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Find something to distract yourself, you can find a new boyfriend or work hard or you have a lot of good sisters around you in love, in short, find something to distract you, wait for a new relationship or fight for a new relationship.
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In other aspects, open your eyes, such as getting close to nature, making more friends, etc., to broaden your horizons, it is easier to stop caring about the gains and losses of today's feelings.
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Understand that every relationship will hurt, and firmly believe that everything will pass. Be brave and calm to face it, during this time, you will find that your relatives and friends are so lovely, and you are not alone in your world!
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Don't leave yourself alone with free time.
At other times, pay more attention to expanding your circle of friends.
Create more opportunities for yourself to contact MM.
Start another relationship as soon as possible. What is lost in the red dust, of course, must be recovered in the red dust.
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Zuih's best thing to do is to get out of the relationship. Find a new home.
You know? Emotional pain can only be relied on emotionally**.
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I will never run away from what I should face.
I don't miss what I should give up.
I will take advantage of what should be cherished.
Learning to be strong will be strong, and it is not easy. Tears tears.
You are still his life, they are the fault line of fate, after the closing, people will definitely cry, falling out of love is not a sin, people should not live alone, after all, you did not come to this world just for love.
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If you really want to give up, you must let yourself forget this person in your heart, just like my name, you can look at it.
You have to know that in addition to love, you also have family affection and friendship. Look farther, think about it, there are still many things waiting for you to do, you can also travel, maybe a new relationship will begin.
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No matter what your attitude towards this relationship, when you want to give up, there will always be pain, face it bravely, and it's good to pass!
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Personally, I think the most effective way to do this is to go to a place where it's impossible to meet him. Time will make you forget him.
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Isolate for a while and let time dilute it all ...
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Have you decided to give up on the relationship?
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Turn these feelings into your work. There is also the start of another new relationship.
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Let's look at this relationship with busyness first.
When you can think about it calmly.
Face it again. It can always pass.
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It's all about diverting attention.
In fact, it is to shift the focus of your life to work, family, close friends, and other necessary time for yourself.
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Let your mind be occupied by other busyness and content.
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Start another relationship anew.
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Except for the above, you must not see him.
Even if you think about it, you can't do it.
This is an experience that many people have confirmed.
Because when you see it, your feelings will increase again.
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Start another relationship.
It's effective.
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If you want to let go, you can let go, and if you can't let go, you don't want to let go completely, since you have decided, why torture yourself with other people's mistakes?
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Play the game
Travel Bar 1!!
Let's Pump Big 1!!
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Hehe, I'm here to learn from ......
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If you have money, travel.
If you don't have money, look for a new one.
Or meet some new people.
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I don't think it's possible to forget
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1. Acknowledging the existence of facts
When the relationship is over, then admit that it is good to admit the scum spring, there is nothing unacceptable and recognized.
2. Shift the focus of love
To do whatever you like, you will get used to it after a long time, love is not to like to try, but to try to gradually love and obsession.
3. Give time a little time
Since it takes time to love someone, it takes time not to love, and in contrast, not to love may take more time than to love, because not to love is more painful, and love is easy and joyful.
4. Rational analysis
When this person leaves, what you need to do is to analyze rationally, analyze whether you really love this person or love your own imagination.
5. Forced not to approach
The relationship between people is because the party who is in contact with each other often will be more intimate, and if Qingbian does not contact for a long time, then the relationship will naturally fade.
6. Devote yourself to your work
Get busy like a spinning top and spend your time and energy on work, so that you don't delay your youth, and you can become a more valuable person through hard work.
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1. Time forgetting method.
Destroy all the things related to the other party and prepare for a fierce uproar, and from then on, strangers will not imitate each other and have anything to do with it, and they will not give each other any hope, and completely let themselves know that they are dead. This trick seems to be decisive, but if one day he or she suddenly appears in life again, or even takes the initiative, can he not move and refuse a word? If you can, that's called letting go completely.
2. Find a new way to love.
People are different, just as leaves are different from leaves, if you really love someone, her gentleness and virtue, sunshine and straightforwardness, or bad deeds, there will always be a part of it that will remain in the heart and be unforgettable.
3. Love yourself more.
Don't think about other people, focus on being yourself, put yourself first, love yourself better, and improve yourself. Be the protagonist in your own life.
4. Busy work.
This is the most valuable method. Keep yourself busy like a spinning top and spend your time and energy on work, so that you don't delay your youth, but also make yourself a more valuable person through hard work.
5. Amplification pattern method.
Sometimes, being stuck in one thing and unable to extricate yourself is often because the pattern is not big enough. Will those with big ambitions linger over a broken love? The so-called pain is more of an unwillingness, such as he did not fulfill his promise, did not go to see the city where he lived, did not go to see the sea together, did not return as scheduled, did not have the courage to face life, did not keep and did not say goodbye, etc.
A person can feel whether he has feelings for you or not, so say goodbye to those who don't know how to cherish it.
6. Rationally face the law.
Recognize what kind of person the other person is, come out of the indulgence of sweetness, restore his true self and re-examine him. Perhaps, the other party was originally a negative person, or maybe he and she didn't know what they had done wrong, so why bother with narcissism and self-harm. If you feel pain, cry and cry until your heart is strong.
Then, when you look back at it, you'll smile.
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1. No more contact, no more interruption
Some people say that letting go of a person is not something that can be done by disconnecting, but to be honest, if you can't even "no longer connect", you will only be stuck in this memory and never get out. Don't expect him to appear as a brother, and don't expect to be related to him, and automatically withdraw from his world, maybe it will be better for you.
2. Improve yourself and focus on life
3. Accept the reality and face it bravely
A person can't let go of the past, the most important thing is not to face it, you are afraid to turn around, that familiar person is not by your side, you are afraid, everything that has been forgotten will be forgotten. Don't expect him to go back, don't think he'll be able to go back to the way he was, the moment you're done, it's all gone, sober up.
4. Keep yourself busy
Only by keeping yourself busy will you not have free time to think nonsense. Let your life be full, be busy every day, and become better, so that you have the opportunity to meet better people. When the time comes, you will completely let go of the old man.
5. Start a new life
You can try things that you haven't tried before, go out and see the outside world more, you must know that the world is very big, life is still very beautiful, learn to experience a new life, live the life you want to live, and become the kind of person you want to become.
I have the same confusion as you, I think since I know it's impossible, let it go, feelings can't be forced, why bother to make it difficult for the other party? If you really like him, as long as he is happy, you don't want the person you like to be unhappy, right?
In fact, as long as you clearly realize that the two of you are not suitable, you will naturally let go. In fact, you have a grudge against her in your heart now, not only that she rejects you, but she also says some false reasons, and on this point, your character is not suitable for her. So don't force it, there are so many people, there will always be something you like and suit you.
This belongs to the contrast between the personalities and beliefs of two people, although it is not easy for two people to fall in love, but I still advise you not to compromise, this kind of thing will not last a lifetime. Since you have an opinion about her, and she doesn't care, it proves that she doesn't love you as much as she used to, and maybe it's a sign that she's tired and cold about you. It's best to make a decision immediately about feelings, otherwise it's yourself who will be entangled and hurt. >>>More
When I met someone who was really good to me, I found out that what I encountered before was really garbage and put it down.
In fact, this can't blame you, first of all, he shouldn't hide from you to meet his ex-boyfriend, maybe he broke off the relationship with his ex-boyfriend, but he shouldn't hide it from you, he told you that maybe you have a better relationship, but he didn't do it, which means that he has a problem; Second, he sees that you are angry and does not ask the reason, which means that he is too self-conscious, only knows how to care about himself, and does not know how to care about others, so he is not worthy of you to love her for a lifetime, so you can see her as a floating cloud, let time fade to him, and find a new one, I think the person who can accompany you all your life must be waiting for you to find out in some corner.