In a long distance relationship, the girl first proposes to break up, because of what

In fact, most long-distance relationships are not because the girl mentions the breakup first, but the boy uses the strength of action to drag the girl to say the breakup, the woman because of more and more insecurity and sensitivity after the outbreak of the breakup, after the breakup in the face of friends or the next question, the boy can say that he is dumped and looks infatuated and innocent, the woman to a certain extent consciously does not feel that a little dignity has been saved, which is also the tacit understanding in this long-distance relationship game between men and women. ‍‍

Because girls are sensitive and think too much, and the sadness of a little thing quarrel may be magnified by two hundred times, and a great happiness may be passed by the boy casually on the phone, but the girl thinks that you are not happy enough for her, and the happiness is reduced, so the girl thinks too much over and over again, and finally feels that you don't like her enough and doesn't care enough about her and say that you are separated ......‍

Most of the reasons for breaking up are not meeting the girl's needs (including emotional, material, spiritual, etc.), the woman wants to express his needs to you through some of her own behaviors, but you may not be treated correctly because you understand the mistake or discuss with her from your own position.

It's been two months since we broke up, she just graduated, signed a contract on campus, and it will take five years to leave Jiangxi, she has been working overtime for half a month, and she doesn't get home until 9:10 every day, or winter, I just want us to be not in a different place, I can pick her up and go to work, and after working overtime, she is like a different person, and I obviously feel that she is not so enthusiastic about me, I estimated that we might have to break up, and then two weeks later, she said that she doesn't like me anymore, she has things she wants to do, but long-distance relationships require daily emotional communication, and there is no time to go to work in the morning A night of chatting is a night, I can't do what I want to do, if it's a place, you can do something together every day, you don't have to deliberately chat or anything, and then say I hope you don't meet someone as ruthless as me again, in fact, I want to say that if you have something to do, you just tell me about it, and I'm not not going to let you do it, but I still haven't said it, after all, she doesn't like me, it's useless to say anything, VX didn't delete it, she said she didn't want to delete it, I went to her again the next day, but she didn't want to talk to me anymore I said that I was going to go for a run and never came back to me Think about what she told me at the beginning How could I not want to talk to you It feels so ridiculous Tell her that I am going to take the exam this year and I may go to graduate school after the exam I agreed with her that she will get back together in five years if she doesn't have a boyfriend or is not married It feels like a long time I decided to pass the exam first this year and ask her if she can get back together at the end of the year Although the hope is very slim

It shows that this girl is insecure, and she feels that the two of them are not far away, so she chose to break up.

I dislike the long-distance relationship more and more, I admit that there is a part of my heart that is fragile, I feel like I crave a hug more than others, and there is too much powerlessness and overwhelm in my heart. Many times I don't know what to do, and I always feel that escaping can also be a relief, so sometimes girls choose to break up, not necessarily because they don't love or they want to escape. I always feel that it is better to be alone than to drag someone down. ‍‍

She said that all she wants is a movie, a meal, not how rare she is this meal and this movie, but to be able to have a meal with me and watch a movie, take a walk, but I can't understand for a long time, I always think that I give a lot, a lot, let's take a snack, I am willing to turn back is to love you, and I don't want to look back is to love you.

may be because the relationship between the two people has weakened from a long distance, and there is no way to maintain it.

Because she was tired and tired, she wanted to find someone closer, and she didn't want to be alone anymore.

She was like that, and she had a boyfriend again a month after we broke up.

It's not that the girl wants to break up, it's because he doesn't want to be together anymore. I didn't want to see him feel so uncomfortable, so I took the initiative to break up, although I knew that we would never be able to do it again after I brought it up, but because he told me that he didn't want to insist on it, I felt that it was not necessary for me to persist like this. Just give yourself some self-esteem.

It's really helpless and heartbreaking.

For both men and women in a long-distance relationship, the woman is the most sensitive to the man, and this is precisely what the man does not have, and they often can't stand the man's ignorance of them and have doubts about the man's feelings.

Because there is no hope for the future.

It may be because they are insecure that they propose to break up like this.

It's been six years, and I don't know if the remaining four years will be able to persevere. If we can, then we'll get married in four years.

All departures are premeditated.

In a long-distance relationship, why can't the girls hold on to it first? What is the reason.

Because a group of ambiguous people, who don't respect themselves, fall in love with a scumbag, and blame themselves for being blind!

Sometimes it may be impulsive, or it may be just willful.

In fact, girls are so coaxing, just a nice word.

A hug, a face-to-face at the dinner table, a shoulder that can be leaned on, instead of using a mobile phone to tell about your loneliness.

In fact, the main reason is that women are particularly sensual, and when two people get along in a long distance, women can't feel a sense of security, so they propose to break up.

Because women can't stand loneliness at all, and when they don't have a man by their side, it's hard for them to bear it.

This is because she really can't stand this feeling of not being accompanied by an object, she is very lonely, and everyone is very sweet, but she seems to have no boyfriend, and it is normal to have this kind of thought.

Because in the real secular society, it is a matter of course for people to think about real life.

Because girls are very fragile in their hearts, she envy them very much in need of others' care and companionship in life, and they are very insecure when they are in a long-distance relationship.

Because the girl is insecure in the relationship, I hope you can accompany him all the time, and when you feel sad, you have no support and are not cared for.

1.Touch base.

Although the technology network is now more advanced, it can be seen through **, but it is still not touchable, and a small hug, kiss and companionship and other long-distance relationships can't be done, so you must keep in touch.

2.Freshness.

With the development of logistics, you can buy small gifts in a proper and romantic way.

Or prepare a surprise when you meet, which not only adds to the sense of ceremony but also looks forward to the next meeting.

3.Trust enough, don't think cranky.

If two people are not together, they can't report what the other party does, which requires enough trust in each other. Don't question what the other party says, and don't always be unreasonable.

4.Be honest with each other.

Long-distance relationships are always in a hurry when they meet, so they all show each other's best side, so after a long distance, you need to be honest with each other, do not hide or pretentious, and show the most authentic side to each other, daily life and living habits.

I have always been optimistic about long-distance relationships, there are too many things that have changed, two people are far apart, and few relationships can last.