you will lose, and they will not understand you.

The teacher asked you to listen to the Buddhist system**. For example, the heart and soul are together.

They always confiscate my mobile phone, I really hope they don't confiscate my mobile phone, because they are afraid that it will affect my study, but now I don't have anything interesting to make me happy and relaxed except for my mobile phone, and I know very well that my mobile phone has not completely affected my study, and there is no way to communicate with them.

The question above.

Dear, you chatted with the teacher, show it to your mother.

Mom is always better than dad in the ditch.

Needless to say, my mother will scold me too.

Mom is always better communicative than Dad.

Sigh, little friend, the teacher understands you.

Your mood can be felt by the teacher.

That's it. Change yourself.

They sometimes have domestic violence, what should I do, I also have a younger sister.

Don't expect your parents to understand you anymore. Make up your mind for yourself.

Grow and mature yourself as soon as possible. Be yourself. Be a good example for your sister.

What should I do if I have no motivation to study, I can't help but think of them when I study, and I get angry, and I seriously suspect that I may have depression.

At home, try not to have confrontation (arguments) with your parents

Do your own laundry and cook your own meals.

Parents see that you are different from before, and think to themselves, the child has grown up and become sensible.

Now, there is no good way but to be self-reliant and self-reliant.

You think about things from a different perspective.

It's just that my parents, unlike other people's parents, are mentally retarded.

I can only think about it in my head for the time being. I can't look up.

I can only think about it in my head for the time being. Can't count on it.

Finish assignments on a regular basis. Eat regularly and sleep regularly. Talk less to your parents.

They are parents who don't know how to educate you.

You can't choose your own parents.

You can only change yourself.

Otherwise, rely on your character to get angry and let yourself be depressed inside. Unhappy, unhappy.

Adjust yourself and add some sugar to your life.

Just being a parent is mentally retarded.

Don't rely on them.

Keep a journal. Listen to the Buddha system**. Read more beautiful articles.

Chat history with good friends, one and two confidants.

Okay, thank you for your hard work.

It's okay. Children. Be strong and unyielding. Don't admit defeat and don't admit defeat.