Thinking that others don t understand what their own mindset is

Sometimes I also have problems like the landlord.

I have always believed that the heart can only be understood by oneself. It's not that others can't understand it, it's just that they don't understand it as much as themselves. The only person in this world who truly understands his heart is himself.

If you often don't get the understanding of others, and you don't want to ask what others need, you can try to improve in the ideal direction. Only doing what you think is right, doing what you think you have thought about for others, this may be a good intention, but the result is not necessarily oh. Communicate more with others, understand what others want, rather than what you think others need, and judge other people's ideas from your own starting point, which will often cause misunderstandings.

Therefore, the best way is to listen to your friends more and improve yourself, or you can achieve better results.

The heart is the storage of data. A table is an image of data processing. The data is clear. It's just that the bugs in the process are uncontrollable!

Sometimes people are so strange, they won't say anything when they are wronged, and when they hear a word of comfort, all the lines of defense can collapse in an instant.

People know themselves, but when they choose, they choose what they are willing to do, not what they want to do, but there is a deviation when they choose, and they attribute the wrong ending to not knowing themselves, which is an excuse for themselves

It's good to be happy, do what you want, don't force yourself too much to do what you don't want to do, follow your inner thoughts, even if you are wrong, you won't regret it, let it be, my life is up to me.

Sometimes the heart will be disturbed by external factors, and I don't understand my true thoughts and needs enough, what I need, and what is right; What you think and what you actually do not match is also a good interpretation.

It's not that I don't understand. Yes, I was defeated by reality. You follow your heart. But they are not able to integrate into society. So. You have to compromise, it's as simple as that.

That's right. A lot of times we don't know ourselves. You can find out what you want by keeping a diary, or you can calm down and realize what you really want to be.

Most of the time, people actually have a decision in their hearts, but they will do it because of a little uncertainty in their hearts.

Actually, sometimes, you think you want something, but when you have some problems, you think that I should forget it anyway, and I think that's what I am.

Don't be a person with a knife mouth and a tofu heart, express any ideas.

It's not that people don't know their own hearts! Just want to use your brain to deceive your heart.

It's very simple, for example, when you don't know what to choose about something, you choose to toss a coin.

It's not that the coin tossed will give you the answer, it's just that the moment you toss the coin, you already know the answer that your heart gives you! But you may still choose the answer of the coin, because you want to use your brain to trick your heart!

Of course, unless you're on an exam that won't do, then flip a coin, or roll the dice!

I think everyone may not know themselves the most, but also know themselves best, and some answers may have been formed in their hearts, but they are just unwilling to choose, or they have been lying to themselves.

Man is the most complex animal, with thoughts, emotions and desires, and sometimes he can't see his own heart clearly.

Psychology is broad and profound, and human psychology is very complex, and it is very difficult to fully understand people's hearts.

In the eyes of people, they are easy to be emotional, inexplicably better or inferior, but in fact, people are very simple, just do what they want to do.

This is normal.

To be honest, how many people in the world dare to really face their hearts? A lot of times, you have to succumb to circumstances and live realistically. It's like someone saying "live affectionately in this ruthless world", isn't it a kind of fornication with reality?

Yes, especially when people are in a bad mood and the people closest to you are unhappy, I really don't know what's wrong with you.

That's really good, in a lot of the time. But there are many kinds of this, and the one I know is that there are too many things and contradictions, and I don't know what to choose. That means not knowing what you really want.

Summary. Although I don't know what you've been through, when a person feels that he is not like himself at all, that he cannot be himself, it is often that he has a problem with his inner self-identity, and his ego is very low. And the ego is very low, it is very likely to come from the family of origin itself, does your existence matter?

Are you worth it? Do you feel important in your relationship with your parents? Maybe in your upbringing, you experienced too much negation, control, and doubt, so you didn't have a clear sense of boundaries and basic trust in yourself and others.

Hello dear, glad to answer for you! Why do you have this idea, can you elaborate on your problem? Kiss.

Although I don't know what you have experienced, when a person feels that he is not like himself at all, he cannot be himself, it is often that he has a problem with his inner self-identity, and his ego is very low. And the ego is very low, it is very likely to come from the original family itself, is it important to respect your existence? Are you worth it?

Do you feel important in your relationship with your parents? Perhaps in your upbringing, you experienced too much negation, control, and doubt, so you can't have a clear sense of boundaries and basic trust in yourself and others.

Hello! Yes, some people may feel that they are not their true selves, which is known as dissociation. Dissociation is a feeling of physical and mental separation that makes a person feel a break from their body, mind, or identity.

This sensation may be short-lived, or it may persist between lead shirts for longer periods of time. Dissociation can be caused by a variety of factors, including trauma, anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. If you are experiencing feelings of dissociation or other related distress, it is important that you seek professional mental health help.