It seems like I m going to have a problem with my feelings, please help me

Explain it to him clearly.

There should be no suspicion between lovers, but only if you don't do things that make people suspicious; In this case, you have a reason to do this, but = for your boyfriend, it's a thorn in the coffin, and it's normal for a diaphragm, so you have to explain it to him and don't ignore it.

If he really cares about you, he will definitely listen to your explanations and understand you.

If he doesn't believe your explanation, then the feeling will be fine.

Viewpoint: Love is very sacred, treat each other sincerely, if there is a misunderstanding, then you must explain clearly, being together is fate, don't miss this fate because of face

But I didn't tell my family that they were always urging me, and I had only one way to convince my family that I had a boyfriend, so I wrote some of my friends' names in the margins of my room, and I wrote some very ambiguous words, which I wanted my family to pay less attention to these things, and I would have explained these things to him in detail.

Don't explain it, or it will get darker and darker. He will think you are dishonest.

Explain it once, and it's up to him if you don't listen to it.

If you talk too much, it will get darker and darker as you say upstairs, and in the end, even you will be confused.

If he really loves you, he won't care about those things that are just words.

Believe in the existence of true love, true love can be all-encompassing.

Pluck up the courage to talk to him clearly.

Don't let this misunderstanding continue to estrange.

It's not good for you and it's not good for him.

Be bold and believe in yourself as long as you are sincere, and he will know your heart.

You're pretty funny, too.

But I think I should hold him down and tell him carefully, so that he doesn't misunderstand.

Turn actions into words! Needless to say! If you don't want to lose him! Then you don't do anything that makes him misunderstand.

Why didn't you write your boyfriend's name back then?

If this man is suspicious, he is more terrible than a woman.

You tell the truth, if he can't believe it, then there is nothing he can do.

Do you want you to lie to him in another way?

Complicating a simple thing, asking for trouble.

What the truth is, that's how it is.

The most important thing for two people to be together is to be honest with each other,..There will always be misunderstandings and problems between two people. As long as you can have the courage to face and solve him. Everything will be fine!

As a relationship that has passed, it is better to let go. Let's not talk about the consequences of such a reckless invitation, just whether she will agree, what to talk about after getting together, and your emotional control are some very troublesome problems.

First of all, you were just tacit and did not have a more precise relationship, and this regret will affect your rational judgment. Secondly, after so many years, you don't know what life she is living, and you don't know that she may be disappointed after getting together now, and then regret the original miss or something else, it is better to let the feeling of first love stay in your heart in a beautiful form. Finally, since she hasn't been seen at class reunions for so many years, she will definitely not be invited by you easily, and even if she agrees, this unusual behavior will attract the attention of her and your relatives and friends.

This kind of thing is small and small, but big is also big. After all, both of them are adults and have their own families and responsibilities, so it is better to handle this kind of matter that is easy to cause emotional disputes.

The above is only a personal opinion, and the key is to do it yourself.

I think it's better not to meet, even if you have a clear conscience, but if your wife knows, what will she think? Now that we're all here, let's be relieved, everyone has their own life.

As a post-90s generation, I may not be qualified to speak. However, we all live in a China with a strong traditional color, and receive a Western-style open education. It's hard to live your own real life.

On the one hand, most of our parents and the people around us have a traditional vision, and on the other hand, we have our own dreams and hopes! My advice is: if you can let go of everything and follow your own psychology, then you should be brave enough to do it, because you think of contacting her, and as for what you want to say, you are saying what you want to say!

If you can't let go, you are worried about what people around you will think of you, this kind of worry, more than you are urgent to see her, it is better not to contact, because once you contact, the result is something you can't afford! However, I prefer that you don't go, the power of shock under tradition is really great! One of my sisters is because she is entangled with a man, and now her parents ignore her, her friends are unstable, and she has a mess!

I already have a family, so I don't want it, I can only take it as the best memory.

Don't meet again, it's best to keep a good feeling in your heart. Now you don't have anything to do with each other. Why bother her.

First love is the most beautiful thing. I also often dream of the boy I had a crush on in junior high school, the most innocent feeling at the beginning. But it's gone, forget about it.

You can get in touch, provided that you're a friend, have a meal or something, but I don't dare to say, that woman will make an appointment, or maybe, he's about to forget about you.

If your wife agrees, you must know that this relationship is difficult to explain to your wife, and the scope of involvement is very large. It is recommended that you do not contact!

Class reunions can be chatted.

Be a man, don't blame anyone, good people give you happiness, bad people make you grow, people who care about you give you warmth, and people who hurt you give you experience. We need to learn to be grateful for all that we encounter, and we must also believe that it is all the best arrangement.

Blaming others and complaining about others will only increase your own resentment and make you tired, so it's better to look down, it's better to change your mentality, it's better to think about the benefits, think about it, in fact, there's nothing weird.

Blaming others is tantamount to punishing oneself in disguise.

It's your fault, and you have no reason to blame others; It's someone else's fault, and it's useless for you to blame someone else. Instead of complaining, it is better to bury grievances, let others go, let others feel better, and let yourself go, so that you can be better. If it's wrong, it's wrong, just find a way to solve it, there's no need to hold on to it, let alone complain.

People who like to blame others are unwise, which is tantamount to punishing themselves in disguise. As long as others don't do it on purpose, be more tolerant, more understanding, less blame, and don't care too much about right and wrong.

In real life, if you observe carefully, you will find that in the relationship, the one who complains the most is often very bitter, tired, and unhappy, while the one who knows how to tolerate and understand often lives better and happier.

People who like to complain about others, they don't have a good life, and they don't want others to do well, he is not only punishing himself, but also punishing others. Therefore, if you want to get along well with each other, you must be more tolerant and less complaining.

If something goes wrong, you have to find a way to solve it, let alone feelings? If something goes wrong with your relationship, you have to find out what's wrong. How did it come about?

Is there a chance of redress? When you find an opportunity to remedy it and succeed in remedying it, your relationship will be stronger. And I wish you all happiness.

If she's deliberately disappearing, then her friend is an important breakthrough! I think she must have left you a way back (if she still loves you) but you haven't found out yet, think about it, come on! Thank you!

Do it on the time of the woman's maturity and follow the no, and the words are known to be ...Pick up the total affection and familiarity to help others....First of all, you don't really know the words of friends, familiar with her, she needs to show something else....Familiar with Pu Youmo from white? I feel that I am helping.

Distance is the most likely to cause emotional disputes. Be realistic. Let's find a time to talk. I wish you happiness.

If there is a problem, we must work hard to solve it, and we can't delay it for too long, because after a long time, everything will turn bad.

If something goes wrong, it's going to be solved.