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Is there such a thing as "divorce of wives"?
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Later, there were two sentences, only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful.
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Confucius's wife was Qi Guan. At that time, Confucius and his wife not only gave birth to a son, but later gave birth to a daughter, it can be said that they had both children and daughters, and they should have had a very happy life, but later Confucius divorced his wife.
In fact, it can be said that he married his wife at that time so that he could pass on the lineage. In ancient times, it was very important for a person to pass on the lineage. There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, and at that time his mother asked him to marry this woman, and then he agreed to marry this woman.
But after a while he had a son and a daughter, and he had become a teacher, and he felt that he had nothing in common with his wife, and that there was no affection between the two of them, so he felt that he needed to divorce his wife.
He divorced his wife at the time, probably because he couldn't stand his wife's nagging of him. In fact, what men are most afraid of is their wives nagging about themselves, and they will find this very annoying. Although Confucius was a sage, he was also a man, and he also hated his wife's nagging very much.
He felt that he couldn't stand this kind of nagging, and he felt that he didn't want to suffer such nagging anymore, so he felt that he should give his wife a divorce. Moreover, there was no affection between this wife and him, but his mother asked him to marry her at that time, and then he agreed, so he did not take any care when he divorced his wife.
In short, Confucius divorced his wife at that time because he and his wife did not have any emotional basis, and later he felt that he and his wife had no common words.
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Confucius's wife was a member of the Song family, and he later divorced her because he didn't want to affect his wife and children.
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Confucius's wife was Qi Guan. Qi Guanshi gave birth to a son and a daughter for Confucius, because his nagging was not synchronized with Confucius's thoughts after becoming famous at that time, Confucius did not like people who were too verbose, and then divorced his wife with "too many words". Although she gave birth to two children to Confucius, it was common for her to be divorced at that time, Confucius himself had a lot of ideas, thought personality, was deeply loved by students, and his social status was getting higher and higher.
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