The previous relationship was not let go, and another one should not happen

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, this can't blame you, first of all, he shouldn't hide from you to meet his ex-boyfriend, maybe he broke off the relationship with his ex-boyfriend, but he shouldn't hide it from you, he told you that maybe you have a better relationship, but he didn't do it, which means that he has a problem; Second, he sees that you are angry and does not ask the reason, which means that he is too self-conscious, only knows how to care about himself, and does not know how to care about others, so he is not worthy of you to love her for a lifetime, so you can see her as a floating cloud, let time fade to him, and find a new one, I think the person who can accompany you all your life must be waiting for you to find out in some corner.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, I feel like my last relationship was the same as you, he just ended his last relationship, and so did I, and then we were together, and I was really tired at first, and it was really hard to take care of him, he really didn't understand anything, didn't know how to care about me, didn't know how to love me. Then I decided to break up, and then he said that he was in love with me, and he begged for it, but I felt really tired. So I chose to leave.

    I think love is not ready for it, I really don't know how to cherish it, don't regret it when you lose it, when you are together, you have to feel it slowly, whether you are very happy, whether you like each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't agree with the view from upstairs.

    I think the reason why the landlord is so angry that she went to see her ex-boyfriend is because you yourself are not relieved in your own heart, so you project a strong antipathy onto her, and her mood is also entangled, if you can have a good chat with her at that time, maybe it will be a different result.

    How to say it, or the time is not coincidental and there are too many misunderstandings, I don't blame you, and I don't blame her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find the woman and have a good chat.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because the best way to let go of the previous relationship is to start a new relationship, there are many people who start the next relationship without letting go of the previous one. When starting a new relationship, we can put all our energy into the new relationship, and we can completely forget about the previous relationship.

    I think it's better to ask this question, because I have thought about it and finally got the answer. Because the way to forget a relationship is to start a new relationship, so many people will start a new relationship when they have not completely let go of the previous relationship, so that they can devote all their experiences to the new relationship, so that they can forget the previous relationship, and can also erase the wounds suffered in the previous relationship. But we must treat every relationship sincerely, not half-heartedly, if you have started a new relationship, then you must quickly forget the previous relationship, and you can no longer think about the things in the previous relationship indecisively.

    And when starting a new relationship, you must put all your energy into it, be good to your other half, and don't miss your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend anymore.

    If you are half-hearted, it is irresponsible for this relationship, and it will also make the other party feel that you don't care, and you can only make the other party sad. Therefore, when starting a new relationship, you must be sincere, and you must use all your energy to be better for each other, so that the other party can feel your love, make this relationship more long-lasting, and also make you forget the previous relationship and make you forget the injuries you have suffered.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because these people want to use this way to forget the last relationship, but I personally think that this method is actually useless, but will make you fall into infinite entanglement.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is because some people feel that if they want to let go of the previous relationship, they need to start a new relationship, so they will start the next relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you haven't let go of your heart, how can you tolerate someone else? In fact, feelings are very "selfish". When we have one person in our hearts, we will not accept anyone else.

    But for some people who are out of love, they just think so. In their opinion, as long as they have a new relationship, they can unconsciously forget their past feelings.

    In fact, the feelings that have passed away will always stay in our hearts. What we need to do is not to find a way to forget, but to learn to live well with it.

    Yes, how can the people who have loved and the people who have been together forget? Since you can't forget it, treat it as a memory and keep it in your heart.

    Concept of love. Don't let go of your previous relationship and don't start a new relationship. If you don't let go of your previous relationship, you start a new relationship. On the one hand, you are irresponsible to yourself, and on the other hand, you are irresponsible to others.

    The love affair that began in this situation is destined to end without a hitch. Because, such feelings should not have started in the first place. You still have one person in your heart, and you won't accept another person easily.

    You want to give yourself a sustenance in your heart in this way. You think that if you divert the pain in your heart in this way, you will forget about this relationship.

    In fact, doing so will only make you more miserable.

    It takes a certain amount of time to repair a wounded heart. And for ourselves, we are responsible for our feelings. No matter what the reason for breaking up, you must learn to love yourself well.

    Feelings are very valuable, don't choose a person to fall in love easily. Starting a new relationship requires a comprehensive assessment before making a decision.

    Yes, start a new relationship casually. From any point of view, it's inappropriate. And a person, if he has a mature view of love, he will naturally not do such a stupid thing.

    People who do this kind of thing are often because they don't have a mature view of love. Most of them are just confused.

    If you haven't gotten over the pain of falling out of love, don't start a new relationship. Because the romance in this case will not end well. And, when you really wake up, you'll regret your impulsiveness.

    But there is no "regret medicine" in this world. Therefore, even if you are in pain when you fall out of love, don't blindly make this wrong choice.

    After falling out of love, it is best to leave yourself alone and think seriously about the relationship you once had. Then keep yourself busy and don't think about feelings for a while. Divert your energy to work so you don't have as much time to be "sad".

    Yes, we are taking time to ** our wounds. But in the process, we still have to keep our sanity.

    Emotional things are like that, you have to learn to be responsible not only for yourself, but also for others.

    I've seen similar cases of people who want to get out of a broken love in this way, but end up in a new relationship crisis. Not only do you hurt yourself more, but you hurt someone else.

    In any case, this is inappropriate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Looking for another relationship after falling out of love is actually to find a kind of comfort in your soul, but if you are tempted again, you will only hurt yourself to the fullest at the end. Why don't you calm your feelings for a while, and the happiness you give yourself will be forever.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better not to, this is also unfair to the new lover, and at the same time, your state has not been adjusted yet, and rushing into a new relationship without seeing it clearly may end in sadness. Let's calm down for a while.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not necessarily. It is impossible to wait until the previous relationship disappears and then start a new relationship, generally starting the next relationship in the previous relationship, and slowly forgetting the old relationship in the new relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Feelings, how many people can afford to let go, no one said that the end of a relationship, can come out in style, after all, love so will not be able to let go, the following is the analysis of the reasons for this situation.

    1. What you can't let go of is a kind of giving, called "I'm too wronged".

    When it comes to a breakup, the person who suffers the most is often the one who gives the most. Only with love can there be giving, and if you don't love, the once giving, is a pain, or even a shame. I once thought that I could live for a lifetime, but the other party was going to get off halfway, and the desolation of being thrown halfway will make you Chuntong doubt the past, and the huge grievances will make you doubt the so-called love.

    People who give too much are always reluctant and are always disappointed. It's too aggrieved, so I can't let it go.

    2. What I can't let go of is a mood, called "I'm unwilling to pick up my acres".

    We have to admit that no one is willing to break up when a relationship comes to an end. Whether it is the one who is disappointed or the one who is disappointed, no matter how many reasons there are, it is inevitable that there will be some unwillingness in the heart. After all, when they were together, they all tried to change each other, even if they didn't get better, at least they made each other improve, even if it was a plaid shirt worn on the body, it could remind people of the scene when they were together.

    When a relationship ends, what we can't let go of is a mood. I was unwilling to let go, and I had to let go.

    3. What you can't let go of is a kind of memory, called "once too beautiful".

    There is a kind of breakup called helplessness. Obviously in love, but because of various lives have to be separated, the beauty of the past has become a shackle of memories, the more I think about it, the more heartache I feel. When love becomes the past and is stationed in the bottom of the heart, the too beautiful past has become a memory that you can't let go, even if it is the tears that you have shed together, it will make you think that it is the most beautiful tears in this life.

    Once too beautiful, unforgettable for a lifetime, how can you say that you can let it go? The so-called "can't let go of a relationship" is actually a ...... that I can't bear to let go of the heart that I have loved and hurt

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think the best thing to do is to start a new relationship, so that you can slowly erase the bad memories of the past.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think the best way is to travel often, take a spin outside, and slowly let go of this relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    We can choose to do something we like, keep ourselves busy, make ourselves more disciplined, be better, and be able to forget about each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are still many such things in our lives. There are many people who are like this, and there is a good saying that "the way to let go of one relationship is to start another relationship". Regardless of whether this sentence is right or wrong, since there is such a sentence, there must be a basis.

    It's another way to forget it.

    We will also find that as long as we have nothing to do in our daily life, we will dig into the horns of the bull and think about something that did not happen, and sometimes we will be very sad to do something that we can't think of. Only when we are busy can we not let ourselves be cranky and be a calm self.

    Some people actually don't let go of the previous relationship, and when they can accept another person, they have already proved that they have come out of the previous relationship. It is also in this way that I can say goodbye to my previous self completely. Otherwise, in retrospect, it is still a slow memory of the two of them.

    Whether it's good or bad, there will always be a figure in my mind that I can't forget. When starting a new relationship, the figure in my mind slowly changed, and I no longer thought about the person I used to be.

    We must consider very carefully in life, whether we let go or not, and don't ruin the happiness of another person because of our own impulsiveness. Although each of us has the right to pursue happiness, we must not base our own happiness on the suffering of others. This kind of behavior is very immoral, and you have to work hard to let go of the past and start a new life.

    Only in this way can you be a better version of yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's another way to forget it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Who knows, I'm not like that.

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