I like to be alone, but I m a very optimistic person

Because you've matured, grown up, and learned to think about things.

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If you like to be alone in any situation, it means that you don't like crowded places, in other words, you don't like to socialize with others.

I like to be alone in any situation.

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If you like to be alone in any situation, it means that you don't like crowded places, in other words, you don't like to socialize with others.

I can't say that this situation is wrong, because there is no one state that is suitable for everyone, and there is no one state that has to be there to be right.

It is possible that you have given a signal to your friends in the past when you were socializing with friends, but you did not receive a positive response from your friends in time, that is, you did not get a good feedback, so you feel tired of socializing and communicating with friends.

It's the kind of tired heart.

You like to be alone, this is determined by your personality, introverted and early, Ant Lu does not like to socialize, likes to be alone, likes to be quiet, so he is very willing to stay alone quietly.

You can go to your good friends to talk about your unhappiness and talk to others, so that you will feel better.

Actually, I'm just like you. Because friends and family don't understand, every time I talk to them, I will be poured cold water. As a result, I didn't want to talk to them anymore.

When you have a lot of worries and worries, the first thing you do is to bury your thoughts, trying to use other things to cover up the reality. I also jokingly told myself that I had prepared a large chest for myself, and that I would throw all the unpleasant things into the box, and lock it firmly with a lock. However, the size of the box is limited, and the more things you pile up, the more wrong you feel about yourself.

Because the heart is not solved, every time you have the opportunity, the heart will rush to your mind again, and as a result, you can't resist it, and the scar of the originally broken heart is deeper.

Since we don't want others to know that we have something on our minds, we all pretend to be cheerful people who face life positively. I think you should have the following characteristics: although you don't want to know your mind on the surface, deep down you still want someone special to understand you and expose your mask.

You think so because you're sure that the person who debunks your mask is the one who values, cares, and longs to get to know you. If someone says something about a trait, hobby, or personality that you don't tell someone about, you'll be flattered and even start wondering if that person is interested or loving you.

Actually, I pity you, you need to face such a problem at the age of 14. You may have an inferiority complex, be unsure of your achievements, and think that you have achieved nothing. In fact, the divorce of your parents has a great influence on your thinking.

In addition, the neglect of your parents is also to the point where you feel that you do not feel the need to tell others the truth.

I understand your feelings and situation, but unfortunately I can't help myself. I can only say that if you can survive, continue to endure it, maybe one day the situation around you will change, and your view of life will also change; If you can't, talk to someone you can trust. I know you're probably going to vote no confidence in anyone around you, but I think a confidant is the ultimate ingredient in unlocking this shackle.

So try to explore the people around you, who know that your confidant is close at hand.

When my disguise is all broken, what --- will I do?

You are scared and try to avoid this situational ,..So, in fact, your real thoughts are--- I really want to live!! In other words, you don't want to die at all!

You're in adolescence right now, and we often call adolescence menopause, which are the two most turbulent periods, the psychological turmoil, and there is no change in mortality in these two periods

So first of all, you won't die, this worry can be removed, and then you can sleep peacefully

This kind of feeling, in fact, many people are a little bit, it was like this in that period, you look at the people around you, in fact, all of them are like this (help you uncover the true face of others!). ）～

Let it be, worry that you don't have to, it will pass like this And in the future, you can look down at your child with contempt and think: Sample, your mom and dad I have already experienced it back then, you kid is in the painful tempering Hehe, just kidding, but there is also a real ingredient.

Don't worry, it's normal, if you want to be really cheerful and sunny in the future, it's also feasible, a little sleepy, probably that's all, I hope you can dispel your doubts and sleep well

Everyone gives up on themselves for a while, and so do I. It's not a big deal, and that's okay.

Alone, listen to songs, think about happy things, think about your friends.

You can talk to no one and leave nothing until you calm down.

Calm yourself down, think about it, you can be depressed, but don't keep going like this, because it's easy to fall.

You can go and read the book quietly to calm yourself.

In fact, everyone's life has its bitterness I'm about the same I didn't get good grades when I was a child Some adults look down on me And then they say I'm the worst and worse than my cousins of the same age I think I'm the use of living and dying and having no courage And then I grow up and still respect adults Now I don't have any hatred for them I am quite grateful to them for making me suffer and make me miserable And then I can mature faster In fact, as long as you look on the good side, you can understand a lot You have family dreams They love you and you love them There are good things for you to keep You have good grades You still have to struggle You have to make your family happy Your friends care about you There are many people who help you You have to reciprocate You are happy You have a lot to do Although not all of them are not always But you have It is how I came here Come on.

Try to make a few more friends, you can make friends with older sisters and older brothers than yourself, ask about learning, talk about ideas, mature sisters and brothers will give you good advice. Pay more attention to some rich knowledge, expand your knowledge base, find what you really lack, read more books, watch exchanges, and make yourself a mature, happy and lively girl!

It's the process of your age, it's the way you're growing up, growing up,。。

What you need is an object that you can confide in. I'm 20 years old.,If you have something on your mind.,You can email me.。。。

Understand each other.

Why bother too much! Just be happy. Our world, they won't understand.

It's not anyone's fault, it's the world, life

Are you a Capricorn? This is also normal, sometimes the pain will be magnified, and the responsibility on oneself will be too heavy! There is no other meaning, you have to be careful, don't let your tears see hypocrisy! Come on! Life isn't like that!

You're a girl, aren't you? It doesn't have to be like this, I think it's because you're in adolescence and you're missing a mother's love. Why don't you go find something that interests you and don't think about it too much, because you're still young.

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